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my boyfriend nd my best friend flirt all the time. i hate it! they say they dont like each other but i think they do. help!
ASk them abut it. Sometimes people dont relize how much they flirt and lead on other people. Tell your boyfriend or best friend how you feel. Hopefully they 'll understand ♥
my b/f is really annoying sometimes and he doesnt talk to me that much but i really really like him and i dunno know what to do? help
You should try taking to him more and hopefully he'll be talking back. If you like him enough, then you have to work on having a better connection and talking more. And hopefully you can get over his annoying side, every person has one. Hope this helped
this is not really advice but yah katee i love you and you kno i do haaa you might know who this is but yess you are amazing
Why thank you. I bet, no i know i love you too ;o)!
So.
I'm 14 and a female.
I like this guy a lot and he at least used to like me. Sometimes he acts like he still does but the problem is...he has a girlfriend. She has cheated on him several times but he just keeps going back to her. I want him to know that I still like him but I'm so afraid to tell him. Sometimes it feels like he's teasing me. He'll He'll be hugging some other girl and look at me as if to see that I'm watching. He also gives me this smile. Why would he tease me like that? and how could I tell him how I feel? I'm sorry the question is long.
Dont worry that the questions is so long =). If he knows you like him, and hes doing that hes a jerk deffinatly. Maybe he doesnt know u like him though and just finds himself looking at you? With liking someone therres always a risk. If he likes his girlfriend enough to keep going back to her, then it might be hard for him to like you cause hes so into her? Get what i mean. Bit if he seems likle he likes u still, then go ahead and tell him. If your scared, put everything you know infront of you and reveiw what youve got, and consequinces. Like, think of everything before you do anything so your not suck regretting it. I hope this helped. Good luck =)
my brother and i were in car accident recently and i was driving and totaled my brand new escalade. my brother told the police and our parents that he was the one driving so i wouldnt get in trouble since i had only had my licnese for a few months and he has had his for about 6 years. i feel horrible about the whole thing. should i tell my parents the truth or just let it be?
If your conscience is getting to you, you have to do what you think is right. I can't tell you what to say, cause this decision youve got to make on your own. Mainly, just do what you feel would be right. Hope this helped, and good luck.
i wanna make out with my b/f friend but i duuno really how to do it cuz like i just dont wanna run up to him nd start kissing him. nd i dont want my mom to find out i did it. wat should i do?
First if you dont want your mom to know, ask him if he can keep it a secrect. dont tell your friends, tell him not to tell his friends either. I bbet if you have a best friend you could trust thats fine, but dont tell like 10 girls cause you cant always trust everyone. Now with making out, it's kind of confusing to explain. You dont have to just go up to him and make out. Its easy if your watching a movie, or sitting by each other or cuddling. Standing up is easy to because your facing each other, easier then sitting down cause your bodies are turned, if you know what i mean? A easy way to make a move is if your saying "goodbye/bye". Like usually you would hug good bye, you can just hug and then turn in to make out. Now actually making out its self, just I would kind of go for a kiss, then gradually open your mouth, put your tounge in his( try spelling your name with your tounge), move it around some, then close your mouth(bringing your tounge in), and repeat =). Theres a first for everything so if you feel like you screwed up, theres always next time. I.m me if you need it explained more. Hope this helped, good luck!
So, I've liked this one guy for a LONG time. And we've been out a couple times, but it didn't work out, because I heard too mant rumors about him not really liking me/getting paid to go out with me or something. But he's, like, one of my best guy friends, and whenever I try to bring the subject up, I always get scared that it would be too awkward, so I back down. I've heard from a lot of people that he likes me, but I've also heard that he doesn't, and I don't know who to believe. I don't really want to ask HIM about it, because I'm afraid of being rejected, and I just don't know what to do. "/
So you guys are friends now, but you like him? Just bring up who he likes, or you can say, "remember when we were going out". To just get on the topic. You might start to flo, or things could be akward. But you never know if you never try. If i was in your situation, Id just be like "so who you do like these days", to get on the topic. Hope this helped =)
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ok so theres this guy at my school that i really like. i know he used to like me alot but i dont think he still does. but really i like him but he doesn't know. we used to be really good friends but know we dont really talk anymore. i want to tell him how i fell but im afraid he will think im stupid or something.... Please help me
Try being really good friends again. Start off talking first, then becoming friends, and better friends. Then maybe if he liked you before, he will like you again. I dont think droping the "i like you" bomb when you dont talk alot is good cause he might just be like, "okay"? Just try geting as close areyou were before, then take things from there. Hope this helped =)
okay. so basically im like in love with this guy. i fall in love too easily. but this kid is amazing! i mean like perfect. hes gonna be at this party im going to. but i get sooo nervous around him and i get butterflys in my stomach and all. he doesnt kno i like him, and all my friends are telling me to tell him. but im really afraid of being rejected. what do i do?
