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one night stands.. what to do?
i dont know if this is the right category but oh well. anyway my best friend has a brother who goes to this boys school and has been for 2 years or so. i moved her last year so i have never met him and when he came down to visit for christmas break i went to my friends house and i meet him. i end up staying up all night with him. i did some things i probably should not have done with him considering he was my bestfriends brother. so it was pretty much a one night stand. is it a one night stand when he talks to me the next day? and kisses me the next day? (i know that might sound stupid but i need to know) he is moving back this month. can anyone tell me how to deal with being aroung him? i dont know how i should act. like should i act like nothing happened or what? i need major help. oh keep in mind that he is 18 and i am 15.
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It was a one night stand, because you really did not know one another before, and unless you two really started dating and made a commitment, it would probably remain such. The fact that he did not kick you out of bed and tell you to get the hell out does not mean he is your boyfriend suddenly. Also, the age difference is a big one because although it is just three years, he is legally an adult and you are legally a child. If you had sex, he could be charged with raping a child even if the sex was consentual. It is really stupid for him to sleep with or mess around with anyone under 18. Something did happen and it would be stupid of you to act like nothing happened. You are not nothing. Your body and feelings are not nothing. If he acts like you and your body are nothing, then he is a big jerk. Avoid this scenario in the future by not getting carried away with a "man" you have no real intimacy with or commitment from. You will avoid getting used next time.
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by kissing and talking to you the next day, do you mean when you guys woke up?.. then its a one night stand.. or later in the day when you went back over?.. if that, he might like you?.. but it can still be classified as a one night stand.
& how to act, well if hes all touchy touchy with you, then sure flirt with him. but if hes not, then just go about acting like nothing ever happened..
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