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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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ugh i bought l.a wetstyles gel and my hair doesnt look wet at all...not even when my hair was already wet when i did it and after it didnt look wet at all. am i doin something wrong? cause when i scrunch my hair it doesnt stay scrunched it turns into dry waves. even when i use like, 3 gels at once plus hairspray. its startin to piss me off !
thanks xo

l.a gel isnt the greatest - thats forsure. i used to have it and it make my hair have like flakes and stuff and made it look like it had dandriff. anyway - try using garnier "fructis style" things. get the mousse and get like extra strong or even the highest one,. mousse works alot better than gel and then use the hairspray too. the hairspray doesnt give for anything. and it smells pretty good too. if that doesnt work, then your hair is just really stubborn.

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i want to know how i can get cute away messages with hearts and colors etc. where can i get them and how can i save them on my aim so that te colors wont go away. thanks

yea applesauce works really well. you can go to download.com and type in applesauce. and for saving them.. send them to yourself then file-> save.. and then just save em,. and when you wanna use it you can open it back up. :]

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dear kelly, im fat and hot. what do i do?

well, if your hot. then you dont have to do anything. unless your self contious about being fat. then go on a diet - duh. MIKE YOU CRACK ME UPPP. HAHA.

HOPE I HELPED LOSER.

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alright, i like this guy, his name is ben. well im in 8th grade, 14. ben is in 8th grade, also 14. i think i am inlove with him, everything he does. all i want to do at school is cry, because i want him so bad. he`s not really that popular at my school, but out of scholl everyone loves him. he knows so many girls. well, i have liked him for like every. i am one of those crazy, loud, popular girls, but he doesnt like me. im a little on the chubby side. i wanna loose 10 ilbs. i know if he thought i was "hot" he wood go out with me. i know i know this sounds bad, but if he thought i was hot he would spend more time with me, and start to like me, thats how he is. but, i need help, we are both going to the same high school next year, for 9th so when i o back next year i want to be beautiful, i really want ben so bad. i actully LOVE him. no joke. im INLOVE. it`s just the fact i CANT have him.

so what should i do till the end of this year?
wha can i do over the summer to become really actrative.

i am REALLY prety, everyone tels me, it`s just the weight issue.

polease dont say i dont deserve him or anything, because i love him. thanks.!

sorry if there are alot of typos!

honestly he prolly already knows who you are if you are popular. it doesnt really matter if he knows alot of girls - its just how he feels about them. if he thinks your hot then he might just be interested in looks. but dont gte me wrong - it can always lead to something more. what should you do till the end of the summer? i think you should start talking to him more. even if its online. then once you come back next year - he will be like WHOA SHES HOTT AND COOL. I WANT HER ! [ or something liek that - not really sure how guys think] but yea, over the summer maybe try losing 10 or so lbs (although i doubt you need to). and maybe a new haircut or something. make sure your confident. because guys really like that. goooodd luckkk

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I Posted On Here Before W/ A Similair Question. I'm 15 && Five Two. I Used To Be Around 135. Now I Am Around 129. My Question Is, How Much More Weight Should I Loose To "Look Good"? Don't Tell Me To Ask The Doctors (Already Have!) Or Go To Am-I-Fat.Com - I Want Your Opinion! Also, Any Tips On Loosing Weight? Can I Get Down To 122ish By June? Thanks! Ill Rate Fives As Long As You Answer My Question/Questions.

honestly - you prolly "look good" right now. but maybe try losing 5 - 10 lbs depending how skinny you want to look/be. tips on loosing weight.. hm. try cutting your protion sizes smaller. and drink lots of water - it keeps you full and you pee it all out. (i know sounds wierd, but its true!) also maybe try working out a little. not like going to the gym or something but like while your watching tv do situps during commercials or something like that. if your really daring try running. and yea, you can deffinitally get down to 122 by june. as long as your motivated. which it sound like you are so yea.

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Hokay.So. I've liked this girl for a while, she's going out with my friend, she likes me too, and now she thinks he might be cheating on her. What do I do?

wow, this is wierd. talk to her,forsure. if she thinks hes cheating then she should deffintially talk to her boyfriend about it. but if she likes you too -then she should prolly break up with her boyfriend and go for you. cuz it sounds like shes kinda leading her boyfriend on (unless she likes him too). you dont do anything., let her make the choice. if her boyfriend is cheating on her - deffintially make sure she breaks up with him. because thats not cool. duh.

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im now over my old boyfriend zach, (thanks for the help!!) but now im going out with another guy that i love, but now i feel weird hanging around him, like if i do one thing wrong, we wouldnt go out anymore.... i need help to see what not to do to mess up our relationship!