Theres always a chance of rejection. My though, is dont expcet anything good, so if it doesnt happen then you wont be let down. If your at a party, try and getting to know him and talk to him and stuff. If you dont know him at all, and you tell him, he might be like "okay"? Hope this helped
hey katie k for myspace like under the pic how do you put an icon because every time i try it doesent workk!!help lol oh by the way this is kellyy so im when u get thiss pleasee luv yaa kell
You can go to a image hosting site, www.tinypic.com is good. Then host the picture you want, copy the code (im pretty sure the first one). Then take the "url" border 0, that part out. If you dont get it i.m me and i'll help ya out. xx0
ok. well i have liked this one girl for a long time and i dont think that she likes me whatsoever and now she is going out w/ someone else. and i just want to get over her. i dont want to like her i like i do anymore. how do i do it???
Hang out with other girls, and try and forget about her. Maybe just like, dont hang around her as much and just im sure if you meet new girls it will be easier. Try not thinking of her. getting over someone is never easy, it takes time and alot of hard trying. Hope this helpedd
ok i really like this one guy. and this summer we liek make out at the movies. but now he going out with this chick n shes so fake. but i toold him i liked him. n now he doesnt talk to me. wat can i do? and i gave him head last nite.
I would try and just forget about him. Maybe just be like, okay this is how i feel about you, and just tell him and be like if you dont want to talk to me fine. Just try to forget him, cause if hes a dick then theres no point and getting hurt so much.
okay so i like this guy but i know my friend does too. my friend doesnt know that i like him though, and i dont want her to get mad because she really likes him a lot. help?
How much do you like him? Think if your friend likes him alot, and you dont like him as much.. then if that was me, I would let my friend have him. But if you like him just as much as her, tell her. If you have to not be with him cause she is, dont you think it would be the same the other way around? If he doesnt mean that much to you, then I would put my friendship first. Hope this helped
i want a sn with my name in it.. my names tracy.
T r a c y xx
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tracyy x33
omfg tracy x3
likewoahtracy x3
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i.m me for more. if you like any and they dont work just try spacing differently or something. hope this helped
i need a new screen name. what should it be.
um, i.m me at s kk a t a n i c, so you can tell me about what you like or what you want your screen name to be like. i'd be pointless to give out sn's like, if its totally not what you want. but i.m me and i'll try and think of one for you.
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Last summer, my best guy friend and I got a little "closer", if you know what I mean. We didn't do anything sexual, which I really liked about it. It was just stuff like cuddiling and holding hands and stuff. But then something happened, and everything went wrong. And I don't know if it meant anything to him, but it sure meant something to me, and I still have feelings for him. But over the summer, we had lost touch. But now it's back to school, and we've sort of become friends again, and he's almost acting how he used to. He really hurt me before, though, and I don't know if I want to give him a seconds chance. I also don't even know if he really does like me in the first place..
you're helpy would be much appreciated. "/
i think, that before you give him another chance or even consider it, make sure he likes your first. if not, if you give him another chance and he doesnt like you, im pretty sure you'll be super hurt. maybe just try to get back to how you were before this, before summer, or how you were durning summer.. before you try liking each other again. being friends before your together i think, is alot better cause then your sure if you like someone or not. i hope this helped
okay, so this guy asked me out. & he said he liked me and all and i was soo happy. well now he keeps getting pissed for stupid stuff that isnt even true, its almost like hes making excuses to be mad at me. we have barely even going out & hes already fighting with me. all we have is constant arguing but i love him so much. what the fuck do i do.
i would just try and explain to him what your going through and its not that easy, and be like ''look im sorry but im really tring to make this work and ive beenhaving alot of stuff lately''. tell him how much he means to you and that you would hate to loose him and are sorry this is all happeneing. i thope this helped.
so basically i fell in love with this guy. he loved me too but he had a girlfriend which was not good and he loved her alot. and we talked and stuff and he said he loved me. and i became attached. then all of a sudden he was like i cant do this anymore and we can be good friends. im going to try to be good friends but i dont no if it will work out. how can i not liek him.
you might have to spend time away from him and try hanging with other guys. instead of being with him all the time, just hang around some one new and maybe you can start liking them. thenn, if u start to like another guy, you can try to hang out with this guy more. hope this helped.
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i dont want to live anymore.
everything is falling and falling apart.
im loosing everthing i ever had.
i hurt so fucking much.
it even hurts to breath.
i see him everyday.
& then people tell me its okay & ill get over it.
they are so wrong.
if your loosing your love, or heartbroken, thats no reason to not live. you probably have alot more to live for the just a guy. like think of friends and family and what you'd miss out on in life, and im guessing this is a teenager.. and if thats the case then think how many more guys you'll see when your in college, or like older and stuff. just think what makes you happy and concientrate on that stuff.