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Question Posted Sunday August 1 2004, 3:00 pm

ok i had this bf that i was going out with for 6 months last feburary. and we broke up because he had to move. he moved to pa. and im best friends with his brother his sister and him still... and we all see each other a lot. i have had 6 bfs this year and none of them lasted more then 2 weeks i ended up ending them all. i still have all my exs notes.[the one i was dating for 6 months] and i still have everything that happend with us. its been over a year. and i really want to be able to date again. with out comparing my other bfs to him. he was the only one i ever loved. and i still love him a lot. and i kno i will always love him but im not sure what to do.

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lil_keefie_07 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 6:13 pm:
try to do things different with ur new bfs (example: go to different places etc.) give it some time. i went out wit this one guy for only a month, but i still really like. i've had a couple bfs since him, but i still have feelings for him and i think i always will. its hard, i kno, but i am tryin to "move on". HOWEVER, if u feel like u cant "move on" and u will only ever love him, then my advice is to let him kno this. maybe he feels the same way back, inwhich case u two can work something out. good luck!!! i hope things turn out wonderful for u

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MackinFame75 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:56 pm:
girl you need to give yourself time before u jump back into a relationship. has he moved on? well maybe talk to him he might still feel the same way about you and u might beable to carry on a relationship i mean if u still see eachother alot then it really shouldnt be a problem

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A.Good.Lie answered Sunday August 1 2004, 3:56 pm:
Sweetie, I went through the same thing this year. There's a statement from a song that I compared to my feelings towards him, and I figured out that I was doing exactly what the statement meant. "Holding on to feel the same." I think you're holding on to the memory of him because you want to feel the same way you did when you were with him. And I also think that you're not letting in other guys because you believe that they can't make you feel as good as he did. It's not an unusual problem, don't worry. You might have to go to the sorce with this one. Tell your ex how you feel. Maybe he'll support you and try to figure out a way to help. But I strongly believe that you have to bring it up with him to move on.

<3
~A.Good.Lie~

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Sunday August 1 2004, 3:48 pm:
awww...ur story its very sweet n sad at da same time...i dunno wut u should do...but may b u should talk to him tell him how u feel...n see wut happens...u kno sometimes its better to regreat something u did then something u didnt do...n if he dont feel da same...then just try to forget...it will last long...but wit time it will b okay...give other guys a chance :) xoxo effy...

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xlilcherrychic69 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 3:46 pm:
well talk to your ex about it..if your interested in dating him again then talk to him and maybe he wants to date you again to..i dont really know what to tell you of how to get over him..its just something that eventually happend

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