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I like him but he likes her?
Okay, So I'm a female. And I'm a freshman in High School.
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Okay, so there's two other people involved. One is a sophomore, or my best friend, Alice.* I haven't known her long but our friendship is very close. Then there is James*. He is a senior, and he's also my friend.
When I first met these two, I was almost positive Alice loved James. Later on, however, I came to find out that Alice liked James as a brother and nothing more, but James loved Alice.
So of course, being their friends, I was caught in the middle. To make matters WORSE, I liked James. I haven't told him because it's awkward and he IS a senior.
I just don't know what to do about him at this point. I REALLY like him, but it's like Alice is the only one he will ever like.
What do I do?
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Well he'll probably see to it that Alice only likes him as a friend, and he can put his interest else where like maybe, you. You can't really make a guy like you, but the best you can do , is talk to him, be good friends with him, then talk about how you have feelings for him, don't be shy, and it doesn't matter if he's a senior, AGE AIN'T NOTHING BUT A NUMBER!. Do what you do best, FLIRT!, make eye contact, do whatever. Hope this helps.
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Not trying to be cold or anythin but I'm a guy. So I know he will get over Alice in a quick second. Just wait for the right moment.
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Hm, try telling Alice, and maybe she can help you in that situation. Or, if you feel uncomfortable talking to her about it, you can try talking to James and you can say something along the lines of, "I know you like Alice, but I`m starting to like you." And you never know, you and James could talk, and become closer.
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