-sorry if it doesnt make sense!!!

i dont think you should be so worried about it. he is your boyfriend so you should feel comfortable around him. and able to be yourself. theres obviously a reason hes going out with you [ HE LIKES YOU, DUHH ] so, dont be so nervous. even if you do do something wierd/wrong - youll laugh about it later.

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k my ex-boyfriend has a new g/f they have been goin out for almost 5 months .longer than us we only went out for 1 month but it felt like more because he still acted like my b/f for @ least 2 months afta. Now he tlks soo much crap about me and i dnt know why? But, i he always takes my notes and my purse and reads them he also calls my phone on my bus and i always look back and smile . Just yesteday he called my cell but i missed the call. THen today he just talked shit.
i still love him and even though im only 13 i think i really do love him. What do you think? I dont know wat 2 do because he says some mean stuff like how im a slut and ugly but tose things ARE defenilily not true. Is it really true that i guy acts like an ass when he still likes you? oh my god i wish i could tell you more about the situation but there is just soo much. I alrede asked all my friends a& they said that he still likes me!1 what do you think about this ? thanks *brit

dear brit.
first off, its kinda true that guys act like buttheads when they like you. it kinda depends on the guy. if hes sorta full of himself. then yea forsure he will do that., but if hes like really sensetive and stuff - then he wont. considering he has a girlfriend, he might just be saying those things about like calling you a slut because he doesnt want his girlfriend knowning he still has feelings for you. either that or hes totally leading you on. since he has been going out with his girlfriend for 5 months [ thats a pretty long time at 13 ] im not sure what to think about this boy. it sounds like hes a complete jerk about you around his friends but he likes talking to you and maybe even still likes you. alot of guys are like that when they are with their friends - they think that it makes them look cool.. especially when its about their ex. ohh, and personally i know you always trust your friends - but i doubt they have any idea whats going on in his head. so i wouldnt count on what they say. and they could be lying to make you happy ( i know. its sad - but its the truth. sorry! ) okay so if he calls you, then he wants to talk. try hanging out with him maybe. and just ask him. dont be scared. obviously he cares about you and stuff because you guys still talk. and he takes your stuff. which makes you give him your attention. i hope i helped you. if you need anything else or something else happens im me.. bballsweetii45.

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i really really really like this kid like whoaa lot.. he knows i like him and i talk to him kind of..he likes this other girl. a lot of girls at my school like him. i really want him to notice me enough to be like whoa i need to go out with this chic.. but i dont no how to do that. .how should i get him to notice me??

well, you said you kinda talk to him, so i think you should talk to him more. are you his friend? .. cuz if your not you might wanna start with that, just becoming his friend. he will be more comfortable around you. and so will you. then its easier to talk and you will hang out more. then as you get to know each otehr more - maybe he will fall for you. try not to keep reminding him that you like him - he might try and distance himself from you if hes not interested at first.

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okay so theres this guy--and ive liked him since third grade(im in 8th grade) hes always like me too but ive never told him that i like him because he is my best friends brother. So now....my friend met him (myspace) (he doesn't go to the same school as me) and i know that she likes him....i just don't know what to do...part of me thinks that i should tell him i like him..but wouldn't that be wierd if i went out with my best friends brother? the other part of me thinks that i should just get over him...

well, in a normal case like this i would tell you to follow your heart. and do what you think is best. but obviously you have liked him for a long time [ 5 years. HELLOO YOUR HEART DOESNT GET MORE OBVIOUS THAN THAT! ]. if that girl is truely your best friend, then she should already know that you like her brother alot, because you told her [hopefully! - thats an awfully big secret to be hiding from your best frined this whole time]. you deffinitally should tell him you like him, especially if you knwo he likes you back. i wouldnt worry about your best friend - because she will get over it, believe me. my best friend is the same way. anyway, it wouldnt be wierd if you went out with your best friends brother unless you thought of him liek that. like" OMG IM KISSING MY BEST FRIENDS BROTHER". no. not good. that would be wierd. you say "omg im kissing NAME HERE yesss! ive waited forever for this". you see - then its not wierd.

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okay i dont no what to do because i like this boy but he likes me bestt friend. what am i supposed to do? is there any way i can get him to like me back?

babe, this happens to every girl atleast 45328749 times in her life. i cant tell you exactly what you can do to MAKE him like you because you cant exactly do that. ofcorse you can try your hardest -- but theres no gaurentees in life. especially dealing with things like boys. i dont know alot about your situation but it kinda depends on how your best friend feels about this boy. if she likes him - then act like you dont care if she goes out with him. be happy for them. i know its hard.. but you deffinitally arent gonna want to put your friendship on the line over a stupid little crush you have. (you will have many MANY more ) if she doesnt like him as more than a friend (if that) then just start flirting with him. talk to him alot. ask him to hang out. let him know you like him. and make sure your friend knows how you feel - then she might even back farther away from him.. if she is a real friend. if hes smart, he will go for you. but, if he takes a while - hes not worth your time. or your best friends.

