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12 year old female. Ever since I was little I was able to see spirits. Like I'd be able to name people no one ever told me about, and I still do. And I've accurately predicted several deaths, had dreams that happened in real life, been able to tell what someone will say, etc. I constantly see spirits, and can easily communicate with them. I have a friend and she was talking about her girlfriend who passed a few years ago and suddenly I thought about a song and I felt like I had to sing it so I did and turns out that was her gf's favorite song. I see auras around people, and can feel their exact emotions, and animals have always been strangely close to me. For example recently blue birds keep going close to me, like when I was going to the bus stop a bird was there, and when I went close the bird didn't fly away and stood closer. Then someone else came and the bird flew to a branch. It seems all fun and dandy and "woooo super powers", and sometimes it is, but holy fuck feeling people's emotions is hell, for every nice, polite spirit there's an asshole demon, getting messages in my dream are annoying, seeing colors every where is distracting...I just feel like a freak. I've always been diffirent, even from the special snowflake kids and people always get freaked out when they're about to tell me a secret but I know it before they tell me. And the worse is feeling intense vibrations from certain areas of your body (later found out those are chakras) and idk I wouldn't want to stop having them but every now and then I wish I was a normal dumbass kid and not some psychic freak. I've considered smoking weed before just to get out of this world and be normal...but marijuana's illegal. How do I be normal? (link)
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I believe you when you say you see, feel, touch and perceive these things but not that they really are there or felt in reality. Keep reading. I don't think you have the psychic abilities you think you have or so-called super or special powers. That set off a few red flags for me.
I know quite a bit about mental-health disorders and though not a doctor it's highly likely that you may be functioning but still be in reality and half out of it. With a lot of illnesses bipolar, Schizophrenia etc. it takes control of the brain and all five senses and makes you have visions, grandiose ideas, hear voices both good and bad and feel as though you have powers nobody else has. That concerns me greatly.
Often a person can have no clue it's an illness or problem until reaching a crisis point and being hospitalized and it's true that you could have been this way for a long time and able to function half in and half out of reality but you need this checked out especially if you have voices at any time hitting you like a freight train in addition at night. I would see a doctor and be honest about all of this and see that you are healthy.
Another part of many of these illnesses is eye-sight, seeing bold colors or dark all the time or even things that appear to morph or look distorted that ought not be as the chemical imbalance affects all five senses. That's a red flag. As far as other things you mentioned it chalk it up to coincidence. You aren't a freak but you do need to see if there is a medical issue here.
It's normal to be in awe of animals or feeling in tune with them but you can't read thoughts or emotions of anything or anyone. I'm being honest. Animals may gravitate to someone they think is receptive of them however.
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what about a gift card to wallmart? (link)
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Wal-Mart has stiffed me in the past charging the person money to use it plus whatever they purchased. The same thing with Five Guys too. I don't know about Target because they bombed out in my country and went bankrupt after a year.
One retailer you can really rely upon is Amazon. You can get a e-gift card or a physical one if they can ship it on time to purchase anything online. I believe they have a separate card for books you can load onto an e-reader. The Canadian and U.S. sites are vastly different.
Itunes is also another good one because you can buy those gift-cards just about anywhere and redeem online for movies or songs. That may appeal to him too.
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I live in a fairly nice home, with plenty of clothes and food. My parents are one of the main problems in life, my mom abuses the power over me, and my dad has a huge temper that goes off quite a lot. My mom uses her power over me for very stupid things, she almost hit me when I wanted my food back when she took it from me. I was also looking for my glasses once and she told me to tell her where I last put them, I said I don't know, she asks that question a couple more times, then she goes off and says I either tell her or she'll beat it out of me. The worse part is that my dad agrees with everything she says, or just flat out ignores me, but when I screw something up when I'm alone with him, he'll go off. I used to hide in my closet when I was younger because he was so loud and I thought he would hurt me. They have never really hurt me, except for slapping when I screwed something up. I really can't stand them, but I don't know what to do. I have nobody to talk to, and they certainly won't listen to me, so I'm kinda stuck.
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At your age or any no parent should be hitting or slapping you. That's wrong. They seem to have a lot of stress and anger that has nothing to do with you but unleash it on you. You have to know it's not your fault. I am pretty sure they do in fact love you even if at times it may not seem like it.
