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i really really want a boyfriend :[
ok im 15/f and i've never had a boyfriend IN MY LIFE. when i go places guys tell my friends they think im hott but they never talk to me! i dont know why i get lots of pretty compliments and im not fat (5'4" 120 lbs) or anything why dont i ever have a boyfriend? i hate it so much cause at dances and stuff a slow song comes up and i have to leave because i dont have a boyfriend and all my favorite songs are like romantic so it makes me want a boyfriend and i just want someone to love me as much as i love them i'm tired of "waiting" for the right guy i just want a boyfriend i dont want to be like "yeah i had my first boyfriend at 18" when everyone else is like "i had my first boyfriend and first kiss at 11" its kinda embarrasing. sorry i just need advice about this situation and what to do sorry this is so long. thank you soooo much if you help me out.
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First off, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you or your situation. I was in your same shoes till I was 17 & I felt a little out of place too. But later on I realized there was no rush & no need to get worked up about experiencing those things "later" in life. Whether you have your first kiss at 11 or 18, it doesn't make you any better or any less of a person. There's nothing to be embarassed about. Maybe guys are intimidated by you. Maybe you're too pretty or out of a guy's league & they're too shy to approach you. Just because you haven't had a boyfriend yet doesn't necessarily mean there's anything wrong with you. You're still 15, you have plenty of time to find a boyfriend. In the meantime, be flirty & be yourself. If there's someone you're interested in, be the confident one to initiate something. Just don't fall into the thinking that the only way you'll be happy is if you're with someone. Someone will come along, don't worry. :)
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my friend has this same problem, but shes been "with" a guy tho.. but she cant get a boyfriend.. her main problem is that, shes very open with everything.. shes very pretty, awesome person all together, but you know, how theres somethings, you just DONT do infront of guy before your dating, well she has that problem of doing that, do you?.. shes very loud too, shes the youngest in my class year, so she is immature.. do you maybe act immature?.. that might be a porblem. but if not, if your not loud, dont do anything i said, then im not sure, just wait for the guy that likes you for you, and dont rush into thing.. sorry its long, hope i helped!!
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doesnt matter how old are you and stuff...just dont rush into relationship cause guys are just pain in the ass sometimes..but you know girl...as long as your you are single..enjou your life and dont worry abt it..because your prince will come and dont worry abt your friends...just dont be shy and be outgoing!!!
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Hey well im 18 and im married but the reason i got married is because i love my husband not because i wanted to get married to not feel left out so ask yourself this do i want a boyfriend because everyone has one or do i want one who i know i can love? after you answer it youll know what to do
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