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For my birthday, I'm going to a fair with a lot of friends. Then friday's for dinner. It should be really fun. The boy I like is coming and it makes me a little nervous. I really want him to like me and I'm starting to think he does. What can I do?
hey, just be yourself. dont change for him or anyone. if he doesnt like you for you than thats his loss. just dress cute, but not how you normally wouldnt. if you think you look good, chances are he does too. act confident even if your not. guys love confidence and can sense it. flirt a lot. keep eye contact. if you can stare each other in the eye for more then 3 mississppi seconds, hes interested.
What are some ways I can become more outgoing? I'm SO shy, and get embarressed over EVERYTHING. It's really bad, actually. =( I can't stand it. So is there any way I can be more outgoing and not so shy? Is there any way I can not be so embarressed all the time? Here's an example. My ex wanted to go on a roller coaster, but I told him no because I was embarressed. I didn't tell him I was embarressed but yea. I mean, I like roller coaters! I don't know what's wrong with me. =( PLEASE HELP!
hey, well thats weird. being embarassed over something as little as a roller coaster. why are you embarrassed? do you think other girls are prettier than you? do you pretend to be something your not? do you hold back your real personality because your afraid others will think your weird? decide and get back to me in my inbox.
So my cousin lives with me.But she's jealous of me - saying how get all this stuff when she has it.I've never done anything to her.She touches my stuff like all little sisters and siblings do.She's very rude and gets into trouble at school.But no Im so upset that Im crying because she took some of my jewellery and broke it and then took something of mine which has sentamental value,put it under the wheel of bed and started scraping my REAL jewells of and everything and she dont know whats it like for me -sharing a room and being the girl whos being hated.How do i control my stress because all I want to do is runaway and everything i own - really nice stuff i ALL GONE - and she denies it well shes admitted to it but she still lies
hey, wow thats a problem. try talking to an adult privately without her knowing. that way she cant interupt and scream "i didnt do it!". show them the pieces that she has destroyed and even go to them in tears if possible. only use real tears tho.
Maybe I'm just a person who feels this way, but when I give advice, half the people don't even respond to me, like give me a rating. Of course I know it's their decision to rate, but I really don't appreciate the fact that I spend a good amount of time answering a question, and the person doesn't rate me. Does anybody else feel this way?
hey, well i usually get ratings. when i dont get them for a question that i felt i answered to the best of my ability and gave a rather good answer, i get mad. most of the time people dont rate because the answer you gave isnt what they wanted to hear. other than that, there just lazy. on your advice column, write something like "i love getting feedback. its lets me know how well im doing my job. if i ever ask a question on the site i always rate. because you would want to know if you gave good adivce or not - right?". thats what i have on my column. it works well because i get a lot of ratings.
Well, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a month and half, about. I like him a lot, and my friend likes his brother a lot too. Both my friend and I found out yesterday, out of the blue, that they`re both moving to the state neighboring us. For me, its hared enough to see him because I have a strict father. I don't know I can handle him moving away because I'd never see him. I want to break up with him because I think its best, but he said theres a chance he might come back here if he doesn't like the new school. I don't want to break up with him now, just in case he comes back,but I don't wanna wait because then he might think I found someone else. I have no idea what I should do. Any advice?
[14/f]
hey, well sometimes long distance relationships work. then again, sometimes they dont. i would try it out if you really like this guy. maybe every weekend or every other weekend you guys can see each other. work some type of visiting plan out. other than that, it will be a phone/computer relationship.
Alright. I shaved most of my pubic hair a few days ago and it's already coming back.
It's not itchy, it just slightly hurts me.
I don't want to bother shaving there again, I don't trust myself to not cut myself somehow.
So I'd prefer to wax instead.
I can't go to any place...
Is there any home kits?
In how many days should I wax? / What length does the hair have to be?
I just really want the hair removed as soon as possible. It's really uncomfortable.
hey, well i shave also. yeah its a lot of hard work, but its much easier than getting waxed or even waxing yourself. with practice you wont cut yourself. ive only cut myself two-three times and ive been shaving for almost a year now. yeah it hurts for that split second, but the sting goes away after a while. also shaving is way more comfortable than waxing. waxing hurts a lot more and even stings a little longer after your done. you could also be allergic to the wax, which will cause itchy red irratation.
okay well i'm 13 and a female and i had already lost my virginity and this girl at school had found out now she's telling every one what should i do? i mean i don't want her to and at first she promised me she wouldn't tell any one then she goes off and tells the girls that will twist and spread rumors like "did you know so-and-so had sex with 20 different guys?"(when it was only one) or "yea she works at a strip club downtown"(i don't hello)
i don't know what to do and now my reputation is on the line.please help!