I wasn't there but is it at all possible that your mother was being sarcastic about "beating it out of you" about where the missing item may have been last or did it really seem like a threat?
I think as hard as it may be for you that you should talk to them both. Mention that your dad's temper frightens you and that you often hide in a closest for fear of being hurt. They need to know this. I would ask them to get family counseling to make things better at home.
If you can't do that you can legally go to a family doctor on your own and have it be confidential. They can't tell your parents anything you said and can get you a counselor, therapist, psychiatrist, psychologist or whomever you need to empower you and help handle what is going on at home. Your school guidance department can do same thing but it's better to deal with a doctor. You need this for yourself.
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My best friend and my cousin are going to six flags together with out me. Is it right my best friend Hang out with my cousin more than me? (link)
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Is this friendship new? If so they may just be getting to know one another and using the time to do that. That may be one reason you weren't invited. Unless you inadvertently offended one of them I wouldn't be concerned. I would think if it's a new friendship things will go back to normal soon.
However, if this isn't a new friendship they are cultivating and are continually leaving you out than I would mention this to your parents and hers and talk to them and her and your friend to find out why she's hanging out with your cousin and excluding you.
I think if they both know how you feel that they will see you are hurt. They may in fact not realize how you are feeling or that you feel excluded. If you are upset about the amusement park point it out to them and your family and see what happens.
I doubt it's the case bu perhaps your friend might not be the friend you thought she was or has grown apart from you for some reason and her new friend unfortunately is your cousin. This is okay as you will find someone new in the end but still doesn't feel good at first. You need to talk to everyone and see where the chips fall.
You could always go to Six Flags alone and get on the rides or take whomever you want on that day and not hang around them if desired just to show that you don't need them and aren't affected by a perceived snub.
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I was thinking in the bathroom with my vagina under the bathtub faucet, all of the sudden my dad opens the door and walks in and walks out, I'm pretty sure he saw me! He hasn't said anything about it, but its only been an hour, I'm hiding in my bedroom trying not to die from embarrassment! There is no way I'm going to question him about it! What do I do? I'm so afraid he's going to mention it or tell my mom, help! (link)
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I doubt he will talk to you about it for the same reasons you wouldn't want to. It's really something that wouldn't shock him or most parents. This activity is pretty much universal with both sexes at this age and adults know this and suspect it.
It's normal and healthy whether you do it or not. It may seem embarrassing now but it's really not a big deal in the end. Trust me, you're not the first girl or boy that has had this issue. I would shrug it off and go about business as usual. I wouldn't hide from him or anyone else either.
If he did raise the issue it would likely be to apologize and tell you it's fine and ask you to be sure you lock a door or do this when you have privacy. I guess the lesson in all of this is to make sure you have full privacy to avoid this happening again. You'll survive this.
Even if he did mention it to your mom it wouldn't bother her any as she knows it's normal and would reinforce that and being private. They were both your age once and get it. Adults, teens, children all ages statistically do this or will at some point in life with the stats being pretty much universal on that. There's no need to have any hangups about something practically everyone does but doesn't openly acknowledge doing. You're fine and can relax. Believe me there are worst things you could be doing than this for either to be worried about.
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Why do men have to be so hard to buy for? I have asked my Dad over and over whale wants for Fathers day this year and he said the same thing he says every year.I don't need anything. I am running out of I dead for Father's Day . I know I am going to make him a card but other than that I am clueless, my mom suggested getting him chin chewing tobacco and and he favorite candy and some dried nuts what do you think? (link)
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It's really not so much what the gift is or the cost but what he means to you and you to him. That's what his don't by me anything is code for. He would rather spend time with you than anything else.
I would follow mom's cue about the candy, maybe not the tobacco and nuts if he likes them. However, you can expand on that by making dinner or taking him to a restaurant and by getting a cake for him. Around here DQ (Dairy Queen in U.S.) Ice Cream Cakes work.
You could also do lottery tickets (scratch or regular) or if he's a movie buff a gift card $50 or $100 at most chains to see at least 5-10 films on one card may be an idea or get him a Blu-Ray or DVD. You can also plan something fun for you and him to do together alone. I think he values time more with you than anything else.
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So, for my Gr 12 Prom,(dinner and dance) I am sitting at a table with my 4 best friends and this one really annoying girl. As in, the table seats 10, but after she joined, no one else wanted to sit with us.
