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friend help
ok so i have 2 really annoying friends. i mean i dont want them to not be my friends but they wont leave me alone. theres just mainly this one who i have been friends with for a year. and like shes never away from me. we ALWAYS have to hang out. she calls me at least 17 times a day. and she gets mad if i dont pick up. she comes to my house everyday. she lies about when shes getting picked up. i have to like pay for her like i have no choice. shes always pushing me around. and if i yell back at her she gets mad at me and wont talk to me. and i cant stand it when people are mad at me. but she gets mad over the stupidest things. im never away from her! liek if were just walking she'll just push me and if im like stop! shes like oohh you mad at me (puppy face) and im likes yeah! can you not push me?? then she walks away.. then like at the mall she'l lrandomly walk away and go somewhere.. and i will call her and be like where are you? and shes like in the store. im like yeah but where? and she'll be like in the front. and im liek well im jsut going to leave because your liek being really annoying. and like then like she constantly takes pictures of her on my phone then sends them to my computer which costs a dollar per picture. and like i had pictures of my crush and of me and my friends and she deleted them all and wont admit it but i know it was her. and then like she cant keep her mouth shut. and i feel so embarassed when im with her because she talks about people and like she says it soo loud. and liek in the mall there was a couple in front of us and shes like god these people are soo slow liek so loud. and then the guy is like sweetie let the people pass us. and hse even does with the elderly. and its just really annoying! but like she doesnt get it! and i tell her that its really annoying but like she wont stop!
and the other friend i have. lets call her friend 2. when you answer my question =D well she doesnt have her own life and obsesses over others. like i like this famous guy for like 6-7 years and now all of a sudden this year shes obsessed with him and like i have pictures of him and she jsut took them away and is like you cnat have these hes myne. and im like wtf? first of all your not gonna get him and you cant tell me who i can and can not like. and its really annoying. and like she gets so jealous. and like i was talking to her one day in the summer and were tlaking about guys and how i liked someone. and shes liek you know its gonna be hard for you to get a guy because you never made out with somebody. im like wtf? that doesnt matter. and shes like well you see you have no experience. and liek she just wont stop dissing you. and then like shes always like omg im soo fat and its just really annoying. and we tell her shes not. but she is. but then we stopped doing that and we just are to the point and say then just go on a friggen diet talking about it wont help you and your obesity! like she just wont shut up! and shes so controlling. like if im trying to have fun and i poke her or someting she'll be like oww! that really hurt! carissa stop! but then like she does it to me constantly. shes like treating us as if shes so mature and is our mother. and shes constantly saying that we look like shit and how she has to fix us and crap.and she just makes us look worse because shes ugly. and one day i was wearing uggs and and outfit from abercrombie and shes like eww why are you turning into one of those girls? and she like threw her gym clothes at me and is like go change. im like no! i like my outfit. and shes like you look like a slut! (and i was wearing sweats and a longsleeve shirt. im like wtf? liek shes so controlling! and nobody likes her.
i mean i dont want you guys to be liek oh dump both of them. because i mean everyone has their own possitive and negative traits. but i jsut dont want to be with friend number 1 constantly and i dont know about number 2. me and my "group" have kicked her out soooo many times but she wont leave us alone.
help.
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Wow. okay.
I understand what you're thinking.
If you truly don't want to be friends with the first one anymore, make her angry, and don't attempt to make up with her. If you just need some time alone, tell her that you're going through some things you need to sort out on your own, and you don't want her to feel pressured to support you the whole time.
As for the second one, she seems like she needs a friend more than anyone. If you don't want to be her friend any longer, slowly inch out of her life, a little at a time, until you guys aren't really talking anymore. Don't just outright reject her, because she'll worm her way back in. SLOWLY push her out, and she won't realize its happening.
Well, I sound bitchy, but I'm sorry.
hope I helped
Rose
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