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i have lost feelings for my boyfriend. but he doesn't deserve it
my boyfriend is the best person anyone could ever meet. he is loving,caring, respects me. he understands me and i don't need to fake stuff around him.
since the past two days i somehow feel i have lost feelings for him. he went out of station for a few days and that's when i felt all of this. i don't want to lose feelings for him. i do love him alot. its never happened before and i am really scared as he is the best person i could ever get.
i did tell him about this. he made me understand that it happens sometimes. we've now been dating for almost 2 years( 2years on 9 July). he feels its just a phase and i will get over it. i dont know what to do.
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If you have only felt this way for 2 whole days and never like this before you need to as yourself why the sudden change? Only you know what triggered these feelings.
Did he do something that pissed you off etc? Is the spontaneity gone? That's something you can fix. If at no other time did you feel this way than it's something you have to figure out or brush off.
Even if you did decide to split it's okay and there's nothing wrong with having feelings you cannot control. There is a helluva lot wrong with not confronting them or settling for a person who isn't right for you any longer and getting both parties hurt.
The problem is you believe he's the best and only person you could get. Right there is the wrong idea you have about yourself and the relationships you are in. There may be someone better for you romantically. Perhaps this current boyfriend hs grown more into a friend than a lover and that's okay. You need to consider all of this and move forward doing what makes you happy. It's the only way to figure things out.
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