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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
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no, there is nothing wrong with you at all. I know that many poeple in my grade have never kissed a girl and vice versa for girls. Your time will come.
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Okay...There's this guy that likes me at school. And he's really short well for me anyway because im 5'4 right now. He doesn't bother me at all, but it's his friends. All they do is say things like "Will you go out with him, do you like him, he's in love with you!!". I wouldn't have any trouble with it if they didn't harass me every minute. It's just so distracting because now every time a guy asked me if i like him i scream, "NO I DONT GO THE F- AWAY!" or something real close to it. Im at the end of the rope because it's been happening for osme time now and i cant seem to know what to do! please help me!!! thank you
signed,
stressed out! (link)
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aww man thats a tough situation. You need to take this guy to the side and calmy and nicely let him down. You need to tell him he's a raly nice guy and compliment him but that he's not for you. After you let him down mention to him that he has to make his friends stop harrassing you and that it's really annoying. If they still continue you need to tell them that you alrady told the guy that you don't like him and that they should just give up and stop asking you every 5 seconds.
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Ok, im 7ft tall, and of course a guy. It seems like every time i approach a girl shes always so afraid of me. She never wants to talk to me and hold a convo. w/ me. When people do talk to me, they always ask how tall i am, then sit and stare. Why are girls so afraid of me? and how do you suggest i cure this problem, and maybe advise on how to keep the convo going w/o it dropping off at how big my feet are. (link)
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Wow..people are weird lol. Girls shouldn't be afraid of you because of your height. Yes are tall, but that doesn't affect your personality. If a girl starts to just sit and stare at how tall you are try and turn it into a joke and that will loosen up the tension and then you both can start a convo, if it comes up again you can just brush it off and continue the conversation. Hope i helped :)
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i'm not allowed to go out on dates till sofmore year in high school... but this really cute guy i like wants to go to the movies with me... wut should i do?
signed...
** over protected* (link)
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hmm..Depends what grade you in. But i think that you should try and convince your parents into letting you go because you are responsible and that as soon as the movie is over you will call them and that he is a trustworthy guy. If they still don't want you to go, you could offer that they see a different movie at the same time, while you both see your movie so they could be there but not really with you. I hope i helped :)
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k.. im a freshman, and i like a junior.
my friend to the guy i liked him and told him she would show me to him and then he would decide if he wanted to talk to me or not.
I really like this guy. And i dunno wut to do. Cause wut if he says im fugly or something. I dunno wut i would do. But i dont want that to happen.
Hes gonna meet me on friday n i wanna kno wut i should do and wut i should act like and how i should look and if he does wanna talk to me what to talk about.
Thanks soo much!
*Confused n Scared* (link)
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hmm..What i think you should do is just be urself and act friendly. I know it sounds corny lol but if you act like hes one of ur buds and a good friend he will see ur tru personality and prolly really like u. cuz i know that if i like a guy i get really nervous and shy, which isn't good. You guys could talk about higschool and what you both think of it, or music, and things you both have in common. Wear whatever you feel good about urself and in and feel comfortable wearing..bst of luck with u and this guy :)
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Okay, well for my Life Management class, I have to work 10 hours of Community Service for free. I'm not sure what to do, I'm really interested in basketball. She told us that cleaning for a basketball team would be considered community service. I was going to ask the local WNBA/NBA arena if I could maybe clean the locker rooms or clean SOMETHING for them maybe 2 hours a day, but I don't know how to do that [ask them]. And they would probably reject that idea. Can you help me think of Community Service Jobs i could do that would interest me? I enjoy basketball, volleyball, and shopping. I also like music.
Thanks SO much in advance for any help! (link)
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Hmm..You could try asking them and see what they say and if that doesn't work out maybe you could help assist coaching a kids basketball team, or maybe volunteer at a home who has underpriveledged children and teach them about sports and basketball. I know this doesn't really involve anything ur interested in, lol but maybe you could read to kids a a library..hope i helped :)
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Hey, do you guys know any styling products that you can put in your hair while its damp and makes it straight when you blow dry it? Thanks (link)
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Maybe uhm..straightening balm? I tried this straightening balm by Go2b. and it was pretty good, sorry i haven't tried any other types..but i hope i helped :)
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I'm a 15 F. This boy likes me .. almost all the girls that I've talked to like him or think hes cute. He's really shy though... He gets his friend(who is my friend too) to come up to me and say that he thinks I'm cute and ask me questions. All he's ever really said to me is hi or bye. I think it's really cute that he's shy and it shows that he's not rude or agressive like the other boys. Well the thing is.. I'm shy too and I dont know how to get a conversation going when he's with his group of friends and I'm with mine. Any ideas? (link)
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aww thats so cute! Maybe both of your groups of friends could go out and do something together so u both coudl talk but u both could talk to ur friends too. Maybe talk about school, sports, music, tv shows..n e thign u guys have n common.
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well my hair is like a bit past my shoulders and its kinda frizzy or like idk it doesnt stay straight and isnt very smooth/silky... or like it will always dry out when I dont blowdry it or itll just kinda go different ways at the end even when I do. I dont know what to do about it if you could help that'd be great. thanks :-) (link)
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Maybe you could straighten it with a ceramic straightener and put defriz int it, like frizz-ease for straight hair..and tfor shampoo you can use a shampoo for smooth and sleek hair so it looks shiny. Hope I helpe d:)
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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days? (link)
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It depends on the person, it is different for everyone.It can range from 3-9 days around.