and thanks!
hey, alright well im 13/f as well. ive done pretty much everything to do with sexual activites, except actually have sex. i told one person who i thought i could trust. well big mistake, cause it got around. alls it did was get me attention from the boys and dirty looks from the girls. try to act like it doesnt bother you and admit that its true. dont deny it. denial is just asking for people to talk about it even more. just brush it off even tho it hurts inside [trust me, i know it hurts]. that way people wont be getting the satisfaction of seeing you get hurt, therefore they will just stop. the best thing to do in these situations are to just not tell anyone and to tell the person it happened with to do the same.
hey,
well i'm going to a sleepover, and we probably won't sleep, but ths morning my period came again and i thought it wouldn't till the 26th but its still irregular. and i was just going to wear a tampon because odds are we won't sleep that much and i think if we do sleep we'd go to sleep at like 3a/m and i have to leave at 10. so that's 7 hours. so i think i'll be okay. but what are some suggestions on how to handle this. just wear a tampon and change it ever 6-7 hours? because i refuse to wear a pad to a sleepover eww. hah
thanks~!
hey, well i would bring a little bag with the essentials in it. even tho you hate pads i would bring a few. along with tampons, panty liners, and some midol. you never know what youll want or need at the time, so its better to be prepared. i would go to the sleep over with a tampon in and a panty liner on.
Well, so there's this guy and we are best friends, i think. it's really confusing we've been best freinds for a year now and he has these mood swings like a woman. So anyways i just went up north for 5 days and he tells me when i get back that he dosnt miss me. but now my other best friend says that while i was gone he said this really mean stuff about me. Now just this wendesday which was the day i got back my best friend goes away. then she tells me that he sent her a text saying. - hey are you having fun yet I MISS YOU- it hasnt even been a day yet. now these guys have dated before and they found that it was a bad idea. so they dont like each other anymore. O and when we talk hes always bragging about how hes talked to her more and she blah blah with her more. It makes me so mad please help me understnad whats going on with him i feel like we are like an never ending rollar coaster.
hey, alright so youve heard he has said mean things about you. who did you hear it from? was it from a usually reliable source? if so you need to confront your "best friend" about it. ask him if he has been talking about you behind your back. if he has then hes not a very good "best friend". if you found out that its true, have a talk with him. if he isnt willing to change, ditch him. i know its going to be hard, but you dont need someone like that in your life at all. if its not true, you should talk to that girl hes hitting on. tell her that it makes you jealous and that if she doesnt like him, tell him and set the facts straight. also speak with the guy about that.
besides him asking you out
hey, well if he talks to you in a flirty way that shows that he likes you. lots of eye contact also shows that. another thing, if he pays more attention to you than all the other female coworkers. the best way to know for sure is asking him straight out or having someone find out if he has a genuwine interest in you.
Ok so I'm a year older then all of my friends. And I don't want them to know. I didn't get left back or anything. I have my reasons why I don't want them to know. So I'm scared that if one of them sees my school I.D. They will see that I wasn't born the same year they were. I'm so scared. I really can't tell them the truth don't ask why please. So I was wondering if someone can help me make up a lie. I kniw lying is bad but I'm desperate. This tortures me so much!. I need a lie to tell them why it says that I'm a year older. Like I don't know maybe my passport did that when I came here I seriously need help please!
hey, well i really think that you should just come clean and tell the truth instead of getting caught in a web of lies. but if you cant, just say thats its a misprint.
Is it normal for the guy who loves u to check out other girls? because i find it sorta disrespectful but i also hear its normal and im confused..
hey, yes its perfectly normal. no matter how much your guy loves you, his hormones will always be a part of him that take over. he will always check out other girls, just like im sure your like "oh, that guys hot".
could never quite comprehend that...
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Cant you tell when someone doesnt love you,
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Dont you feel when the love isnt authentic...
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Isnt the lovemaking so distanced and cold,icy cold...
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When you look in their eyes dont you see love dont
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live there,at least not love for you...
Why do most of you torture yourselves in that manner...
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why do you you spend x amount of money to hold on to
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a person that just does not love you the way you would
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want them to...
Why put yourself through such agony..where is your integrity...
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where is YOUR LOVE FOR SELF...
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where is it...
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What is so WRONG with many of us...
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Where is the RIGHT within that is standing for
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our defense....
