Okay, call me a loser but I like to read
I am a 14/f.
And I am supposed to be going to Books-A-Million today or tomorrow
Does anyone know and good mystery or scary books ?
please if yuo can, name more than one :]
-Thank you.
You're not a loser, i`m the same age as you and I love to read! check out some of these books. theyre good!
Wanted!-Caroline B. Cooney
Fatality-Caroline B. Cooney
Nancy Drew Series
Kissing The Rain-Kevin Brooks
Abduction!-Peg Kehret
there's some.
if you want some more, just leave me a message in my inbox!
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I am 13/female.
My guy friend is 14/m. (obviously haha)
He likes a girl who likes him just for his looks.
Im pretty sure he likes her for her looks & popularity (she is in 7th grade, he's in 8th) and he is a HUGE flirt, but theyve never even spoken in person!! it's rediculous, they talk on AOL and email all the time, but i can't comprehend how they cn like eachother.
I wish he would find someone who respected him for who he was, and I feel like he's getting annoyed/ignoring me for some reason but I don't knwo why. Ive just been really down lately because he is my best friend, and I know he's a teenage guy and this is gonna happen, but I thought he was different and more mature. The girl isn't even nice.
Thanks
-AW
Hm, try talking to him again and telling him not to get mad at you, because you're just really concerned for him. Tell him you're not trying to tell him who to talk to or who to like, you just want to be there for him. If he gets defensive and says it's his life, just back down. I know you're trying to help, but if he wants to do this by himself, he needs to learn from his mistakes.
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Okay so Im talking ot my friend on IM and we can never think of anything to talk about. Got any ideas? Thanks.
Hm, you can always ask eachother random questions. Like, when their birthday is, favorite movies. Or you can talk about school or something.
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Is there such a thing as being scared that you're too skinny? I don't want to say anything, although I bring it up to my mom sometimes, but I know if I said this my friends would flip out and say "what is wrong with you, why are you rubbing it in?" etc. Also, people always comment that I look skinnier than the last time they saw me!! and yes, I know it is a good thing but I see some girls who are just anorexic-looking and very unattractive in my eyes and I am afraid that I look like them.
I dance once a week for 4 hours, and I have swim practice every other day and meets on Fridays. I am very busy, although I don't play many sports, but I feel like I'm in OK shape. But I often just don't feel hungry and I eat when I am hungry(but eat a lot of junk food...i'm trying to eat less).
I feel pretty, but my skin is very pale, I have dark circles and I sometimes feel too skinny, although half the time i am perfectly satisfied. I never feel fat or anything.
Thanks soo much for the help, I guess what I'm asking is, do other people worry about this?
is it normal?
and what can I do to be healthier-looking?
(i always tend to look tired).
Thanks again and I know this was long!
-AW'
p.s. i have a very high self-confidence level and I tend to be a leader in my school/community, but I've been wondering about htis for awhile. thnks:)
Well, I know how you feel, because my friend has the same problem. Instead of eating junk food, eat meat and vegetables, and that will make your body healthier. You can't help that your skinny, but don't eat a lot, just to make yourself gain weight, because that's unhealthy. My friend looks at it as a good thing, because she likes her slender body, so you should just keep a positive attitude, and eat right and exercise a good amount, don't overdo it. & I`m sure you`ll be fine. :]
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When I went to see if I could be a moderator the last question said
Have you been a updated your column in the last week?
No. Your last update was Monday February 26 2007, 6:36 pm
but i've been on just about EVERY single day
what does it meannn ?
You have to answer questions at least once a week.
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i'm pretty tall & i have a hard time findingg good jeans.
all my jeans end up getting pretty baggy & stretch out. i want them to be tight & long & sorta flare [ but not be like totally hippy bellbottoms haha ]. but i really cant find any jeans that are like.. under 40$ maybe? that fit this description.
i'm 14/f, 5'6'' inches tall, jean size: [ i think ] juniors 3Long
where can i find good jeanss? =/
thanks!
