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He's 2 years older
OK, Well, I like this guy...
But he's two years older.
At one point one of my friends were like, "He's going to ask you out." But I was like noway.
Then,
That friend was like ya, he is.
But then he went and asked my friend out. She said no because she was being a good friend, because she knew I liked him. So, that was good, but, I don't know how to get his attention, because ever since her found out that I liked him, he doesn't talk to me anymore.
He says its weird because he is good friends with my older brother, and I can see how that could be weird, but sometimes I wish it wasn't like that, because I REALLY REALLY like him. Everyone expects me to get over him now, but to tell you the truth I can't!
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
13/f
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well I'll tell you this a friend would be there to stay with you while you cry but a good friend would ask him "It's cuz your gay right?" So think maybe he's gay.
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Well, the boy has reasons for acting strange.
A) Most guys tend to freak out when they realize a girl likes them, wether or not they feel the same way.
B)He is two years older than you. While to you and many others that may not seem like a big deal, I must admit that there is a big difference between thirteen and fifteen, and I don't mean years. It's just what you are expirencing in those points in your lives are very different. This may not be an issue for him, however.
C) You are his friend's sister. There is pretty much an unspoken rule between guys about not dating their sisters. Again, this *may* not be an issue :I don't know because I do not know your brother.
But I can tell you this- just lay off a little. Surely at least one of these issues are present, and all three require that you don't do anything drastic to make him like you. Just..go with the flow for now, and feel free to ask me more questions as things progress!
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yea well> the age part- dnt matter at all lol. like really 2 me> it dnt matter how old you are. but anywayz, just curently i have found out that guys like girls that play hard 2 get. so when he is at your house or when you see him, ingore him. it alwayz work 4 me anywayz. lol, does your brother know you like him???? well anywayz,
holla bac at ya
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I have a hunch your brother must have told him to keep away from you and not date you. Something has happened here for him to suddenly refuse to talk to you.
Have your friends been bugging him about asking you out? If so that can turn a person off of you. The next time you see this guy ask him straight out "why don't you talk to me anymore?" and try to get an answer out of him.
As long as your friends have not pestered him about whether he likes you have one of them ask him "We notice you don't like talking to X anymore why?" You should be able to get an answer and reason why from one of these approaches.
I would also corner your brother and tell him I know X is one of your best friends why has he stopped talking to me? If you brother doesn't know get him to find out.
Odds are the guy knows you like him and want to go out with him but has no interest in you romantically. He likes your friend more than likely and not you. The situation is too weird for him for tell you how he feels because of yourbrother being his friend.
If he won't talk to you after being approached again than you must move on. This might be his idea of how to reject you and not hurt you or cause shit with your brother by ignoring you. He may be hoping you'll get the message he doesn't like you that way or as a friend too.
I would try to find out why he's giving you the cold shoulder and go from there. If he continues ignoring you it's not worth it. Your friend might have also told him the truth about you liking him when she turned him down. He may be angry at you over that as he wanted her and she told him no.
Who knows? You have to try and find out using the ideas above and then move on. It doesn't sound as though he's going to date you now or in the future just to be honest.
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Just ask/get him to ask you out. You could get your brother to get him to ask you out. That would be a good connection.
-ALex
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