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Guy friend crushing on unappreciative girl
I am 13/female.
My guy friend is 14/m. (obviously haha)
He likes a girl who likes him just for his looks.
Im pretty sure he likes her for her looks & popularity (she is in 7th grade, he's in 8th) and he is a HUGE flirt, but theyve never even spoken in person!! it's rediculous, they talk on AOL and email all the time, but i can't comprehend how they cn like eachother.
I wish he would find someone who respected him for who he was, and I feel like he's getting annoyed/ignoring me for some reason but I don't knwo why. Ive just been really down lately because he is my best friend, and I know he's a teenage guy and this is gonna happen, but I thought he was different and more mature. The girl isn't even nice.
Thanks
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Why not point out to him that the whole situation bothers you? Confront him and ask why he thinks she's so great even though he's never met her in person. Tell him you don't think they could ever have a good relationship because she just likes him because he's cute. Tell him he can do so much better and that there are better girls out there. If he is a good friend, he will appreciate your concern and heed your advice. If not, just let him learn from his mistakes. He'll learn that you were right and he was wrong in time. Boys will be boys I guess. :)
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Well, have you tried talking to him? Be careful what you say though because he might think your jellous. Aolso, he is you friend so you have to be there for him. Tell him that you miss being around him and stuff and you guys should have your own time together.
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Well, the best thing I can tell you is that,even if you think that she's not the one for him,you've got to be there for him, and if she isn't turned out what he wants it to be he's gonna have to learn that pretty much himself. You could tell him once,and if that happens tell him : You can't say I told you so.. That's the best thing to do, is be there for him. You're his best friend and that's what best friends are for, Hope this helps.
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Hm, try talking to him again and telling him not to get mad at you, because you're just really concerned for him. Tell him you're not trying to tell him who to talk to or who to like, you just want to be there for him. If he gets defensive and says it's his life, just back down. I know you're trying to help, but if he wants to do this by himself, he needs to learn from his mistakes.
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