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I'm 14/f and there's this guy that I really like. I think he MIGHT like me too, but I'm not sure. What are some clues that boys make to show they like a girl? Like what are things they do around that girl to show he likes her?

Flirt with him. Smile, laugh, dont dumb yourself down though.. its really fake when girls act ditzy around guys. Be yourself (better for him to like you as yourself then have him only like you because you were acting differently, if you get what i mean). Talk to him, be cute, act fun. But dont act clingy if he doesnt seem to like you back cause then he will be getting annoyed with you. If he likes you, he might act shy depending on the guy. But if not he should like talk to you, smile at you, you might catch him staring at you. Hope this helped

Katie

f/12

So i really like one of my guy friends but he doesn't know. I want to tell him because i think he might like me but im not really sure. I dont just want to ask him because if he doesn't like me i dont want our friendship to be weird after i tel him.
please help me ,thanks

You could have one of your friends be like, "so who do you like" and ask him. Or you can think which is more important, a chance of going out with him, or your friendship. Im sure if you did tell him, after a while your friendship would be normal again. Hope this helped ♥

Katie

Hey, ive been going out with this guy for a lil over 2 months, and he is awesome..i love him soo much. He's 15 but with christmas coming up i have no idea what to get him!! Please HelP!

I think it'd be really cool to find a concert you two can go to of his favorite band or a band you both like. Or making a scap book with pictures of you two is very cute. Colonge is always something nice too.

Katie

i was talkin to a freind of mine on msn the other night and we came up with sum wierd questions and one of mine was what the feck does viagra do for girls (the person i was talkin to is a girl and she has no idea either)

aannywaaay question plain and simple: what does vigra do for girls? i am 15 but i have heard all the words before so dont be affiraid ta be too graphic lol

There was an episode of Sex and the City, and Samantha took viagra and it made her like, kind of more sexualish and intesne. Im not sure if its true. It might not do anything, but just saying that it was on Sex and the City. Haha, hope this helped..

Katie

How can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating on you? Are these signs for sure to prove he's cheating? Thanks in advance.

I heard from one of my family members that people who cheat on someone are always worried that someone is cheating on them cause they know how easy it is to do. Just be aware of away messages, any text messges you see on his phone, calls, who he has been hanging out with lately. But you dont want to like watch his every move cause he might get really mad that you dont trust him (he is really isnt cheating). Hope this helped ♥

A long time ago i did "stuff" with this boy.
But i seem to think about it alot.
Do you think he feels the same way?

He probably cant forget that kind of stuff. Im sure he things about it. Maybe not as much as you, but I guarnette it crosses his mind.

my b/f like sometimes makes me cry just becuz he like makes me sad by some stuff he says. what should i do?

Does he say stuff about like, past relationships? I think if he makes you cry then tell him you dont like some of the stuff he says. Or say that it isnt really nice to hear that from him. He should understand. Hope this helped ♥

this is gi and tay. we love you katee. mhmmm you are likee soo amazing =]

love taylore nd Gianna

Thanks bunches guy. I love you both times forever.

no i mean like on aim how to you define a custom color. like on your font or window box

I think you need to have a certian version of aim to define custom colors. I think its called Aim Trition? But a way to get a differnt color then the ones they give you. You can find color codes in alot of places, like just google color codes, or if you like a color used in a layout you can find that code somewhere in there if you look Once youve got your color code, then go to My Aim, and save buddy list. Then once its saved, go to My Aim again and click load buddy list. Once your at the file, right click and hit "edit". Scroll down to "IM" and there should be font color and font window down there. Just replace your font color, or font window color (whichever you want) with your color code you picked. Then just exit the edit box and it should ask if you want to save or not. Then open your saved buddy list and your color should come up. Hope this helped ! ♥

How do you like define custiom colors or like mix them to make a darker or lighter shade???