Yes I know, we should be nice and all that, and honestly I have tried. I do my best to be as nice as I can. But seriously, this is prom. It only happens once. And there is no way she is going to leave us alone! I just want to be able to enjoy the night with my friends without someone extra butting in on our conversations, making them all about her.
She just has no appreciation for personal space, common sense manners, or other people's opinions. She won't take a hint, but if you outright tell her that she needs to tone it down/give you some space she will get really upset.
She takes over conversations, butting in to private conversations, and wants all the attention to be on her.
How do I enjoy prom night with my friends? I don't want to be rude to her, but I also would like to not spend the entire night with her yakking in my ear... (link)
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It seems to me that you are deliberately looking to not enjoy yourself no matter what if she is there. The only way your night can be ruined is if you go into the event this way and let things bother you and have it take that affect.
I would go about your business and enjoy the dance. Spend more time doing that and talking with friends away from the table. You have to understand that this girl could very well have Aspergers, a learning problem or social issues that range from something medical. She probably knows this and has all her life and isn't aware of her behavior bothering others. When confronted she feels picked on as a result.
Her taking over conversations or butting in may come from a deep desire to be accepted by peers and heard. This may be why she is trying to latch on to you and your friends because everyone else treats her like shit all the time. How would you feel if that were you? she must see something she likes in your group.
I would exercise tolerance and be cordial but if she interrupts a conversation politely say excuse me so and so I'm not finished or " Could you excuse us for a few minutes we need to have a private conversation." If she doesn't get it move away from the table and go about your night and don't let it ruin your experience.
I know she gets upset if you confront her. Most people would. If you could use kindness and pull her aside and try to help her understand why others are responding negatively and actually be a friend regardless of what she isn't good at helping that would really do a lot for both of you. I think deep down all she wants is acceptance and a friend. If you were her how would you feel?
As far as prom goes for a lot of people it's a big deal but ultimately one evening and the world will not end if this person is there unless you allow anything they may do to affect you or you expect going in. Go about your business and rather than worry about what if and that which you cannot control have fun in spite of what may or may not transpire with her. Otherwise it's akin to screwing yourself over because of anxiety.
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your job gave you two free VIP tickets to a Alan Jackson country concert but you aren't into the music, they do know the ticket numbers they gave out to each worker, would you just go or sell the tickets to someone who likes that type of music? the VIP tickets are worth 375 each.....how much would you sell em for? (link)
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If your workplace knows the ticket numbers and section and sees other people in your seats don't you think they might fire you or cause problems if they see you sold them? Also, if re-sold they can also become invalid if others try to use them whose name isn't assigned to them or credit card or company. That's how they get scalpers and people get ripped off.
VIP tickets often award you access to the performer, sound check and close up seats most people cannot afford and or gain access to. You may not like country music but could find yourself enjoying him for he is a notable and top act. Maybe you should go and try him out as there is 0 cost to you in seats worth $600.
I have done that before with buying tickets to artists other say are popular knowing nothing about their music but just taking it in. You might like something about him if you see the live show. It won't kill you. Any plan to sell the tickets will backfire.
If you really hate the idea of going you might miss a great show but you can tell your boss that the date conflicts with another obligation and you appreciate the gesture but that someone else may have a great time at the show. Never say I hate this music or the artist. Why? He may have tickets to something else in the future that you absolutely love but not offer you.
That goes double if he sees those tickets were sold and you made $600. Don't think of this as an opportunity to make cash as it isn't one. To least you can do is give it back to your employers and tell them you can't make it that evening and that you hope someone else who really wants to go can.
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Hey im 13 year old and female
this will be short. I like this dude at my church. And he likes younger girls.(he is 17)IDK how to get him to like me tho. plz help i at least need some advice on how to get his to kiss me (link)
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He's almost 18-years-old which means he's nearly an adult. That's a big problem because the law will see him as such soon and you as a child at 13-years-old. He shouldn't have any interest in someone as young as you. That may not be what you want to hear but it would be a problem for you both. What do your parents think of this? They probably would tell you the same thing.
You can't make anyone like you or kiss you. They have to want those things themselves. All you can do is be yourself, talk to the person, and hope they like you back. You can't get anywhere with anyone without introducing yourself and getting to know who they are.
