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Obviously I'm a newbie...
so I was just wondering::
how do you get ratings?
are they a good thing?
is it bad if you're not rated?
thankks for any answers! :]]

~Topaz

Hannah's answer was very thorough, but I would like to add something on.

Although it's not an official 'rule', I highly suggest that you not repeat answers.

If you come across a question asking for song lyrics [this happens quite often], and it already has 1-2 answers; there is no need to answer a third time stating the same thing that the other advice givers have already posted.

Answer your questions like you mean it, and I'm sure you'll be getting high ratings in no time.

If you have any other questions, feel free to message me!

well i like the guy in my class.
we talk, and such.
if i look at him, he sometimes is looking at me, or atleast in my direction.

but like do guys try to show off or bring attention to themselves more if they like a girl,
like the kid who sits next to me at the end of class he comes over and is like how many pushups can you do, and then hes like show me, and then the kids like show me you doing pushups, so like they just go on, right infront of me.

and he smiles at me, and stuff.

and like his friend whos a sophmore always says that like the guy i like owns me, and he calls me like my name, and then the kids last name, and he says im his wife and stuff. idk
but like they joke around about it, and today his friend says woah better keep your wife on a leash, and hes like i will, but then he like paused and looked at me, and said but i wont hold it, or something like that.
does that mean anything?

like do i have a chance, and the whole, do they show off thing, do they?
and what are other ways a guy usually shows he likes you.

sorry if its long, and confusing.
thanks.

He is definitely interested. Guys will definitely try to show to catch your attention, pushups is just one of the many examples. Start casually flirting with him. It sounds like you have a chance!

How can i get over a boy the i crazy about?

I've had to get over 2 guys, and I know how it feels. It's crazy, because I actually cried over them when I shouldn't have. It will be hard, and it will take some time. If you have his number in your phone, delete it. Like I said, this isn't an overnight thing.. Try starting up sports [if you don't already], or start taking up a hobby that you might enjoy. I've been through this experience quite a few times, and it was hell for me.

Stop by my inbox if you need further assistance.

you are cute.

thanks :)

I'm in love with my boyfriend. He's amazing. He really likes me, too.
But he's so high maintenance.
I'm sixteen. I don't have my license yet, and the possibility of me getting it sometime soon is very slim. He's not exactly thrilled with this situation. In fact, he's actually been fairly rude about it. He just gets upset about things easily.

So last night I was at my friend's house; my best friend drove me there and we were all just hanging out. My boyfriend texts me and asks me if I want to go to his house, and I tell him to just come over. He replies that he can't because he's been out and came home late the past 4 nights... (which a couple of times were my fault because we were hanging out) and tells me that he isn't even getting home until ten.
My curfew is 10:30. So I said "If you won't get home till ten, why would I go?"
I don't know if that was a mean thing to say or something. But he got upset and hurt about it and I guess I can see why.

It's like. he's the one that always has to drive to me. It's up to him whether or not we even see each other. And I'm not exactly worth all the trouble. I know that to him it just feels really unfair, but I can't really do anything about it. Like honestly.

But he's always been pretty easy to upset. About little things that I'm hoping most people wouldn't think twice about. Like if I don't talk to him for a day. I think he's pretty insecure.

It's just. I care so much about him. I really. I don't know what to do. I'm turning into a whimp who takes a ton of shit from him and apologizes for nothing, all because I like him so much. I want him to be happy. Why is it so hard for him to be? I don't know.
I don't even know what I'm asking you people. I guess I just needed to vent.

Not only does he sound high maintenance, but he also sounds EXTREMELY clingy. It sounds like you're getting pretty stressed out about this, so tell him that you need a few days alone. If he asks to hang out, just tell him 'no', and that you would like your alone time. If he doesn't respect that, then it's time to get a new boyfriend. There will be others. You want to go out and have fun with your friends, but it seems like he wants to be the center of all of your attention. Explain to him that you have friends outside of your relationship, and you want to spend time with them without him getting upset about it. & It's okay to ask us this, [we get tons of other questions about relationships]. You really need to sit down and talk with him, and tell him that you're feeling too crowded and need some space. It doesn't mean that you guys have to break up, but maybe it's best that you guys kind of distance yourselves for a couple of days. Truth be told, your boyfriend is very dependent of you for his happiness.. I know that you like him, but you're the one that's supposed to be dependent of him, not the other way around. He really needs to man-up.

how do i do it

What?

