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I am very shy about my body.
I never get in a bathing suit even around my friends because i dont have big boobs, and like they all do. I always feel so insecure. I don't like it. I was invited to a pool party and i'm mainly going because of the reason
but thats not the fool reason.
any help I can get on being comfortable with my body ?
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Well i think that every girl should be very proud and happy about their bodies but obviously everyone isn't going to be...try somthing like wrting hello beautiful on you mirrow. Just something simple like that can make you feel beautiful. But i don't know its your body, so you should be compfortable about it :) i'm sure that your pretty isn't and out, and who cares if you don't have big boobs
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Every teenage girl has atleast one thing they'd change about their body or appearance, so you're really not alone. Believe it or not, just about every one of your friends will probably worried about their own flaws rather than focusing on everyone else's flaws. If you aren't confident with what you were born with, then atleast there are ways to enhance what you already have. In this case - find a bathing suit that'll compliment your chest. Choose a halter styled top for more support or anything with extra padding & push up for cleavage. Eventually, you have to accept not everyone develops at the same rate & not everyone is born with the same features. Instead of focusing on everything you don't like about yourself, focus on the things you love (that you're lucky to have, example: a flat stomach or blue eyes.) Remember that just because someone was born with big boobs, does not mean they are better than the next person. Who knows - maybe you're more friendlier & outgoing than her. As cliche as it sounds, the only thing that matters is your personality & character. & you should learn to focus more on the person you are inside, than what is developing on the outside. Have fun @ your pool party. :)
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The truth of the matter is that your friends are likely as insecure about their bodies as you are. They'll never admit it but they probably feel judged and as if everyone is looking at them because of their brerast size, height and or weight. All teenage girls feel this way at some point while growing up.
It would be absolutely foolish of you to allow your fears to dictate what you do and your ability to have fun. You need to go to this party and relax and have fun. Focus only on having fun and swimming and you'll soon forget everything else.
Your friends won't be judging you or looking at your physique. They'll be hoping other people don't do that to themselves. Believe me the fears you mentioned above will not come into play here.
People grow and bloom at different stages because of their DNA and family history. If your mother was a late bloomer during puberty and took quite a well to grow or develop you'll be the same. The good news is you will catch up to your friends eventually and become taller as well as your breasts will grow bigger.
The best help I can give you is to recommend you attend the party and have fun. When you notice that nobody is thinking of your breasts etc. it will boost your confidence as you can remember from it that it's not a problem or issue.
The other advice that I can give to help you feel better about your body is to know inside your head (repeat it to yourself over and over) that everyone develops at their own rate and you are normal. People will like you for you and not your body anyways. So, relax, don't worry and have fun at your party.
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Well, i know what you're going through, i didn't accept my body at ALL, until i started getting closer to God. Sure, you don't want me to give you a Bible speech, but just hear me out. God made us all different and unique, so just learn that once you get out of this puberty stage, you're going to grow into your body. Just eat healthy, and exercise daily and you'll learn to love and live your body the right way. About the boob things, not all girls have big boobs, and big boobs aren't always the best thing to have, trust me. Just don't compare yourself to other girls, because you probably have better things going for you than they do.
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