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i'm scared..
i'm 15/f. this guy likes me. but i'm really awkward and shy. he wants to makeout and all kind of stuff, but i don't know how.. AT ALL! when he says "i love you" on the internet, what do i say? what about when he says it in person? when he says "you're really hott!!" what do i say? [on internet & person] he's been with tonnnnsssss of girls before, so yeah.
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He does not love you. He doesn't even like you. The reason he has been with tons of girls is because he is a sweettalker and a player. He knows exactly what to say to get what he wants, which is in your pants. Don't make out with him or do anything else. You're smarter than that. That's why you're scared. If you do anything with him you'll definitely regret it. When he tells you that he loves you or that you're hot, tell him to leave you alone. I'm assuming that you've never been kissed before. You want your first time to be special. With him, it's going to be far from that. Don't skip the whole first step. Try to find a guy that really genuinely cares about you and will actually date you for awhile before you kiss. When you find that guy, you won't be worried about not knowing how. It'll just happen and it'll be great. Good luck. :)
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Hey. As for the kissing there's really no way to actually do it. You just have to be relaxed and in the mood. Try not to get stressed out (I know it's easier than it sounds) because it will show. This website pretty much says it all [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) As for when he says I love you on the computer I would just say I guess you'll do and then say just kidding with a smiley, love ya too or something like that. He'll find it funny and will feel content that you added the love ya too or maybe love u 2. This way, it's not like you're getting too deep so soon but you're still being nice back. As for when he says it in person I would just smile if you feel shy about it and then ask him if he wants to do something later to get off the subject. As for when he says you're really hot on the computer I would just say something like wow thanks you're not half bad either and then put lol or something. As for in person I would just say something like the feelings mutual and laugh, or if you feel shy saying something like that just say wow in a happy tone which shows him your happy for the compliment and makes him happy that he's flattering you. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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okay!!..
so.. about the kissing, just RELAX!.. so this is how i learned, on a movie, the chick was telling another to massage his tounge with yours.. so do that.. dont like lick him all over his mouth, ew. and dont stick it wayy back in his mouth, make sure you open yours wide enough.
the "i love you" thing.. wow.. so does he say it like that?.. if so, tell him to SLOW down.. or when he says it just say "love yah too".. dont put I or You in it..
"your really hott!!" be like thanks i know, & your not to bad yourself.. or thanks!..
hope i helped!!
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