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K.. i am 14/f and i always ahve like white suff coming out of me.. and its not clumppy or anyhting, its like liquidy... and i havent been sexualy active besides kissing.... what could it be from and what could it be? and how do i was ride of it?? please help. it really sux

Every girl has this, hun. It is very normal. It is called discharge; it's your bodies way of cleaning itself out 'down there.'

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my periode is a brownish colour is that normal?
22yrs female,Ca.

Yes, that is normal. Nothing to worry about. The brownish color is just old blood.

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Why do girls get wedgies all the time (or alot) ?
Please Answer

Probably because girls underwear is tight, so you tend to get wedgies often.

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that song that says do your chain hang low what is is talking about

It simply means, do your chains hang low. Meaning, do your necklaces hang low.

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i met my boyfriend at camp last year. he asked me out last year, and i said no, and he asked me out this year again, and i didnt want to say yes, but i felt obligated to. he is my first boyfriend and i didnt tell my parents. (dont tell me to tell my parents, becaus eim not going to). ive only told like 3 of my friends about him. but the problem is that i dont like him in "that way". i want to break up with him, but i still want to be friends with him and i dont want to hurt his feelings. what do i do?

Well, you're obviously going to have to break up with him on way or another. If you don't, you'll just be hurting yourself and him. I suggest letting him down easy. Don't worry about hurting his feelings, because no matter how easy you let him down it's still going to hurt him, especially if he really likes you. Just explain to him that you guys as a couple just isn't working out. That you feel that it would be best just to be friends, because you really don't like him 'in that way' anymore. Explain to him that you don't want to hurt him, but you thought it would be best just to be apart. Tell him that you would love to still be friends and you're here for him whenever he needs you.

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for the past about 3 years, i have bitten my nails. i am pretty much stopped, but now my nails are really weak and the skin on my thumbs is weird and i think thats from the biting. how do i make my nails stronger and what do i do about my skin?

I used to have the same problem. I used to bite my nails 24/7. But I stopped a few years back. Your nails are going to be weak at first. They aren't used to being strong because they aren't used to being long. It make take awhile for them to get stronger, but as time goes on, they'll get stronger and stronger each day. I suggest getting some clear nail polish and painting your nails every so often. Also, I do believe there is nail polish out there to make weak nails stronger. So I highly suggest looking around for that. As for your skin, just simply put hand cream on.

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i love this kid at school but it seems that were just friends and i want to be more than friends without humiliating myself how do i tell him or how do i know if he is into me???

sincerely

what do i do?

You could try talking to him more than you usually do. Is he in any of the same classes as you? If so, just strike up a converstation with him. Talk about what interest him. Try hanging out with him after school, or on weekends. This will give you a chance for you guys to get to know eachother better. If you want to tell him you like him, you could get his e-mail and e-mail him about it. You could get his number and tell him over the phone. Or you could white him a note and slip it in his locker, or give it to him yourself. Either way, I think you should just tell him how you feel about him. You never know, he could be feeling the same as you. And if you want to know if your crush likes you or not, I suggest checking out the following website: http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/How_do_you_tell_if_a_guy_likes_you

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Hi. Whats a website thats like MySpace?

I've tryed friendster, myyearbook, livejournal, and xanga.

Please Help!!

http://www.hi5.com is a lot like MySpace.

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I am 13/f about to be 14 in October, and I am a 32A. My mom is only a 34B, is it possible I could get a C cup?

What age do breasts stop growing, approximately?

It is very possible to get a c cup. But usually your breast are AROUND the same size as the women in your family. Not to worry, though. You only stop growing at 18, so you have awhile to go yet.

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what is the movie, "the exsocisum of emily rose" rated? thanks

It's rated PG-13.

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what is the song call from the hills mtv show..its there theme song

The song is called 'Unwritten' and it's by Natasha Bedingfield.

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what is the best program for downloading music?

'Ares' is by far the best downloader for music.

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On Myspace, is it possible to make your display name an image? Thanks

It isn't possible to make your display name an image, but it is possible to make your headline an image.

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haow many dates do you go on befroe you can call yourseves boyfriend and girlfriend?

It depends on the person or not. If he/she wants to be with you in a boyfriend or girlfriend way.

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first, i like this guy that i use to be with in grade 7 [and in grade 7 we didn't do anything and broke up] now in grade 9 i like him again and we actually talk. i'm not sure if he likes me back. i'm just not the type of person to tell people that i like them. i might even end up getting a friend to tell him that i like him! again! is there some other way? i'm shy!!

ps: also, where do i find a list of fonts to use on nexopia?

A lot of people when they're too shy to talk to their crush in person, they get their friend(s) to ask him/her. There is nothing wrong with that and if you want to do that, that would be fine. You can tell him some other ways, too. You could get his e-mail and e-mail him about it. You could get his number and tell him over the phone. Or you could white him a note and slip it in his locker, or give it to him.

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I'm 14 and overweight. So of the kids at school ( male and female ) constantly tease me about my weight. A few weeks ago , over summer break one of my "friends" yanked down my bathing suit and everyone saw my penis. I'll admit its not too big but it's not tiny either. One of the girls who saw me commented that if I lost a few pounds it would grow. Do you know if there is any truth to this. It makes scence in a way .

less weight = more blood flow

thanks

Yes, 'down there' will grow if you loose a few pounds. Also you're only 14 years old, you still have a few years of growing left. So since you aren't fully-grown, neither is your penis.

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I also dont know if he likes me anymore because all my friends (who like jordan) keep telling me that he doesnt like me anymore and i dont really believe them but, i dono what if they arent lying? I really need to ask him if it's true or not but i dont know how to bring it up w/ him.

Well, next time you're talking to him talk about what you usually talk about, then just bring it up. Just explain to him that your friends are saying that he doesn't like you, and you wanted to know if it was true or not. They could also be saying that he doesn't like you, because they're crushing on you. Either way, just bring it up in the next converstation and see what happens from there.

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k im like 5 days late with my period and ive been getting fingered a lot lately could that make it take longer to come also ive been doin exercises so i heard that does it 2

I don't think that would make your period be late. You could just be irregular, meaning your period doesn't come at the same time every month.

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how can i masterbate on my period?

You can masterbate while on your period, but it might get a little messy. I guess if you put a towel down, you would be good to go.

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My friend and I have been planning to go to the movies with our boyfriends this friday since last week. I started my period today and it made me a little dissapointed.. is there ANY way I can make sure it's done by Friday?

Thanks

There's no way you can control when your period is going to stop. Although, I wish you could.

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