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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D
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OKay i come from a fairly rich family and im about to turn 16, my grandparents are buying me a car and a chose a Mercedes-Benz. So i took the brochure to school the other day to pick out which model i wanted and some of my friends are like "wats u looking at?" and i said "im picking out my car." they were like "ur getting a new Mercedes?" and i said yes and they started yelling about me being a spoiled brat and now some of them wont talk to me anymore... wat shold i do???
Cody
my friend is an only child, so she gets what she wants basically.. but shes not a brat, and ppl say she is.. I dont see why your friends would say that, when they asked first what you were looking at. it would be differnt if you were like hey look at the car im getting, but you didnt, just brush it off, and when they want a ride, be like remeber when you called me a spoiled brat?.. yea thats what i thought... now that might not be you, but i know thats what i would say with a nice car like that!!.. && happy early birthday!!
ok im 15/f and i've never had a boyfriend IN MY LIFE. when i go places guys tell my friends they think im hott but they never talk to me! i dont know why i get lots of pretty compliments and im not fat (5'4" 120 lbs) or anything why dont i ever have a boyfriend? i hate it so much cause at dances and stuff a slow song comes up and i have to leave because i dont have a boyfriend and all my favorite songs are like romantic so it makes me want a boyfriend and i just want someone to love me as much as i love them i'm tired of "waiting" for the right guy i just want a boyfriend i dont want to be like "yeah i had my first boyfriend at 18" when everyone else is like "i had my first boyfriend and first kiss at 11" its kinda embarrasing. sorry i just need advice about this situation and what to do sorry this is so long. thank you soooo much if you help me out.
my friend has this same problem, but shes been "with" a guy tho.. but she cant get a boyfriend.. her main problem is that, shes very open with everything.. shes very pretty, awesome person all together, but you know, how theres somethings, you just DONT do infront of guy before your dating, well she has that problem of doing that, do you?.. shes very loud too, shes the youngest in my class year, so she is immature.. do you maybe act immature?.. that might be a porblem. but if not, if your not loud, dont do anything i said, then im not sure, just wait for the guy that likes you for you, and dont rush into thing.. sorry its long, hope i helped!!
Hey. Well, I'm 13, if that will help.
So I have a screenname[AIM] and a myspace and stuff, and I'm absolutely addicted. More to AIM then to myspace, though. I go on AIM every single day, no matter where I am or who I'm with. I go on it for atleast an hour and a half and if it were up to me, I'd never get off.
So, my question is, is there any way I can like less addict myself to the computer, is it a phase?
Thankss
haha.. yea so am i!!.. not so much myspace anymore. just this now.. but just try, not getting on it, you see a computer, just dont get on the computer at all!.. i tore my ACL, so now the computer is my life, well was for 8 months.. lol.. now im slowly going back into sports..
try hanging out with friends outside of a house, or try going to like the YMCA if you have one near your house.. hope i helped!!!
So on Saturday night, I went with my best friend Bridgette to a movie night at a boy named Robert's house. She only knew her boyfriend and Robert, and I didn't know anyone. There was a couple other people there (girls and boys) but there was one guy in particular that i was interested in. and it seemed that he was interested in me as well, his name is Jacob.
after everyone left and it was just Bridgette, Robert, Jacob and me. and Jacob made me scoot over on the couch so he could sit next to me.. theres about 3 other couches in the room and he kept flirting with me alot.
and then his phone died and he needed to call his mom so he asked to borrow my phone, and so i let him. and he goes "now i have your phone number. i'm gonna text you at like 2 tonight okay?" and i was like so excited about it. we've been texting pretty much nonstop since then.. and that night i asked him if he was single. and he said he'd been with this girl on and off for a year and nine months, but for the past 3 months all they've been doing is arguing and he said he knew it was going to end soon, which is why he was flirting with me so much.
and this morning he tells me that they're over, and that he cant wait to hang out with me this weekend, so he can really get to know me better.
and i just dont know if he is just wanting some ass, like a rebound. or if he really did know it was ending with his girlfriend, and he really did fall for me.
i could use all the help i could get.
so help, please!
i say he was pretty out front with you.. saying how long and told you that he knew it wasnt going to last. if they have been fighting for 3 months, im sure hes pretty much over her. just dont give it to him right away, i say wait untill your dating, so then you know for sure!.. and if he doesnt call you after your date together cause you wouldnt give it up, then hes an ass. but if does call, then im sure hes a good guy and means well!.. good luck!!
last night i had sex for the forth time and i've been sexually active for the past 3 weeks. (my first time was about three weeks ago) last night when i did have sex it still hurt when he put it in of course not as bad as the 1,2, or 3rd but it still hurt like an elephant goign up my vagina haha but anyway. it still bled too;; i brok my cherry at the age of 5 from jumping on my bed and yeah you get the picture. so it's not that.
is this okay? or should i talk to my mom about it (my moms my best friend i tell her everythign) and maybe see a doctor. but when i went to planned parenthood she said i was heathy and everythign was fine which was last week. so is this hurting and bleeding still normal?
i agree, dont worry, mine still hurts and its been about 10 times.. no worry!