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omg , ok . hi , ok im 14yrs. old and i hav a frend whos 18 named mike . ok he's not in school nemoa and he graduated and he's goin to miami tomorow and invited me to go and a few othr ppl , but im so scared cuz what if i get caught skipping and if my parents find out . i dono what to do . it sounds so much fun tho . help!!!!! (link)
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If i were you i wouldn't go. He is a lot older than you, and you should try and stick with some friensd who are in your age group. You guys could make a plan that is close to your home where you know ppl.
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Let's call my best friend Cee. Whenever Cee starts getting close to someone new like a boyfriend or another friend (girl), I become slightly jealous, but I never tell her because she always gets mad at me for it. Now, we'll call this new girl, Jane. Cee has befriended Jane because they have French together. We're sophmores, and Jane has a lot of classes with freshmen because she moved from somewhere else and now has to take those required classes, so Cee is her only sophmore friend. I'm just worried that Jane will cling to Cee and I'll always see them together. Also, Jane's real name is the same as my nickname that Cee calls me! That just gives me a really bad feeling about this. What should I do? (link)
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hm i know exactly how u feel, this happened to me too one time ..except the girl wasn't new. I think what you should try and make a few plans with Cee for the weekend or something so you guys can spend some time together and still stay tight. But you don't want to make so many plans that she gets tired of hanging out, u want to give her some space too. Since you both are best friends, and if she is a good friend she won't just dump you for this new girl. You guys are best friends and she wouldn't just leave you in a second. If u want, you could b like o so i noticed that you started hanging with Jane a lot, is she nice? And she what she has to say about it. I hope i helped ,
if u need n e thin else..jus drop one in the inbox :)
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i have a majer crush on a kid named matt at school and he like me to but now im moveing what shold i do
signed
mix up (link)
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aww that sux! it depends how far is moving and if u wanna try and have a long distance relationship or not. If ur not into that than u mite have to move on :-/ unfortunatley.same thing happened to me too...best of luck
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i went broke wen i went to princeton n so did my friend. we toook the dinkey in n wen we came back the machine wouldnt except pennies n the conducter wouldnt trade us for 10 pennies for a dime !!! does he hate me????
ps i thought the conducter was hott!!!!
oo n i saw a mom giving her kid a ciggarete n then he like ahtes me n my friend !!! wut should i do?? (link)
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wow u are in quiete the predicament here. First pf alll ui need to bring 20 dollars to princeton and then u ned to tell the rickys candy man UR LIFE STORY so he laughs and gives u free candy. Then the machine is amoron becuase apparently my mother told me that that machine never does and she thought i was cray. The conductur does hate u yes, cuz he claerly could hold penniues and then the cigarete man is crazy and he says "FINNNNE" and does hate u. hope ihelpe d:)
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Ok well I was going out with this girl who i started to really like. Then all of the sudden one day she broke up with me sayin that she liked me and some1 else. She said that she needed to take a break but she liked this othat kid that goes to my school. Im not sure if we broke up cause i did sumthin or cause we go to different schools. But then l8ter that night she asked me if like next summer we could ever go out again.
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i think that she is just very confused and likes two people at the same time, i'm sure its nothing u did its just that she wants to be fair to u and not keep goig out with u since she likes 2 ppl. wen she asked if next summer u could go out again, i think that means that she feels bad breaking up bc she still likes and would want to go out again wen she is not confused and liking 2 ppl...hope i helped :)
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It wont let me veiw my column! it just goes to a blank page like it hasnt loaded yet but it never loads! I want to see my feeback and everything. DOes anyone know why its doing this? Am i doing something wrong? (link)
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Hmm maybe it it something with ur computer? Have u tried to check ur site on a differnt comp? maybe u can try clicking refresh or delete ur internet history..idk im not really great wit comps sry.
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OK...i went to "browse columnists" and i couldnt find myself!Is there something i need to know so that i can find myself cause i rly want to see how im doing!thnx 4 answerin if u can!xoxo (link)
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hm maybe if u recently update it will showh u cuz that happened to me too, sometikmes it just does that idk y lol, but try updating ur site and then checking..hope i helped :)
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okay well i like this guy but we dont really know each other very well. i mean we tried going out but it didnt last oviously. so i want to make plans wth him so maybe we could try and get to know each other better? but im really scared to call him. and i wait for him to come online sometiems but he hardly does sinse. so like i think she shud wait for school but we dont have any classes together. what shud i do!! (link)
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hmm maybe you could text him, or you could go oyt wit a group of ppl and have a friend ask him if he wants to hang out wit u and some other ppl so that way u can hang out with him but u wont have to directly ask. hope i helped :)
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im 13, and my best guy friend asked me how far ive been with a guy. ive never been kissed and i told him i have but now im scared he'll be like WHO idk why i lied but i felt bad so what should i do? (link)
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well if he's ur good guy friend i dont think he wioll mind..but u dont gota bring it up unless he does..or if u wanna clear ur concience u can tel him u were kiddin arond or sumtin
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okay there's this guy at school...his names chris and i've liked him for a year now and last year we had 4 classes together and this year we have 4 classes together again! and we've been talking alot and he's sooo hot! and last friday night at the football game he sat down by me on the hill and i pulled out a pack of gum and he said "you know you wanna give me a piece of that right" and so i pulled out a piece and tried to hand it to him but he wouldn't take it...so i was like "uhhh" lol and he said "my arms are too tired i need you to unwrap it and put on my tongue" and omg he stuck out his tongue!!! i laughed and blushed and did it and then we just talked the rest of the night! does he like me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? HELP PLEASE!!
~*lashes*~ (link)
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haha thats really cute, he mite im not sure if u guys hookuped up or not it sounds like u didnt, but idk. he is definalty be being flirty n stuff and he mite like u 2 and was tryin to give u hints about it..wait a little while and see wat elese he does...sounds like good news though! hope i helped..:)
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