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I met this guy at school who I never knew until this year. I started texting him and we've been texting everynight for about 3 months. Sometimes i keep texting him first but when i ask if he wants to stop he says no. He thinki should have good self confidence and is nice to me mostly other than joking mean. But he isnt asking me out and i hinted and i said i did like him but hes not getting the clue. He sometimes texts this ex-girlfriend of his and he says out of boring people he said her me and then this guy so I dont know if that means he puts her over me. He says they only talk once a week and we talk everyday. But at school we dont see eachother much and walking home we're with other people and he dosent speak directly to me. He dosent even look at me but im the same im a bit afraid to. I tell him everything and he says he dosent have anything he could tell me, im so confused he says theres only a a few things wrong with me not as many as I make out what should I do? (link)
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I agree with what The first advicer said,.
But i'd like to add that i want you to remember that a guy should treat you with respect and pretty much like a princess. If this guy does not accept you for who you are then he is definetly not the right guy.
It seems to me that the guy doesn't mind texting you or replying to your texts. but it seems like he is embarrassed to be seen talking to you or around you.
Even though you may like him,. I would say just try giving him some space and see if he texts you ar all in the next few days. if he does not text you,. then maybe he is not the guy for you
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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I had about 200 dollars in cash (all 20's) in my wallet. I was going to go to the bank to put it all in my savings account but i was extremely busy and waited a few days to do it. I know I should have taken that money out of my wallet and put it somewhere safe. One time I actually did. I was going out with friends and I remember taking it out of my wallet and put it in my drawer next to my bed. Then I think I remember putting it back in my wallet because I was sure I was going to the bank the next day. But I guess I didn't because I think the money was in the wallet for a few more days.. so today i decide to count my money and see how much I had. Well there was only 23 dollars in there... i got really worried and searched EVERYWHERE!!! I looked in all the pockets in my wallet, my school backpack, my purse, all of my pants pockets, my drawers in my desk, even in between the cushions in the couch. I literally looked everywhere in my room and all the other rooms it could be in. I have no idea where it went... :'(
This makes me really sad because this is MY money. My money that I actually worked for... And at my age, I never really get to say its my money. most of the time its my parents money that they give me. but this is money that I earned hard, and now i'm so upset its gone :( I know I should have taken better care of it.. I dont need the lecture. I understand money (especially cash) is a big responsibility and I am old and mature enough to deal with it. I just wasn't thinking. So please don't give me that speech about being more responsible. I get it. I learned my lesson. I just really need some advice on what to do.
I can't ask my dad because he will be furious if he finds out I lost that money. I was thinking I could sell some of my things on ebay or craigslist so i can kind of get it all back? I have some useless things like a lava lamp, a lot of video games and movies I dont use anymore. Do you think thats a good idea? I was also thinking maybe I could bake some cookies and go door to door selling them for like a dollar each? Kind of like a lemonade stand but for cookies.
Oh and I kind of have a feeling that some kids in my 4th hour class took it because my 4th hour class isn't exactly the "good crowd". A lot of kids in that class smoke weed, drink, party, they cheat on tests, steal things all the time. So maybe they could have gone in my bag and stole it? But then why would they leave 23 dollars???
Or maybe it fell out of my wallet when I went to the store a few days ago? I was kind of in a rush, but I honestly don't remember anything falling out of my wallet. If it did, i probably would have noticed it because i was looking right at my wallet when i pull out or put away cash. Do you think maybe I should go back to the stores I was at and see if they found it?? But how would they know its mine and that i'm not just trying to steal someone elses?
I'm just in a really bad mood :( I have such bad luck all the time.. Its not fair that I work so hard for this and then it all goes away :( I'm a good girl and a good person. Honestly. I believe in karma but I didn't do anything wrong to deserve this.. I have such bad luck :( ugh. Can anyone help me?? Thank you. (link)
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First off,. Did you maybe spend more than you thought you did? If not then maybe you might have misplaced it. OR infact in might have been stolen,. you can't be 100% sure.
Also. Just because this group of people is known as the bad crowd and has been known to steal does not automatically make them a top suspect. Sure they could have done it. But you can't blame or accuse them without hard physical proof.
I do agree baking cookies or selling a few unwanted items is a good idea Although I would NOT USE CRAIGSLIST! It might be an okay website,. But it does not seem very trust worth. and i have heard alot of bad stuff about it.