I'm being honest what you have here is a crush you cannot act on for the reasons above. However, there's nothing wrong with a friendship as long as you don't cross a boundary. It's not a good idea to aim for anything else.
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I'm very torn. I'm 7 weeks pregnant and have been with my fiance for 2 1/2 years. I have 3 children from a previous relationship. I thought I was done with kids. He knew this. I got pregnant accidentally, anyway.
I'd like to abort it but it would break his heart. He would love to have a child of his own. He's been so excited about it even though I've been going back and forth.
We can financially support a child and everything but it would make things a little bit of a struggle for a time. I'm 38 years old, my youngest is 9 years old and I don't know if I want to do it all over again. I want to travel and focus on things in my life and focus on my current children. But is it unfair of me to think only of myself? Will I resent him if I have this child, for him?? I also think I may lose him if I do have an abortion though he's said he would support me either way, I know it would crush him. (link)
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The child should be considered a blessing even if unplanned for you and your family. I have a feeling you would regret it if you didn't have it. You may not want a child now but once you bond with it you may change your mind. The funds are also there to care for it. I doubt you will resent him but you can bet it would be the other way around if you didn't have it. Think of the bigger picture and yourself to arrive at your decision.
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Hey I was at a WalMart and I exited and looked in the sky and saw an orange flaming object and I thought meteor but it was moving to slow to be a meteor. So my second assumption was u.f.o even though I don't believe in aliens on earth but I know there could be some out there. I knew it wasn't a plane because it stood still too, then another came and a dog from a car in front of me scared me and I looked up and the looked like stars and stopped moving. What are these? I don't do drugs and i take good naps so I'm not hallucinating. (link)
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The International Space Station looks like a moving star in the night sky. Actually, there have been meteor showers, comet sightings recently. Meteors do in fact look like bright orange streaks that appear and then disappear but usually at a rapid rate. You didn't see a UFO but you may have seen something related to space. I would reach out to astronomers online through Google and give a description of what you saw and ask what it likely is. There's nothing wrong with you or your eyes or body here.
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Age 12, almost 13.
My body dimensions:
22-23 in. waist
33 in. or slightly less hip
5' 2" or 5' 3"
I've been needing black leggings for a while, and for me, it is hard to find the right size because I'm so thin. I finally found Aritzia, with their XXS being 22.5. I decided on 3 leggings, and couldn't decide between them. I'm looking for a true black (not a lighter greyish black), a tight legging that may be slightly longer so that I can wear it for a while without it being too short, and a nice soft material (I heard that nylon/spandex is quality).
Links:
Equator Legging by Golden by TNA $32: https://us.aritzia.com/product/equator-legging/59617001.html?Quantity=1&uuid=c9bb018bcf55f0d08a12c97de3
This legging is a nice black, and I like that there is no outside hem. However, I am skeptical about the material. This is also cheaper than the others, which makes me question the quality. I am fine with the length because although it is a medium length, the model is taller than me.
TNA Stride Pant $60: https://us.aritzia.com/product/stride-pant/58325001.html?Quantity=1&uuid=002376e0e7394a537b9ca78adb
I'm not sure about the color of this legging, as it seems lighter than the other 2. The material seems quality, though, even though the 2nd image may hold a slight underwear line (???). The model is very tall (5' 11") and this legging will probably be my desired length. However, this is on the slightly expensive side.
TNA Cadence Pant $60: https://us.aritzia.com/product/cadence-pant/59113001.html?Quantity=1&uuid=95107c6ecfb542739e76fc3e54
This pant seems nice--no possible underwear line in the photo (thankfully). The only problem is that the model is 5' 11", wearing an XS, and the pant seems just right on her (the right amount of scrunch at the bottom)...and I'm about 8-9 in shorter, wearing an XXS...which may be wayy too long on me. Other than that problem, the pricing. I'm not sure if it's worth it.
*I've heard that ultra-expensive pants like Lululemon are made of nylon and lycra (spandex) blends as well, like the Cadence and the Stride Pant.
Please give a reason for choosing what you chose :)
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The last one mentioned in your question looks the best to me. It's stylish and sleek and the material looks as though it will hold up over time and multiple cycles in the wash and dryer. The $32.00 ones do in fact look of cheaper quality and don't look so hot on the model in her outfit.
What I would do is try to picture what current outfits you have and would wear with this might look like. Better yet you should visit a store location and see how they look on you or look at them up close to gauge.