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i realy like u

oh really? cute.
who is this?
and this isnt really a question..
so i cant really help you much.

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alright i like this girl right? and i have liked her a lot but like everytime im talking to her it feels like she has something better to do. and i hear from other girls that she lies a lot and she will tell me that she'll call me so we can hangout this weekdend and she never calls back. so with her doing all this i kinda of like this other girl becuase its really easy for me to talk to her. idk what to do. hook a brotha up kelly haha

-ur brotha from anotha motha-

hey brotha! :P .. honestly, it kinda sounds like the first girl - the one you like alot- doesnt like you like more than a friend. and if she lies - thats abig no, no. so go for the girl who is really easy to talk to. because thats always good in a relationship. you cant have a relationship with someone if you think she keeps blowing you off because she has other/better things to do or never calls you for plans or lies alot. trust is a big BIG part of a relationship. and if you cant trust her with those things.. i dont think you guys would be good togetehr. thats my opinion of corse, but yea. go for the other girl -- brotha from anotha motha!!

hope this helps!! :' ♥

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i cant help it but i have become relient on sleeping pills..idk what to do . please help?

honestly, i dont know much about sleeping pills so i cant really help you.. but my best guess would be talk to your doctor or parents or something. they will be able to help or atleast know where you should start.. good luck!

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ok so..im really happy with the guy im going out with now..dont get me wrong hes awsome.. but i still like my ex boyfriend and its hard to be around him and what not .. what do i do?

hm.. its pretty normal to still like your ex boyfriend, especially if you guys like just broke up then you got together with this guy. just trying thinking of your exboyfriend as a best friend, then you dont have to have a problem about not being around him. and you can still hug/kiss(if youd like) because your just good friends. most likely.. the feelings for your ex withh go away.. not saying its gonna be ina snap of a finger or anything.. just wait for it. and if you find that your liking your ex more then your boyfriend now, go back with your ex. but remember.. there was a problem between you two.. or else you wouldnt have broken up in the first place.

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female-13...ok well see heres the problem...i have found out that a lot of guys like me latly, and i mean yeah thats supposed to be a compliment and stuff and i sersiuly take it as a compliment, but i dont like them back! a few have asked me out and like i really dont want a boyfriend right now so i just tell them that, but i feel bad cuz they seem really dissapointed. am i doing the right thing? or should i give them a chance? please helppp

-ms. confuseddd

wow, i cant believe your actually asking me this question. but, since you asked ill give you some advice on what i think you should do. personally, i think your doing the right thing.. but if you have a feeling that your doing something wrong, then maybe give one of em a shot. what can it hurt? dont feel bad if they seem disappointed. they will get over it, and maybe try even harder for you. and you dont nessecarily have to say no. just be like, well right now i dont feel like a boyfriend but you never know what can happene in the future or somehting.. i dont know. youll figure something out

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I guess you last advice helped a little. Kind of. She said she has to think which I think is the right answer but I don't know what to do. Please help out. All i want is to be close to her ot as a boyfriend but not as a friend I guess what I want is something in between what do you think I should do?


The Kenyan.

well "The Kenyan", i dont know what you want.. maybe you just wanna be like friends with benefits?.. im sorry my advice didnt help. :( maybe this will.. obviously she needs time to think, because thats what she told you. shes not gonna lie about if she needs time.. you know? whats the point of that? just be there for her, let her take her time and DO NOT rush her. that is a deffinitate no-no. just keep telling her to like think about it and stuff, and hopefully she will make her decision soon. good luckkkkk !

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ok i really like this kid and i no he likes someone else should i give up and move to someone else or keep at him?

okay well this is pretty much a thing every girl goes through like 47322957 times in their life. seriously, if he doesnt like you.. then move on. hes stupid to not like you anyway, and theres prolly WAY better guys out that.. begging for you. you just dont see it. :] make your options open and let people know your searching. the guys will come for youuuuuu :]
ps, how do you know he doesnt like you? did you ask?

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Well heres my situation. I just pooped my pants. What do I do?

go get a flipping life.

and only use this when you have a real problem -- not something your mom should help you with.

kbye.fagg

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Well you gave me some advice beefore about kind of the love triangle happening and its kind of progressed. She's still with the my friend and i like her and i think she still likes me so can you tell me what you think is going to happen? Thanks.

i cant tell you whats going to happen, but she can. you need to ask her about how she feels and HONESTLY what shes thinking about doing. if she does like you more than your friend, then she should choose you. because its not fair for your friend, you, or her. so dont be scared and just ask her what she plans on doing. its gonna be a hard choice for her (prolly) so tell her you really dont care what she chooses.. just as long as she does.. even if you do care, just say that.

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