I would suggest you use Kijiji. But depending on how old you are,. i would Recommend being with some friends or someone you trust when meeting up for the initial exchange of items and money
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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Thanks I mean it! thanks alot(: you really big help right now but my mama knows that I don't eat and that my legs cramp up and everything but she dosent seem to care so much because all she says is I'm sorry eat something:( plus right now wouldn't be the best time to talk about cuz there mad at me because I got suspended from school for kissin my boyfriend:( but I just hope all my health problems go away!!! Because they'll start askin questions and I have never told an adult about why I don't eat..unless your one(; cuz I don't know I don't really know you but I feel like I could tell you anything!!!!!! (link)
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Random question how old are you??? And is it a catholic school? Just curious,. I've never heard of that Before in my life,. haha. I'm tecnically an adult of 20 years old., But i have been in these situations before so i know somewhat about not eating. Hmm. I would wait a bit if i were you then if your fighting,.
BUT I would not leave it too long incase this is not just from not eating. Worse case scenario it might be something worse,. But i'm not a doctor so don't take my word for it :P
If you have any other questions you can e-mail me,.
That way it's not on the internet for Every single person to see.. haha.
Jasmine.
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My best friend is always whining and crying because she cannot get a boyfriend, I tell her to wait and eventually she will find a guy that likes her a lot but she just ignores it. Every time she see's a couple, she will start moaning and pitying herself. HELP!!!!! (link)
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Agreed to the first advicer,. How old is she..
But at the same time i can relate. I have trouble getting and keeping boyfriends,. At least the good ones. Show her these advices maybe it will help.
I know when i look at couples somedays it's like GRosss. I hate you! Why do you have to be so happy and i can't be..
OTher days its like that is cute,. i'm happy for them,. even though i don't know them but they seem really happy.
And unfortunatley time is the only thing that will heal all and it will seem very hard at times but you just have to keep remembering that you are a very beautiful person and are more than deserving of someone as much as anyone else is.
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Sorry if I'm buggin yu I just really like your help! But not eating has really messed up my health like I black out all the time! My heart flutters all the time! Yu know when it just starts racing like you saw a ghost!!!and my legs will start cramping at random times and I'm just so scared to go to get my physical for sports! Because I just don't want anything messing up my chances to play:( do you think there's going to be any problems with me??:( (link)
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I don't mind at all honey,.
Advicing actually helps me too,. it makes me not think about my life problems in order to help someone else :)
Honestly because the fact that your health has gotten that bad to the point your blacking out is a very major warning sign that something could be wrong! I would first of all talk to your parents or parent which ever you feel more comfortable about. Because it would be a good idea for you to talk to your doctor about regulating what is going on.
It is absolutely not normal to be blacking out or for your heart to be fluttering.
If you don't talk to your doctor about what is going on it could be come even more serious than your legs cramping up,. Which might trigger complications when playing sports.
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Hello, I am a 14 year old female. There's this guy that I've been very close with for about three years. He's my bestfriend and we've actually dated last year. I tell him everything, including how I feel about him. He stopped liking me, but I never did. But a few days ago he said that he actually does like me, but he also likes my bestfriend. The day after he told me that he likes me, he said that he didn't anymore. He likes my bestfriend ALOT and she likes him too. They want to date, but they won't because they don't want to hurt me, seeing how I'm in love with him. He said he's kinda mad at me because I'm like ''in the way'' of them dating. Yet he says he won't date her until I'm 100% okay with it, but as of now it seems like that will be never.. I love him sooo much, and I really want to be with him. But him and my girl bestfriend like eachother and want to date alot, and I just have to sit back and be depressed and be in the way of them being together. I just do not know what to do :( thankyou for taking the time to read my problem. (link)
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Honestly,. You may never be fully 100% Okay with him being with someone else,. Just for the fact that your feelings for him will be dimly there. It is one thing to want them to be happy but not in a way that hurts you. If your best friend really was your best friend she would look at the big picture. She may like him,. But she should take a look at how it is effecting you. Maybe she should wait a while before jumping on your ex if you still have feelings for him.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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Can you get in trouble if you are at a party or someones house and they are doing like heroine or something, can you get in trouble for just being there?
Just purely curious :)
well actually what if people are just doin pot and I'm there can I get in trouble if the cops come? (link)
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Just because your not doing the drugs or smoking the stuff,. Does not make you innocent,. You would be charged with Drugs by association,. Or by being a witnessing partner or the acts.
So i would be very careful who i am with and what they are doing.
I'm sure your curious because you might be in that situation at some point but just be warned. If they go to jail,. You might go to jail as well. or be charged for the offense.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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Ok so now I'm trying to stop this eating problem but I've just done it so long that it's just normal you know...I've tried so many times to start eating again but it only lasts for. Day or 2 but I've been on a roll and is at 2 and a half days!(: do you think I will able to just eat whatever I want without wanting to throw it all up!:( plz help me!!!! Thanks whole by bunches(: (link)
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Now Because you haven't been eating for along long time,. You will want to take it very slow! You don't want to over stimulate your body and make your self sick.
