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When you are making out with a boy (yes I am a girl) where do you put your hands? Where does he put his. When making out what do you do with your hands? sorry i just want to know if you answer this with a good answer I will rate a 5

Where you feel most comfortable i would say around his neck if your tall enought to reach, if not around his wast.

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HELP! Im going to Florida in 2 days and i dont know what to pack!! Is it REALLY warm? Like what should I pack to go to Disney World ..has it been raining alot lately? Should I pack a pair of jeans? please be specific im going for 4 days - Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday. Thanks!

Shorts,skirts,take one pair of jeans ive been to florida and it was two warm for jeans. Tank tops short tops something thats breezy, and will keep you cool. Have fun.

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sorry i didn't know where to put this so i just put it here .. well a few weeks ago i found out that i was pregnant. i decided that im going to have the baby but the problem is that i have an eating disorder. i know it's probably bad for the baby but i've been doing it for so long that i can't stop. Does anyone know how badly it can hurt the baby or what it can do to it?
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It will hurt the baby of course it will if the baby isnt getting enough food and different types then it could die from the wron amounts. You need to see some body and you need to tell your parents. 14 is way to young to handle a baby on your own.

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my mom puts me down so much and i dont know what to do anymore...like if i do sumthin shell jus say sumthin rude about it and leave it at that...nothen i do ever is good enoguh for her..all the rude things she says to me makes me cry so much and she dont even think whut she says hurts me...i try to talk to her but she never listen...my dad is even doin it now to..i dont kno whut to do ne more..help

Tell her the truth say that you alway put me down which makes you feel bad, Say that your my mum and your ment to support me. Then see if she feels bad.

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If a guy liked you, and you liked him alot, and he is gonna ask u out, thenyou hang out with him at a bandfest with friends one nite and hes ALL over you but at the end of the night he doesnt even talk to you anymore or n e thing, not even a good bye or anything, would you think he doesnt like you anymore?? would you give up on him?? or keep trying cuz you like him ALOT!!

If you really like him alot keep trying, because it might be worth while he might have just been a bit of!

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Do u no what you do at prom? I heard something about prom that theres a grand march. What is that? Do u no what goes on during the dance? Like is there alot of fast dancing? or mostly slow dancing?

At a prom you dance! I dont no what a grand march is but i think its were everyone does the same thing. most people have learned then dance if you dont know it sit it out. There is both slow and fast a mixture.

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my mom is overweight, and i am not, however i want to tone my muscles an be in all around better physical condition. I wanted us to join a pilates class together, but she is afraid that's too strong of program to begin with, as we currently are not doing any sort of athletic activities. We were going to do yoga instead, and then move to pilates perhaps later...but my boyfriend said that yoga stretches your muscles and elongates them, but doesn't give you much exercise in the way we were hoping. Is this true? What should we do? all suggestions are appreciated! thanks!

Yoga does stretch the muscles, because you have to be in full positions with can strain your muscel, and that way you have alot more balance. Yoga isnt a quick way to tone up try other sports and do crunchies and sit ups.

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ok i have stretch marks on my legs (15/f) and i was wondering how the heck do i get rid of them? summers comming up and i dont want to be seen in a swim suit with stretch marks on my hip/legs...
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There is this cream called coco butter, get some stetch marks are usually from putting on weight keep health and if so lose a bit of weight. and you will look great. The coco butter will make them look finer but they will be still visable.

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A friend of mine likes my boyfriend. But she is going out with his best friend(we can call him Lee) She says she loves Lee but then tells other people she Loves my boyfriend and just likes Lee.. shes ubsessed with my boyfriend and flirts with him constantly in front of me.. how do i make her realize shes dating Lee not my boyfriend

Tell her straight say your dating lee and im date what every your bfs called. She shouldnt be acting this way because your friends and she should no that one rule of been friends done go out with exs or flirt with friends boyfriends.
Be honest and tell her that it bugs you, that she doesn that.

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my boyfriend kinda throws me around a little and im ready to get out what do i say?

Your dump dick head!
tell Him straight you deserve better.

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Okay...I have alot of friends. But, there is this boy that i have been friends with since like forever. But whenever he has a gf we dont talk at all. it's like we dont even know each other. If i talk to him, or call him his gf will think i'm stocking him or i like him. Someone help me....What should I do? If someone could help that would be great. Thanx

Tell him that! say that when ever he has a gf hes so distant from you and you miss talking to him about stuff. And that his girl friend doesnt like the idea of us two been friends.

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i am a 16 yr. old male. i am 6 ft. so i am thinking i dont have much more growing to do. my body is well developed. but anyways...i have developed a hard bump in my left nipple. some people have told me that its from peuberty and they all had it in like middle school. but i find that hard to believe b/c i wasnt a late bloomer or anything. and im just now getting it? is this normal?

I might be normal but just to be on the safe side id go see the doctor because it could be something serious.

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My mom wants me to be a total conformist: make-up, trendy clothes, dumb girl for a regular guy: you know. I really don't want to because it is so not me but she doesn't care. What do I do?
15/f

Tell her thats just not who you are, tell her that your older now and you want to have your own style and have boyfriends.

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my father abuses me what should i do

Tell the police! you should stay with your dad you need proper care away from your dad.

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i like this guy and he is sweet, attractive, and is so nice. He's funny and tall. One problem, got a girlfriend. He is so sweet tho and he pays more attention to me then his gf even tho i'm only his friend. Too bad his gf is my friend but not a really good one. He always flirts with me and i flirt back but is this ok?

I think that its not ok to flirt because he is your friends boy friend. Stop flirting you will feel better because if he breaks up with her then you can ask her if she would mind you asking him out.

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i dont no whats going on with me i thinking about cutting nd running away.do i have problems? should i see some1? anyone no ne more?

i rate high

When your down you think about cutting and running away instead of crying or solving your problems. Talk to a friend about it or go see a counsiller.

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ok...i went out with this guy for a while on and off then finally we just stopped going out...then one of my friends went out wit him and i wasnt that comfortable at first but then got used to it but still thoguht about him..they broke up for a couple days and i started liking him again..but they got back together..and i still have feelings for him...whut should i do!?

Let her have another go with him. Because friends come before boyfriends. And if then it doesnt work out ask her if its alright you two go out.

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what can drugs do to u?

1. They can kill you (some drugs can kill you straight away) 2. they can make you high which people say is a good feeling (dont no why) 3 there dangerous and expensive to buy. Some drugs that the doctor give you can help and make you feel better.

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well...tomorrow me n some of my friends might make a movie. well what are some ideas we could do for a movie? thanks ill rate 5!!!

When me and my friends go see a film we go see a chick flick, which has romance and funny bits in it. Have a good time.

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