I'm about 100% sure that no-one will know of what you are talking about.

Clarify.

Okay, well I am 16 years old. And I looking for a car. Any advice on what type of car I should get. I like small cars, but not that small. No hummer-like cars and no beatle-like cars. I want it simple. Thanks in advance!

oh, and does anyone know what kind of car this is:

Okay, obviously that car is NOT a mustang. I'm actually not too sure of what car that is..

For your first car, I would suggest a Honda Accord/Civic. Look for one with LOW mileage on it already. Hondas usually have a good MPG [miles per gallon] rate.

well i took the pill on the 25 of dec and i got my period on the 1st and well before that i had gotten it on the 13th which was normal because it was for the month of dec. but i thought it was weird that i got again so soon and well i know that the pill discontrols your period but when i got it again that morning i bled a lot and then after that i only bled a little and it was like that for three days i mean it was so weird and i was wondering if that is normal

http://www.wdxcyber.com/mbcontra.htm

Okay. My current screen res is 800x600, which I don't like. I'd prefer to have 1024x768 (that's the next option) BUT then everything is slightly too long for me to view. (My start bar is too long, etc.)

What can I do to fix this? I really hate 800x600, lol.

Please and thank you.

Theymos is right. Changing from an 800x600 resolution to an 1024x768 resolution will only make everything huge and grainy. You can change from 1024x768 --> 800x600, but not the other way around.

Ok guys this is going to sound really wierd. Alls i need you to do is just pick a letter for me.. either A J M. Thats it :) Thank Yuu x x x

j?

i want to go to school for criminology... im moving from montana to texas... i want to go to a good school and start my life over. but what is a good college, and how do i get into a sorority.

http://www.a2zcolleges.com/law/criminal_justice/tx.html

when giving a handjob...what is the girl supposed to do?!
like makeout or what !?
and what does the guy do?do he lie back?! or what!?

ASAP

We are not allowed to post detailed sexual information because of the younger users on this website.

I found a website but it doesn't have everything I want so I wanted to know if anyone knows a website to get free ringtones
the one i found was tuneusin.com but is theres any other ones tell me please

thanks :]

phonezoo.com
myxertones.com

Can anyone give me links to her songs or names of her songs?

Tattoo
http://youtube.com/watch?v=nyfY98PZkSQ

This is My Now
http://youtube.com/watch?v=5DqnEx2sidg

how do you break your hymen...like...can you break it by a vibrator..and your finger?

Your hymen can break by using tampons, sports, intercourse, vibrators, whatever. If you see unexpected blood [and it isn't time for your period], chances are, that your cherry has popped.

So is the iPhone worth getting or no?

Thanks :]

I would wait until the prices go down. Chances are, they will. Verizon already made a similar phone [Voyager], and it even comes with a full keyboard. They are always going to come up with something better, so think twice before you go out and spend $400-$700 [for a phone].

does anyone know where i can get cute internet graphics such as these:

http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r24/vaviolet112/dream.gif

and

http://s140.photobucket.com/albums/r24/vaviolet112/?action=view¤t=z118632177-1.jpg

and

http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r24/vaviolet112/closeyoureyes.jpg

any website that doesnt contain "glitter graphics" would be nice and ones that have things similar to those above would be greatly appreciated.

http://www.whateverlife.com/siws.php

i cannot find out where aol teen chat is. i used to do it all the time but now i cant get it even when i search it. please help.

xoxo

I couldn't find it either. Look for different chat websites. Sorry.

edit --

http://www.b-red.com/

I looked EVERYWHERE for the chat page. I can't find it. Next time, look a little harder by using Google. You're probably the same person who asked this question 2 weeks ago. No-one answered because nobody could find it. :)

what does exfoliate your skin mean?

It means to take off the dead tissue that isn't necessary.

16/m

ive been hookin up with my bestfriend and im starting to become really into her.so i need some songs (guys singing!) about being into her or starting to like her. and how i cant tell her.. so far the only song i have is why dont you and i by santana.. thanks! please gimme some

I think a song is very sweet. Some girls prefer it, and some don't. I would be won over if a guy sang a song to me. :]

"Sitting, Waiting, Wishing" - Jack Johnson
"Northern Sky" - Nick Drake
"You Do Something to Me" - Paul Weller
"Wonderful Tonight" - Eric Clapton

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