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Cheating?
How can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating on you? Are these signs for sure to prove he's cheating? Thanks in advance.
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The most you can really do is see how he acts around you. See if he's always tending to be "busy" lately and can't hang out with you anymore or if he's strangely distant whenever the two of you are around together.
Also, see how "sweet" he's being. Now, I don't know if he's naturally really sweet or not, but if he normally isn't and he's sitting there being like,"You're the greatest girlfriend in the whole entire world. I love you so much. You're beautiful, you're gorgeous. You're my world." You know, really buttering it up, he may be feeling guilty towards everything if he did cheat and he's trying to make you feel good, and make himself feel less lousy at the same time.
Also, just watch out for any myspace comments from girls, away messages, texts, anything that seems very out of the ordinary. Now if a girl comments him and is just like,"Luv ya, you're the best." Or something, don't blow things out or proportion. It may just be a friend whose a girl, you know? But if she's sitting there like,"I had a blast last night! You're the best, I love hanging out with you. <333333" Or something like that, and it was just him and her, and he told you he was busy that night, then I would be highly concerned.
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If he's always away from you. When he says he's busy or he has work. (If you know where he works, go check up on him or something.. Ask a co-worker if he has been there)
Don't go overboard and check his email, text messages or anything like that. Because if you don't have any proof of him cheating then it will come out wrong as.. you don't trust him.
Maybe he's not cheating.. but if he won't hang out with you or anything, then I think there's a problem.
And the thing about public affection. If he doesn't do that anymore.. then yeah.
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I heard from one of my family members that people who cheat on someone are always worried that someone is cheating on them cause they know how easy it is to do. Just be aware of away messages, any text messges you see on his phone, calls, who he has been hanging out with lately. But you dont want to like watch his every move cause he might get really mad that you dont trust him (he is really isnt cheating). Hope this helped ♥
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Well, first things first, don't assume at all that you're bf is cheating on you because if he isn't, it will get .. a little messy.
If he's good at cheating, there really won't be cheating going on. But if he's blehish, then
If he hasn't spoken to you often (IM, Email, phone, etc)
If he doesn't like PDA that much anymore (hugging, holding hands, etc)
If he keeps on saying that he has too much hw, he wants to hang out with the guys, and whatever else he says when you want to do something with him.
If you don't know where he is half the time he says he can't go to the movies with you or something.
I would suggest that you don't confront him or go aorund saying I think my bf is cheating on me --- anything along the lines of that will be a no no unless you have facts.
Stalk your bf to see if he's telling the truth when he says he can't hang out or something like that.
Haha just don't get caught =]
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hey, signs that lead to cheating are vye notiveable. they are if he doesnt call so much anymore, if he doesnt say i love you that much anymore, and if he cant hangout with you because he has something one repeatedly. the famous line is "i have work".
-missadvicebitch1
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