If on a budget try buying one of the $60 pair you like best or were leaning towards and see what you think of them then go back next month and get others. I know that may not be the answer you wanted but it's exactly what I would do as it's hard to tell when you only see something online. I think you really have to eyeball clothing of any type in person and see if it fits your style, wallet, outfits and of course your body type. If you really like all 3 perhaps buy what you can afford and ask a parent if they might help with an outfit too.
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Why do people bully poaple with special needs I'm thirteen my name is angel I have special needs I have ADHD and 2 types of autism and odd and bypolar disorder everyone bully's me because I have special needs what should I do?
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They bully you because they don't understand, are ignorant about your afflictions or worse afraid. It's easier to be ignorant and make fun of someone than to be informed.
What do you do? I would consult your special needs teacher and point out in confidence who is doing the bullying, why, for how long etc and ask them how they can help you tackle it and put a stop to it.
Another idea that often works is asking your teacher if you can take 10 minutes of class time to deliver a speech or presentation to the class on ADHD, Autism and Bipolar disorder and how it affects you and that you are as normal as they are and do not deserve constant bullying. That right there will get people having empathy and make the others look like the pathetic individuals they are and have been. It will end your problem and command respect!
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my cousin is engaged to be married, well the bum she is marrying physically abuses her and sadly she had two kids by this bum...well the bridal shower was yesterday and I did go to that and gave a gift, the bum wasn't there, just the family.....and not his family....lmao.... I figure id go to something since I do not want to go to the wedding....I can't bear to witness an abuser marrying his foolish abusee ...what would you do? boycott the wedding and don't go.....or just go.... (link)
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You may not agree with the choice of person she is marrying however, you LOVE and support her. Not going to the wedding would crush her and likely lead to tension between you. I would go to support her and by ding so that doesn't mean you endorse his behavior either.
You could tell her that you hate what this person has done to her and her kids and that you really have a hard time with it and going but want to support her but don't like him. That could lead to tension but if you feel you need to get your feelings across than do so but expect blow back.
Also, you may not know the full story about this man and his struggles. Abuse is never to be tolerated however it may be fueled by addiction to alcohol or substances and 90% of the time he may be loving and a decent father to those kids. That may be why she stays. They need professional help and not scorn from others but it's up to her to get it.
It is your choice not to go but you had better have another excuse or something conflicting with the date rather than telling her it's about him and abuse as it will be like standing on a hornets nest. You can just not go and if it comes up explain you couldn't make it but I think you should go to support her especially if others plan to not attend for whatever reason.
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Hi am a 13 year old female and i am in middle school.
Okay so basically here is a background. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month but it hasn't really been dating cause we have never went on a date. there is only 3 more weeks left in school and i want to make our relationship NOT one of those in school relationships that end at the end of the school year. so i invited him to watch a movie with me and a group of friends ( a group of 4-5) It would just be me and my friends tho ( hopefully no parents) But i feel like if it is just me and my friends, me and my boyfriend would be pressured into doing something and i wouldn't mind that bu i don't want him to feel pressured. I mean like holding hands and stuff would be fine, but what if he tries to kiss me or something like i really don't know what to do. But i don't even know if he is coming either
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First, find out if he is coming or not and then relax. He is probably as nervous as you are about the same exact things. If you have 4-5 friends with you he isn't likely to kiss you or show signs of affection because of awkwardness. I think you are safe there.
Nobody can make you do anything or him likewise that they do not want to do. If your friends are pressuring you or apt to than they aren't being friends and you need to tell them off if need be and same with him. I doubt they would do this but you can tell them before they come along that you're not doing anything and don't want the pressure but they can attend.
If he tries something you aren't ready for ask him to stop and tell him that you aren't ready yet and feel embarrassed with friends and want to do these things in private.
I doubt you will have a problem as everyone will be focused on the actual movie itself and not much else. They may even disperse afterwards.
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A friend was telling me that someone called her unreliable and I agreed that she was b/c she rarely shows up to important things and doesn't ever text/call when she goes missing for days at a time. She got defensive and was more upset than I knew. A few days later we were talking with other friends and she told me that I "talked more shit than anyone else". I feel hurt that she would say this and seeing that I was hurt she said "well you called me unreliable". I'm still hurt by the comment and considering gradually ending the "friendship", am i overreacting? (link)
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Short answer: Yes, you are.
