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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can












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I don't know why, but my stomach always hurts. It hurts at LEAST once a week. And it's not cramps, it's just like a stomach ache. But I get them all the time! I hate it, and I don't know what to do. The other day I got one in school and I had to go to my next class and I was afraid I'd get sick. I mean, I never do, but it feels like it. Does anybody know what this is, and what I can do?

you could be sick...or eat more food?

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hey, i need help really bad but i don't have anyone to turn to, and i really mean nobody. a while ago i "went through a depression stage" i guess you might call it, and it got really bad. i was builimic [sp.?] and i cut myself. [my parents and friends were compleatly oblivious to everything because i guess i'm a "good kid" and they never had to worry about me] i don't know how it stopped, but it just did. and now i think it's starting again, my parents suddenly decided we're moving and i feel like nobody wants me around, but i guess thats my fault because iv'e been pushing away the people that mean the most to me. i always want to be alone and i started keeping to myself a lot, like not talking AT ALL during lunch, unless someone asks me a question or somthing. when i get home i got straight to my room and cry, i don't know why though. and i started cutting myself again, i dug a knife into my wrist after dinner tonight and it bled and bled. i feel like i don't belong anywhere and i want to run away, but i don't know where i'd go or how i'd get far enough away from home. iv'e also sat on my roof after everyone in my house is asleep and thought about jumping off, but i really don't want to go to hell. i really need help [i'll "rate high" or whatever, just please help] -jeanine

you need to stop..i felt the same dont worry..truthfully everyone goes through this..talk to someone..be more open..your not the only one out there facing this problem..and its addicting

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i was wondering when a baby's unblilical cord is supose to heal and what age i should start bathing them at..thanks

im not sure sorry but go see a doctor

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Hey everyone, well i'm a little late with my period this month. I'm definitely a virgin but i was wondering if there was a reason that you could skip a period one month without being pregnant. answers anyone?

if your active you dont get it that often..if its your first year it skips a little

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hey advicenators! ok heres my story: me and my boyfriend have been going out since new years eve, and we see each other at school and hang out on the weekends, and talk at night, but it doesnt seem to me like we are going out! its basically like hes my friend, except we hug before we leave. how can i make it more like hes my boyfriend, and less like one of my friends? thanks guys!

kiss him,make out with him?? say i love you when you leave..hold hands

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Hey yall, i need help with a nickname...my name is Ashley i have nicknames like Asha,Ashems,Ashlynn but i dont like them! So can u help me out with a new cool nickname?
Thanks, Ashley

ash,lee,lee lee...or something about you, like you could be short and be called shorty

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Okay i have this friend named mary, she is one of the popular people and she is so nice, but all my other friend think she is a hoe..but she is not...they say i will turn just liek her is we start being best friends? What should i do? HELP PLZ!
Ashley

be friends with mary..if your other friends dont respect it then their not true friends

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I need to talk to my friend about something serioud but everytime i mention it, he changes the subject or doesnt answer or signs off aim. What should I do so I can get the message across that we really need to talk and its serious?

talk in person..so when he changes the subject say stop changing the subject or something like that..or write a note..it would help better to know why you need to talk

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anyone have any ideas on how to make a better school..i need a 3rd idea..other then lunch and a faster route home in an emergency- thxx

more or less people on your bus (if you ride one)i have like no one on my bus and its no fun..its boring as hell

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This is a serious question, so please don't joke about it. I know it's long..but if you read it, I'll really appreciate a decent answer. My friend and are both 13 and female. Yesterday at lunch my friend wasn't eating. She usually doesn't eat lunch, but I hadn't really caught on until now. I asked her why she wasn't eating and just said "I don't know". I asked her when she had last eaten a full meal and she said it was about a week ago! Only a couple of her close friends know this, but I was the most recent one to find out. Why aren't her friends doing anything about it? I've been thinking about it all yesterday and today. I had a long chat with her online last night about it and she answered some questions that I asked. One: I asked her (again) why she hadn't eaten in the last week. She told me it was a way to relieve "stress". She also said she thought of doing this, since it is better than cutting herself. Her parents are divorced so she says to one parent that she eats at the other house and vice-versa. Basically our whole lunch table knows this about her, so one of my friends buys her a snack everyday. We try to make her eat it, but she just turns her head and shuts her mouth. She said that she won't let it go that far. I told her that this is going to become a bad habit for her and she needs to start going back to her regular eating before it gets worse. I never would have expected this to happen to her. She's not fat (and she doesn't think she's fat either), she's NEVER sad (always happy and hyper), I just don't know. I know I have to tell someone about this. But I didn't think I would ever be in a situation like this. It scares me. She told me not to tell her parents or anyone else. I want to tell so badly..but at the same time, I just want to let it go! If I tell, I'm so scared I will lose her as a friend. I need someone to help my friend and me. Please.

i know you dont want to tell anyone..but you have to..this could go far even if she says its not..dont force her to eat though...even if she gets made at you,you should still tell..would you rather have her mad at you or asking for your help when shes on her death bed...this is REALLY serious!!