WOW. I have the same problem, but i finally found a store. Wet seal. go up to the people who work there, and ask for long or tall jeans, and im the same size, and they fit perfectly, and they're what i want. :]
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well i have this problem with my dad. it would take a while to explain so im not gonna get into that but ill just tell u somthing that happend. i have been getting good grades for a while now and that never happens to me and my dad never said good job or anything to me and he always compares me to my 'perfect' sister she was good at everything and im just not. he makes me think that im not good at anything and i sometimes believe it. but lately i have been being a real bitch to my bf and i just cant help it. i dont want to take my anger out on him but idont know how to stop or how else to get rid of my anger..i cant really just talk to my dad about this. so what do i do? i really love my bf and i dont want to loose him because of this and it seems like that is whats going to happen if i dont knock it off.
Wow, I`m going through the same thing, except me and my dad aren't arguing over the grades thing. But what helps me is, to write down my thoughts. If you don't like writing, just type in a wordpad document or something, just spill out your thoughts, re-read them, and think about it. Then if you don't feel any better, you need to talk to your dad. Tell him how you don't want to be compared to your sister, since you're not like her, and never will be, because you're YOU. If he doesn't understand, just don't pest him about it, and do what you do. He may be your guardian, but it is your life and your choices.
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My youngestr sister has been so mean to me for some reason. We just went through like a family crisis and she is like meaner than she used to be to me. I don't know why though. Please help.
Alex
Don't mind this, my computer won't erase things right now.- eds
Have you tried asking her? Maybe she's just taking her sadness from the crisis, and turning it into anger. Just bear with her, and just be nice to her. You've heard the saying, "kill her with kindness"
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I am very shy about my body.
I never get in a bathing suit even around my friends because i dont have big boobs, and like they all do. I always feel so insecure. I don't like it. I was invited to a pool party and i'm mainly going because of the reason
but thats not the fool reason.
any help I can get on being comfortable with my body ?
Well, i know what you're going through, i didn't accept my body at ALL, until i started getting closer to God. Sure, you don't want me to give you a Bible speech, but just hear me out. God made us all different and unique, so just learn that once you get out of this puberty stage, you're going to grow into your body. Just eat healthy, and exercise daily and you'll learn to love and live your body the right way. About the boob things, not all girls have big boobs, and big boobs aren't always the best thing to have, trust me. Just don't compare yourself to other girls, because you probably have better things going for you than they do.
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I am sure of it there was no skin on skin contact not even for a split second...
Alright, then don't worry. You're fine, but if you want to make sure, you can always goto a doctor and ask. :]
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Okay, So I'm a female. And I'm a freshman in High School.
*= namechange.
Okay, so there's two other people involved. One is a sophomore, or my best friend, Alice.* I haven't known her long but our friendship is very close. Then there is James*. He is a senior, and he's also my friend.
When I first met these two, I was almost positive Alice loved James. Later on, however, I came to find out that Alice liked James as a brother and nothing more, but James loved Alice.
So of course, being their friends, I was caught in the middle. To make matters WORSE, I liked James. I haven't told him because it's awkward and he IS a senior.
I just don't know what to do about him at this point. I REALLY like him, but it's like Alice is the only one he will ever like.
What do I do?
Hm, try telling Alice, and maybe she can help you in that situation. Or, if you feel uncomfortable talking to her about it, you can try talking to James and you can say something along the lines of, "I know you like Alice, but I`m starting to like you." And you never know, you and James could talk, and become closer.
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I am freaked out here and I want some assurance. Well, yesterday a guy lay on me and was kissing my mouth and smooching and all and I was fully clothed as in I was wearing a salwar kameez and had my panty, my top of the salwar and my kurta on...and he too had his lungi on...I don't think he came or something but even if he did what are the chances that it would have travelled from his penis to his lungi from there to my bottom and then to my panty and finally to my vagina. And just for the record there was no direct penis-vagina contact at all as throughout I was fully clothed and neither his penis nor his hands touched my vagina or my genitals. Every body's telling me I have nothing to worry but then I just needed some assurance and I am sure this is the best place. Please help me! I am going crazy
Ah, trust me. If there wasn't any skin on skin contact, you're fine!