I NEED HELP!! My friend, someone I have known for..forever, and someone I know I can't live without [in a friend way] went to school today and things didn't work with her boyfriend. He's your typical asshole. He treats her like complete shit, but sometimes he's really sweet. He's really 2 faced, personally, I don't like him. But, she found out he told someone he was going to break up with her in a few weeks [he told someone this in the begining of Feb.] So, finding this out, she's a mess. She's home alone after school and I know she will try to kill herself or do something extremely drastic like that. She loves him, a lot. PLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASE help me! I don't know if I can trust her when she says she wont do it. Please, someone, I need to do something, but i CANT tell her parents or mine or a school teacher, ect. Please help me.
i say, go to her house, and just be with her, dont leave her alone...
i dont know if this is the right category but oh well. anyway my best friend has a brother who goes to this boys school and has been for 2 years or so. i moved her last year so i have never met him and when he came down to visit for christmas break i went to my friends house and i meet him. i end up staying up all night with him. i did some things i probably should not have done with him considering he was my bestfriends brother. so it was pretty much a one night stand. is it a one night stand when he talks to me the next day? and kisses me the next day? (i know that might sound stupid but i need to know) he is moving back this month. can anyone tell me how to deal with being aroung him? i dont know how i should act. like should i act like nothing happened or what? i need major help. oh keep in mind that he is 18 and i am 15.
by kissing and talking to you the next day, do you mean when you guys woke up?.. then its a one night stand.. or later in the day when you went back over?.. if that, he might like you?.. but it can still be classified as a one night stand.
& how to act, well if hes all touchy touchy with you, then sure flirt with him. but if hes not, then just go about acting like nothing ever happened..
does anyone have ne quotes for AIM profiels about "Ex best friends"?
OMG CALL THE PO PO!
my best friend just stabbed
me in the back!!!
I'm 13/f and really like this kid. He makes me laugh all the time, and has become a great friend since the beginning of the school year. I've liked him for about... 7 months now. Vacation just ended (we talked over vacation a couple times, and he teased me-in a playful way- and things like that), and since then, it seems as if he's been avoiding me. One of my friends thinks he has, and another thinks he might be too shy to talk to me because he likes me. It's not too great of a situation, though, because I'm also really shy when it comes to talking to guys I like, so I don't really have the guts to go talk to him. Yesterday, he only talked to me once, saying only like, 5 words. Today, he:
1. told me I dropped my chapstick, and
2:(I'm really sorry about the length), I saw him looking at me a few times, and I was pretty much staring at him in social studies, and when he saw me, I quickly looked away. The whole "him looking at me, me seeing him, then looking away" thing happened quite a few times. I think he might have been trying to catch my eye, and I don't know if I should go along with it. I really like him, I mean ALOT, and I don't want to screw anything up. Question: 1.Should I try to talk to him? 2:Should I go along with him trying to catch my eye? I'm sorry if my question dosen't make any sense, but to me, neither does this situation. Please help. Thanks :]
-very confused
you should totally talk to him!!.. its the best thing!.. also when you see him looking at you, smile!!.. && then he will either smile back or maybe turn away.. im thinking he'll smile!..
hope i helped!!
i'm 15/f. this guy likes me. but i'm really awkward and shy. he wants to makeout and all kind of stuff, but i don't know how.. AT ALL! when he says "i love you" on the internet, what do i say? what about when he says it in person? when he says "you're really hott!!" what do i say? [on internet & person] he's been with tonnnnsssss of girls before, so yeah.
okay!!..
so.. about the kissing, just RELAX!.. so this is how i learned, on a movie, the chick was telling another to massage his tounge with yours.. so do that.. dont like lick him all over his mouth, ew. and dont stick it wayy back in his mouth, make sure you open yours wide enough.
the "i love you" thing.. wow.. so does he say it like that?.. if so, tell him to SLOW down.. or when he says it just say "love yah too".. dont put I or You in it..
"your really hott!!" be like thanks i know, & your not to bad yourself.. or thanks!..
hope i helped!!
yeah, i've tried everything u said but she still keeps going on about, the world will be a better place when shes gone, and she keeps saying she cant wait till she kills herself, i've tried everything..... i just dont want her to hurt herself,
i told her i liked her 2day, i was going to ask her out but... i decided not to because of the timing and everything but, yeah, i dunno,
thanx for your help anyway....
that would be a good idea.. but im telling you, she might get mad, but who know, i hope everything works out good!! also, be there for her. you might not think so, but itll help her liking you, shell know how truthful you are to her even when shes depressed!
what does sex feel like? does it hurt??? feel good? i'm a girl and i heard that it feels good, but i also heard it hurts. help!