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Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =]

its peer presure..i think thats how you spell it, but it sounds like you dont want to do it and that all he wants to do it get in your pants...but thats my opinion..go as far as you want..but dont do it if you dont want to..your friends are nice because they care about you..i also think that your to young to date a 16yr..but its you not me

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i am a 13 year old girl, and i tried my boyfriend's ciggarette the other day, cuz i just wanted to try. he didnt force me into it, i just wanted to try ; like i just said. so then the next day i craved for one soo badly and i bit my nails which i never did before. and i just want some kinda smoke in mah lungs now ! am i addicted already ? what should i do ?

yes..theres nothing you can do but not do it...it causes cancer thats a big no no

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does anyone knows if Spencer's Gifts does belly button piercings cuz i rly don't want to go to a tattoo/piercing parlour! and i tried going to the website but its like under construction or something. thx!!

no the only palace you can get it done at is a tattoo/piercing place...you can just go its not really a big deal

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is the Sims Hot Date a two CD game??

no,but ita an expansion pack so you need the sims or the sims deluxe edition...and you also need the sims house party expansion pack

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I took like a week break from gymnastics and now I am going back tomorrow with a bunch of cuts on my wrist because I slit my wrists a few times over the week. I didn't think I was going to go back to gymnastics and I'm still not sure but I might and everyone will see the cuts and they're going to wonder what they are. I don't think they will believe it's from my cat. What should I say? I can't wear bracelets or anything over them that is noticable because we're not supposed to. Help!! How do I hide them?

make-up, or maybe a sweat band...dont even do it again it will cause addiction..thats a no no..i can understand how hard it is to stop but it can lead to bad things

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I just found out my husband has been cheating on me. We agreed to separate for a while because we can't live together right now. But he is still sleeping with this woman who is also married with children. He says he is not sure weather or not it is going to work out with her, that he doesn't know her, he is just living a fantasy right now, replacing what was missing in our relationship. He is getting attention he hasn't gotten from me in a while because our lives have been so busy. It doesn't make it okay, but our relationship is way to special to throw away and I want to work it out with him. We are going to couples counseling in a few months. I am having a hard time convincing him to stop sleeping with this woman, and I am thinking about sending this woman's husband the e-mails she and my husband have exchanged along with a letter I have written to him revealing the truth about what his wife has been out doing. But will this push this woman further into my husbands arms or will it make her and her husband focus on their own relationship instead of her focusing on hers with my man? Please help, I don't know weather or not to send it without everyone's advice out there!! Will it only cause more problems that will work against what I want (my husband back in my arms) or will it end the affair my husband is having?

he cheated on you! he betrayed you and your trust..also with another married woman..since he is still sleeping with her i would tell her husband because he has a right to know but they could probably get even more close...you should just go to the couples counseling for a little but once a cheater always a cheater,but if that doesnt work i would get a divorce because he did that to you..and i would think that you would get everything because he cheated on you..but thats your choice

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Okay, so, I like my best friend, but he has a gf...we dont live in the same state, and hes always calling me hot, and beautiful and precious and cute and everything, and I asked him not to do it, and he got mad at me, and now hes "bugged" by it and told me hes not gonna be the same around him until i tell him the reason....well the reason is that I dont want him saying it because it hurts me hearing it and not being able to HAVE him...but he cant know that. So what do I do??? Hes mad at me :(

tell him that...what the worst he can do??

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dear, helper i really need help! i am overweoght and i hate doing boring exercises and nasty diets ( i ahve cravings) so please give me some advice.

sincerly,
in need

since you dont like doing boring exercises you could maybe turn some music on and run..or since you have cravings you dont really need to eat that much because your taste buds are already enjoying the taste so you dont have to eat til your full..i no you might think im this crazy person but its true i saw it on tv

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Okay well I am 13 years old. I think I am one of the fattest people out their! I weigh about 105, and I am about 5,1 ½ .. There are like 4 people who tease me, and call me fatt because they know it gets to me, and I cry all the time. About 1 week ago I tried making myself throw up. It hurts, but I don't care. I am also on a diet. So the food I eat is healthy still get's vomited out. But oh well. But my two best friends ones a guy who I like love with all my heart, and one is a good girl friend of mine are so pissed that I do this, and tell me not to listen to what people think =/ They said if I continue to do it they'll refuse to talk to me.. Urg! I wanna lose a lot of weigh for summer, and stuff and this is a pretty good way to do it but I dont know because I dont wanna lose my friends anymore =/ .. Ekkkk what to do?

your not even close to fat!!your actually close to being under wieght..your on your way to an eating disorder,but if you want to lose weight that bad do it the healthy way.eathealthy food and excersise go to this web site and it will tell you your BMI and say if your under weight,normal,or over weight


http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm

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hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this

just go to a store and get a pregnecy test..or go to the doctors

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