For what, paint? like on your computer. If your on paint just go to colors, then click edit colors and there should be a nother clickable that says "define custom colors". Im not sure if you meant paint though. Maybe if you want a new font color like a one besides the 50ish they give you? You can go to a site like,
http://www.webmonkey.com/reference/color_codes/

If you need more help i.m me or sompething. ♥

i am a girl
who is 12
=]
okay so this boy. i just relized that i actually like him. one of my bffs is his gf tho. but i rly like him. a lot. but i don't wanna hurt my freinds feeling by her knowing that i like him. he sometimes acts like he likes me. but i still don't know if he does. and i don't really want someone to go up to him and be like 'do u like ____' becuz that is too obvious. so i don't really know wut i should do because i REALLY like him. i wanna go out with him but he has a gf =/ help

Does your friend like him alot? If she does I would say try not to like him cause friendship should be more important then a guy. If she doesnt like him that much, then ask her how she feels about him and maybe after an amount of time they will break up and then you can be free to like him iwthout hurting your friend- you never know how long you'll have to wait, so before you do you have to decide if hes worth waiting for. You can also try talking to him about it too.

Ps- i just answered a question like that =)

okay . so i just realized that i like one of my good friends (thats a boy) a lot. but one of my bffs is goin out with him. they don't rly act like they are going out because like they never sit by eachother at lunch or anything and they barely ever talk . but anyways. yea i rly like him and i wanna go out with him but i don't wanna hurt my friends feelings about liking him. and this boy also sometimes acts like he likes me. but i still don't kno. and i hate having people ask him if he likes me because that too obvious. so i hope u can help. sorry for the long question

Does your friend like him alot? If she does I would say try not to like him cause friendship should be more important then a guy. If she doesnt like him that much, then ask her how she feels about him and maybe after an amount of time they will break up and then you can be free to like him iwthout hurting your friend- you never know how long you'll have to wait, so before you do you have to decide if hes worth waiting for. You can also try talking to him about it too. Hope this helped, good luck ♥

i am the one whos boyfriend kissed another girl & now everyone is tellin me to break up with ihm but i liek him to much to !! whats should i do ??!!

Everyone is telling you to break up with him probably because he cheated on you and some people might think you deserve better. If you like him enough, and believe he wont cheat on you again.. then dont break up with him. But if you think he will do it again and you dont want to get hurt, try taking a break.

ello katie. i love you like i love my katie

HEHEHEHEH!! i love you gianna marie.

i was wondering where you got it?
it says layout by dustin but i don`t know if i`m supposed to e-mail that or what?

thanks.

Um, I just picked out a solid white background. Then for the side bar color.. i inserted a url. I got mine from a layout i liked, so you find a layout background you like and pick out the url of it and insert it. Hope this helped

heyyy KT DROZD! girl i love you your thheee bestt

HAHA OH HECK YEAH I LOVE YOU AND GIANNA. you two are my girls forever. hahah yeah dont you love when i trip over the mat. lmao

i love you miss crazy lady!

BECCA?
if this is you give me your sn hahah/
if not, i love you too!

i am a girl going out with this boy & he kissed another girl when i wasnt there cuz he was playing "truth or dare" & he makes me so mad sometimes. helpp mee !!!!

Tell him.Iwould be mad if my boyfriend did that to me. He should have said, "i have a girlfriend". Tell him that it pisses you off.

my friend think that me and her boyfriend always flirt and it makes her so mad that she wont talk to me for the rest of the day. help

Tell her your not flirting with him. Or try just not flirting with him or talking to him for a day and tell her your sorry and dont mean it.

i need a new screename what should i have help my name is kelly and i love cheerleading something with both of those?

kelly bell xx
0oh xx KeL
omfg kelly x
likeKELwoah
___xcheer (your school or mascot)
kickn x twist
SPiNandd flip (or spin and kick, or cheer, or jump)
... basically you could add together to things having to do with cheerleading and have a pretty cool sn.

you can i.m me for more, those are just some off the top of my head. if you like any of those and they are already taken, just try changing them up a little. hope this helped

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