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how to get him to like me
Hey im 13 year old and female
this will be short. I like this dude at my church. And he likes younger girls.(he is 17)IDK how to get him to like me tho. plz help i at least need some advice on how to get his to kiss me
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I'm sure that you can seduce him if you put your mind to it.
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It is okay to have a crush on him, you will have more than this one crush in your lifetime. In this instance it is not okay to act upon this crush as he is much to old for you.
Right now a 4 year age difference is to big of a difference for the two of you to be anything more than Church acquaintances. You have just entered you teens and he is about to become an adult. He is way to worldly in many ways and he should be seeing and dating girls his own age. In a few months when he turns 18 dating someone your age could put him in jail.
When your older and an adult a 4 year age difference is not a much of a big deal as it is now. For now stay within your own age group of 13 & 14 year olds.
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He's almost 18-years-old which means he's nearly an adult. That's a big problem because the law will see him as such soon and you as a child at 13-years-old. He shouldn't have any interest in someone as young as you. That may not be what you want to hear but it would be a problem for you both. What do your parents think of this? They probably would tell you the same thing.
You can't make anyone like you or kiss you. They have to want those things themselves. All you can do is be yourself, talk to the person, and hope they like you back. You can't get anywhere with anyone without introducing yourself and getting to know who they are.
I'm being honest what you have here is a crush you cannot act on for the reasons above. However, there's nothing wrong with a friendship as long as you don't cross a boundary. It's not a good idea to aim for anything else.
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