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When i straighten my hair in the morning it will be pin straight, but by the end of school it starts to flip and be all wavy. Is there any mooses or serums that anyone recommends to keep hair straight throughout the day? Thanks a bunch =]
Well, what i do is straighten my hair before i goto bed, and then in the morning i go over it a little, and it stays straight. but you can always just goto a local walgreens or CVS and try some of their fructis products.
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ok well i like this boy and he used to like me but when he asked me out i waited to long so he moved on and now he has a girlfriend!! :< but i really like him alot now!!!!! i dont no what 2 do!! he says he likes me but he still goes with her ( and shes one of my kinda close friends) So what do i do????? oh by the way u can ask me any kind of ? any time u want and ill try 2 help!!!!
Uhm, my advice to you would be to tell him that you still have feelings for him, but if he likes her alot, then you might as well let him have his life and move on. But, he might like you back, you never know!
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A friend recently told me that my crush admitted to her boyfriend that he likes me. He hasn't talked to me all day and I'm wondering if I should say something to him first. I'm not even sure he knows that she told me. Should I just ask him about it or wait for him to talk to me?
I think he's shy, so I think you should randomly ask him about it, if he says he doesn't know what you're talking about, and he looks down or away, he's REALLY shy, so don't make it seem like you're in love with him or something lol, just calmly ask him if he likes you, because you like him too, and then just go from there,, =] good luck.
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im 5"2' and 116 pounds.
i wanna lose weight in a few specific spots.
my underarms (the fat that hangs over tank tops)
my calves & thighs (they are really big)
and my love handles.
please i need to lose the weight fairly quickly.
im desperate ill do anything.
thanks.
Don't overdo it.
But, try basic things like, running on a track, or running on a tredmill. Then you can try stuff like, situps, crunches, and pushups. Then lift weights, and try looking on seventeen.com they sometimes have good aerobic techniques, and especially in their magazines.
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okay long story shortt- i need an oufitt to IMPRESS ;].
im 13 and so is the guyy.
thankss
loove youuu
Hm, try looking online at stores like,
www.wetseal.com
they have adorable stuff, or just goto the mall and look for cute ideas.
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is there any way to find out someones myspace song when it's hidden?
like a code???
No, im afraid not, it sucks, doesnt it?
But, try listening to the lyrics of the song, and then typing parts of them on this website, and then maybe, hopefully, you`ll find what you're looking for.
http://www.letssingit.com/
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I wasn't sure which category to put this in so..Ok..Anyways. My friend (a girl) has a boyfriend and I'm single (I'm a guy). So one day we were talking on yahoo and she said she was gonna call me again (We had talked on the phone the past four days in a row.) And before she left she said "Haha, I talk to you more than I talk to my boyfriend." and I wasn't sure on how to respond to that..I don't know if that's a bad thing...Or a good thing..PLEASE HELP!! Thanks in advance.
Hm, maybe she has more feelings for you than her current boyfriend, or maybe she just opens up to you easier and feels that you and her have a more tighther communication bond than her and her boyfriend. If you have feelings for her, you should tell her, but if you do tell her and she seems kind of, eh, about it, just drop the subject and apologize. But, it seems to me, and this is from a girl's point of view, that she might like you.
=]
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i started my period yesterday
and i wore a pad
but i wasnt happy with that
since a few of my underwears are totally stained
so i got a tampon
and i slept in it
and 1st thing this morning i took it out
and got a pad
and then about 2:30 ish
i got a tampon and put it in
and its sooo much more comfortable than that other tampon [the one im wearing now is a sports one]
and i was wondering what do i do when i have to pee
do i take it out
or pee while im wearing it !?!?!
You can pee when you wear tampons, it's fine.
But if you want to, you can take it out and put a new one in, it's totally up to you. :]
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