This will blow over if your friendship was solid to begin with. She's hurt by the remark and a knee jerk reaction is to hit you back. You should ask her to talk one on one. Explain that you should have used more tact in talking to her and didn't know she would be that hurt.
Point out you were actually trying to help her by explaining how some people have and are interpreting her behavior and why friends think they cannot count on her to follow through. Mention the things above and ask what's going on in her life with being missing etc and what can you do to help.
You should tell her that she shouldn't get defensive but that you wouldn't be a very good friend if you knew what others were saying and thinking about her and didn't bring it to her attention and be straight up as it's affecting all of her relationships.
She is being defensive and pissed off because she knows it is the truth and is think skinned and perhaps doesn't know how to change and wasn't expecting you to call her on it.
The thing is she brought it up so she was asking for a response from you that may not be what she wanted. Point that out. If she still doesn't come around than it's really on her not you. See where the chips fall after talking things over.
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my boyfriend is the best person anyone could ever meet. he is loving,caring, respects me. he understands me and i don't need to fake stuff around him.
since the past two days i somehow feel i have lost feelings for him. he went out of station for a few days and that's when i felt all of this. i don't want to lose feelings for him. i do love him alot. its never happened before and i am really scared as he is the best person i could ever get.
i did tell him about this. he made me understand that it happens sometimes. we've now been dating for almost 2 years( 2years on 9 July). he feels its just a phase and i will get over it. i dont know what to do. (link)
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If you have only felt this way for 2 whole days and never like this before you need to as yourself why the sudden change? Only you know what triggered these feelings.
Did he do something that pissed you off etc? Is the spontaneity gone? That's something you can fix. If at no other time did you feel this way than it's something you have to figure out or brush off.
Even if you did decide to split it's okay and there's nothing wrong with having feelings you cannot control. There is a helluva lot wrong with not confronting them or settling for a person who isn't right for you any longer and getting both parties hurt.
The problem is you believe he's the best and only person you could get. Right there is the wrong idea you have about yourself and the relationships you are in. There may be someone better for you romantically. Perhaps this current boyfriend hs grown more into a friend than a lover and that's okay. You need to consider all of this and move forward doing what makes you happy. It's the only way to figure things out.
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There's this guy who I find attractive. I see him quite a lot because he works at a fast food place I eat at a lot. I wanna talk to him but everytime I want to i don't because I get scared and don't know how to start the conversation and he's also at work so I don't think it would be appropriate or I would get the response I would like. So I just need some advice because I would eventually like to atleast hangout with him once. But I don't know him at all so I'm confused as to whether I go for it or not. Any questions I should ask or things I should say?
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Talk to him as you would anyone else. It really isn't any harder than that and you shouldn't make it in your head. Just be you and talk to him about where you work, music, interests, school or whatever else. You don't know if he has a girfriend. The easiest way to tell and not risk embarassment or rejection is to invite him to hang out at a party or in a group. If he hesitates it may mean he's not interested in you. That doesn't mean he won't become a friend but this allows you to continue working without awkwardness. Who knows he in fact like you too. You just have to talk to him and treat it like talking to anyone else you do in a day. Then you can let the chips fall where they may.
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Is ithis a joint problem that even in a very bad suituation where I should have been falling apart that I did not feel any shock was not any tears and feel little remorse or anguish.
If so what can I do ? (link)
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Could you do us a favor to make it easier to help you? Can you go back and re-write the question please? Right now it's not coherent and the reader has difficulty knowing what you require support with. This is likely why there haven't been responses yet.
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My dad died about a year ago. My mom is rushing me to sign a paper and get it notarized. It will give all of his inheritance to her. I am not a minor. Being that I know almost nothing about wills and inheritance, what information should I learn before signing this document? I have not seen a copy of the actual will. (link)
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You need to make sure that sadly she isn't trying to screw you out of anything in the will that is yours with this document. Don't put your signature on anything ever someone is trying to ram down your throat that has inplications that could hurt you. Instead have the will explained to you by an independant lawyer from her, the document she insists you sign and do what is recommended by that person with no link to her. I have a feeling she is legally trying to take money and anything you inherted by making you legally forfeit without knowing the will or what you would be signing. Sign nothing regardless of who mom is.
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