okay.. so iv only been with two people.. really only one?.. but my first time, was with my old boyfriend, about a year ago, and he was big. we only did it once, and it really wasnt sex, he went in and poped my cherry, that was it. and it hurt, i cried... but then almost a year later, iv done it with my boyfriend now, it hurt the first we did it, but now it feels great. so im saying it depends on the size.. but if it hurts, stop, then try again the next day, so your hole wont close up real small again.. hope i helped!!
im 16/f. k, so i've been dating my guy since july 04. he was supposed to move to indiana but he didn't. he ended up moving in my house instead. he went thru my cell phone last night, so i went through his and found a message he sent to someone saying "hey sexy" and "finger urself". so i got kind of worried. today, i was talking to his best friend today and he told me my bf told him that he was going to cheat on me if he moved to indiana, and he still might cheat on me now that he lives with me. his friend doesn't want me to rat him out, but i need to say something to him bc im so upset about this. what should i do? thank you in advance.
well even if he hasnt cheated yet, still.. dump him.. you dont need that, you took him in when he wanted to stay.. dump him..
notice that look guys get when they are horny?
Why does that happen?
hehe.. my boyfriend gets that face, it just means he wants it..and you made him "really" happy...
I am blonde (naturally) and always have been. I can't imagine my life without blonde hair. It is a huge part of who I am today. Anyways, my class mates decide to be sterotypical and now everything thinks I am just another dumb blonde. I am so tired of it. I didn't do my homework assignment once and I now I am dumb. They look at me as if I were an idiot. I'm no though. I have A's and B's and I am in honors and seminar classes! What can I do to prove to them I am not a dumb blonde? or should I just let it go and let them think what they want?
i know how you feel.
i use to have blonde hair up untill 7th grade.
my hair just changed colors..
its brown now..
but even tho my hair has changed ppl still call me a dumb blonde. i just let it go. but other ppl go along with it and act dumb, im happy that you dont. Dont for a minute let it bother you. theres nothing more you can do to prove your not.. i mean A's & B's.. and your a *dumb* blonde. just let them have their laugh untill their the ones getting F's cause their to worried about your life.
13/f im 5'4'' im 120
what should my weight be
am i over or under weight
where could i get the scale
what exercises sould i do
your a good weight!..
it really depends on if you have muscles or not..
im 5'5 and im 140, but i have way more muscle then fat..
but you sound like a good weight, as long as you dont look like your not eating, i think your good to go!
Can someone please give me some websites to find things like these?
PLEASE.
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share.buddy4u.com
or to get the best ones out of that site
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this site has things for your buddy aol profile and other cute things..
hope i helped!!
when you srcunch your hair.. after you towel dry it (damp) do you brush it and THEN put the gell in?
yes..
this is what i do..
i leave it in the towl for ohh 5-7 mins.
i dont take the towl and run it through my hair..
i brush it..
i dont like to use gell, i think it weighs down your hair.. i use moose and a lot of hairspray..
i try to avoid having my head upside down when drying, it makes lil baby hairs or bangs stick up..
if you look at my picture on my page, thats my hair when its scrunched..
I am a 15 year old girl. My boyfriend and i broke up after a long time a few weeks ago. I really do love him and he told me "i used to love you." I messed up because i really hurt him and now I dont know it he is just saying he doesn't love me or if he really doesn't. There is this other boy who is really cute and he likes me. All of my friends are telling me it will help if I go out with him but I still love my ex. what do i do? should i keep waiting for my ex.. he calls me everynight and he always wants to talk... or should i forget about him and go for the new boy?
it wouldnt be fare to the new boy. you still love your ex and have feelings, and it just wouldnt be fare to date him now. wait another couple weeks, and if you want to get over your ex, dont pick up when he calls, or if you do pick up, say you have to go after a couple mins. but if you wanna try to get back together, ask your ex why he keeps calling if he doesnt love you.. that might lead to something good or bad.. hope i helped!
ok, well...i'm 14/m...and i have an amazing girlfriend that i love SOOO much...but i have a lot of people that i kno that just...don't support my decision to be with her...there's kinda some good reasons for their argument but i hate it when they bring it up...
well, when i first met her, she was going out with this 21 year old, and he was a jerk, but she couldn't get him to leave her alone. this guy was horrible to her- apparantly he thought it was love...he's a weirdo...
well, he threatened to hurt her (and me, for that matter) unless she had sex with him, and of course, she wanted him to leave her alone, because not only was he being a horrible person to me, hejust wouldn't leave her alone...so she did it. and this guy left her alone.
and so everyone calls her a whore and all that stuff and she's not- she's not a slut, doesn't dress like one, is amazingly beautiful...but i feel like i'm the only one who sees that in her...
so i guess what i'm asking is- how can i get other people to see what i see in her? because honestly, none of my friends do...
thnx
well.. can she be lying to you?.. about the hole if i didnt have sex with him, he would hurt us?.. where you there when he said that?...
if she isnt lying, then PLEASE stick up for her..
i have a friend who gets called that, and her boyfriend doesnt stick up for her.. so please just stick up for her and be there and dont be scared to kiss her infront of your friends to prove you dont care what they say or think...