YOU always know,deep down inside when someone just
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does NOT LOVE YOU...
hey, so what are you asking? send me a message in my inbox and maybe i can help.
I've had my laptop for about two months now and it has a total memory of 31.9 GB of memory. The problem is that I only have 5.20 GB left. I'm always getting new music/videos which I put on my laptop and it eats the memory. I've done the whole disk clean-up thing to free up some memory but there's still not a lot left and I doubt it will last much longer. My Dad says because it's a laptop it's harder to get more memory on it because it's all built in so I need to know if there is a way to get more memory and whether or not it's likely to be expensive.
hey, you should consult with a bestbuy assosciate. explain to them your problem and they will know what to do.
http://www.bestbuy.com
15/f.
is it true that diet soda is worse for you health wise than regular soda? i heard that drinking diet soda can make you gain more weight than drinking regular soda. is this true?
and what is the difference between diet coke and coke zero?
hey, well im going to do a google search for you and help you find out some information.
http://www.newstarget.com/diet_soda.html
http://www.dentalgentlecare.com/diet_soda.htm
you have to browse a little to find the parts about diet soda in each one, but there in there. if you want to google yourself, here you go.
is joining a gym extremely expensive? i've been asking my parents if i could join it for a year or two now. i know for a fact that i'm not going to join it and waste it and not go. i'm athetic and push myself, but i can't seem to convice them to actually take me to join. i think it has to do with the price. i'm thinking about joining either by myself or getting my mom to join with me. i'm thinking about worlds gym, if that's a chain and anybody else is a member too- but how expensive are gym memberships usually around?
hey, alright so i suggest joining with your mom. that way you will be more motivated, not want to fall behind, and not quit. it will also give your dad a better reason to go through with this whole join thing, because his wife wants to join. if she doesnt want to join you could also ask a friend or a different relative to join with you, dont join by yourself for the reasons ive listed above. worlds gym has an international website, but you sort of need to pick your location and visit that specific worlds gym website to get more information. i visited one in massachusetts, where i live. it says that you can make payments to pay for the membership. i also discovered that theres fitness classes. there is a gym mission, if your parents want to read there.
so heres the international website:
http://www.worldgym.com/
theres where you pick your location:
http://www.worldgym.com/lookup.aspx
you can also get a membership online.
I downloaded the free trial and I find it confusing to use. I love Painshop pro X but Photoshop is nothing like it.
On Paintshop, you can make your pictures clear, tan, whiten teeth but is there a way to do it on Photoshop CS2.
If anyone knows, please explain. Thank you.
hey, well i dont know too much about this product, so im going to direct you to hopefully helpful sources. you could do a google search and try to find what your looking for. i just tried to do one, but im not sure of the facts that your looking for.
there is always also the bestbuy option. you can go to bestbuy or call up the store and ask any questions that you have on the product.
http://www.bestbuy.com
i need help my comp is real slow
i've tried
-defragment almost every 2 days
-disk clean up
-a lot of spy-protect
-i use spybot
-and full comp scans
-my comp has capacity of 37gb and has 25gb of free space
-wut can i do besides getting more memory?
hey, well what do you have on your computer? windows 95, windows 98, windows 2000, or windows xp? if you have one of the lower ones, just simply upgrade. also if you have a lot of computer games, camera things, software, or spyware on there, that can also cause a computer system to slow down. if none of those things work try taking it to bestbuy and getting it fixed or remodeled.
http://www.bestbuy.com
i wanna have a really big butt! i mean huge, so what kind of foods should i eat that'll make only my butt grow but not any other parts of my body and what kind of exercises please help i am kinda desperate here! thanx
hey, well you can just eat more, but healthy. you dont want to go around eating burger king three times a day just to get a butt. what you want to do is eat healthy, but a little bigger portion than you would normally take. that way your eatting a little more just enough to grow a little. another thing you could do is just excersize and tone the other parts of your body. like do crunches, leglifts, pushups, etc. maybe join a gym with a friend or relative. that way you will be motivated not to fall behind, give up, or quit.
i like a boy a lot, and we're good friends. i always dress in pretty good clothing, like abercrombie, hollister, hard tail, ect. i also like to wear makeup. how else can i impress him?
hey, well you shouldnt have to "impress" this boy to like you. also you shouldnt have to change yourself for him. flirt a lot and keep eye contact. dressing cute is okay, but dont over do it. like yesterday at the mall i saw this girl in a wicked short skirt and its freezing out where i live, thats taking it too far. if you want flirting tips go to http://www.links2love.com