i'm going out with a friend soon and he told me that he wanted some action. i know i haven't had any action for like months and i want it too. Just when i'm with a guy who trys to make moves on me i start to panic and back out before anything happens. its not like i don't want stuff to happen because i really do but i can't help panicing. how do i calm down and do stuff?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? A.Good.Lie answered Thursday August 5 2004, 5:48 pm: He told you he wanted some action? No offence, but that seems a little shallow. And I mean that in the best possible way. But moving on...the panicing. Everyone panics about this kind of thing at least once. Or else they're like, a major pimp. All you have to do is take a deep breathe, and just ask yourself what you're scared of. Are you scared of kissing? Of getting intament? I think you have to figure out what's making you panic before you can solve it. Maybe your sences are just trying to save this for someone more special to you, like an actual boyfriend. My best advice in this one is to hold off until you find someone that you really like, and then maybe you won't be so panicy.
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