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long, im sorry, this is about boys & likeing/loveing them.


Question Posted Friday April 7 2006, 5:20 pm

alright, i like this guy, his name is ben. well im in 8th grade, 14. ben is in 8th grade, also 14. i think i am inlove with him, everything he does. all i want to do at school is cry, because i want him so bad. he`s not really that popular at my school, but out of scholl everyone loves him. he knows so many girls. well, i have liked him for like every. i am one of those crazy, loud, popular girls, but he doesnt like me. im a little on the chubby side. i wanna loose 10 ilbs. i know if he thought i was "hot" he wood go out with me. i know i know this sounds bad, but if he thought i was hot he would spend more time with me, and start to like me, thats how he is. but, i need help, we are both going to the same high school next year, for 9th so when i o back next year i want to be beautiful, i really want ben so bad. i actully LOVE him. no joke. im INLOVE. it`s just the fact i CANT have him.

so what should i do till the end of this year?
wha can i do over the summer to become really actrative.

i am REALLY prety, everyone tels me, it`s just the weight issue.

polease dont say i dont deserve him or anything, because i love him. thanks.!

sorry if there are alot of typos!


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KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Friday April 7 2006, 6:33 pm:
honestly he prolly already knows who you are if you are popular. it doesnt really matter if he knows alot of girls - its just how he feels about them. if he thinks your hot then he might just be interested in looks. but dont gte me wrong - it can always lead to something more. what should you do till the end of the summer? i think you should start talking to him more. even if its online. then once you come back next year - he will be like WHOA SHES HOTT AND COOL. I WANT HER ! [ or something liek that - not really sure how guys think] but yea, over the summer maybe try losing 10 or so lbs (although i doubt you need to). and maybe a new haircut or something. make sure your confident. because guys really like that. goooodd luckkk

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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xsweet_pea_10 answered Friday April 7 2006, 6:25 pm:
Over summer brake just work out and do sit ups and all that so you can lose the weight. He should like you for who you are and not for what you look like. Well maybe get your hair cut a different way that shows off your beatful face! lol. Just dont try to hard on getting him. Next year talk to him. Try to become friends with him and show him that you are a fun loving girl. Go to this web site.

www.toneteen.com it will give you ideas on dieting and losing weight. hope i helped.

♥ jackie

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