You will want to start eating a few very small portions a day,,. and work your self up to normal sized meals 3 times a day with little snacks inbetween. You body is not used to the amount of food you take in normally so that is probably why you got so sick after 'eating' after not eating. if that makes sence.
Honestly you wont be able to eat what ever you want right away,. once you work yourself up to normal sized meals,. you should be good to eat what ever you want. But at the same time you want to watch your portion size,. and watch what your eating,. If you eat too much junk food or the greasy not good types of food you may gain unwanted wieght,.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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I use the Samsung New PC Studio for 2 or so years and up to now, everything has worked as it should. However recently, when I plug in my phone, it recognises my Tocco but when I click on it, it says loading for ages but doesn't let me access my phone. I have tried deleting absolutly everything and then starting from scratch but it still does the same thing. I think it is something to do with the phone because when I put it on 'Mass Storage' (memory card) mode , it loads quickly and I can upload to there without any problems. Someone help asap pleaseee :( (link)
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It could be that your phone is Is wearing away. It might be time to look into a new phone? or switching to a different phone.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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I am a freshman in college now and currently have about 14 years ahead of me for schooling. I would like to be a forensic pathologist but the pay versus the school is a little risky. Along the path however i would recieve a Bachlors from my first college, A Doctorate from the second (Med school) and 4 to 5 years of what they call "residency" for what that is worth. I am seeing the salary for a forensic pathologist vary from $34,000 to begin and $270,000 experienced. And i am wondering is this the right path or is there something better? i do not mind about 15 years of school, no more than that i would eventually like to have a life haha. And i also would like to say that i am hoping to adopt one early teenage child during med school if that is possible and then have my own after med school. I know that alot of people will probably tell me to wait but i have always wanted children early and i think it is a responsible step to wait until after med school. But would still appreciate your opinions. Please help me =) thanks in advance. (link)
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First of all,. I want to congratulate you on actually having a plan! Alot of people don't have it so simple for deciding what they will do for the rest of their lives.
Secondly,. I want to state that absolutely no one! Can tell you if this is the right decision for you,. Only you can decide whether or not this is the right career path for you.
It sounds to me that you have a very well thought out plan,. and that this is what you really want to do.
I wish you the best with your future plans.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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I'm 14 years old and 5 foot 3 I stopped eating after volleyball season because i wasnt gonna play basketball and didnt want to get chunky! Before I stopped eating I weighed around 128 pounds and now I'm 120 I havent lost much weight so I'm not so sure I should stop.if it'd not doing anything then no harm right?because I actually feel good when I don't eat but huge when I do and somethimes I even throw up. Throughout the days of not eating I'll eat a cheese it and think that was to much and everything I eat goes through my head all day! I just don't know what to do!!!!! (link)
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Hey,. I'm talking from actuall experience. I used to throw out my lunches because i wanted to be skinny.
A good way to think of our body is like a car. If a car has no gas(aka Energy) it will not run.
Like a car,. our bodies need energy to run or to be able to function properly.
I understand that you might feel Chunky after eating,. but that is perfectly normal. It is very very bad to not eat at all. Your mind set has formed you to think that eating is a bad thing that eating makes you fat. I know because i had the same mind set for years. You are beautiful no matter how you look or what you weigh.
If you don't want to look chunky during the off season you could try working out. it is not that easy but at least that way you will be healthy.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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13/f Well I really like this guy and I just started liking him a couple of weeks ago but he is now going into 9th grade and I'm going into 8th. I feel like its to late because today was the last day of school. It really has made me upset because I really have feelings for him. Btw he hangs out with major preps and popular girls so that makes it even harder please help it would be grateellly appreciated p.s. I used to be just as popular as the girls he hangs with but i went down a lil bit on the popularity list this year so ya im still popular because a lot of ppl like me and more but still please please help thank you!! -Madison! (link)
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Hey honey,.
I know how you feel i have been there. But because he is going into grade 9 alot of things will change for him,. Grade 9 is completely new situation from grade 8. Now because you two haven't dated and it's only been a few weeks,. try to keep talking to him. But remember you are still so young. you haven't even had the full highschool experience.
If he doesn't seem to be sticking around he is not the right guy for you.
Just remember love will come to you when you are not even looking for it.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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Her boyfriend made her cry. She won't tell me what's wrong. What can I do to help her feel better ? (link)
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For starters,. Being there beside her is a very good start. She may not feel ready to talk about what happened,. whether it being a fight or something worse. Just make sure you give her lots of hugs,. and tell her that when she is ready to talk about it you will be there,.
As far as cheering her up,. why not try something you guys do for fun,. watch funny movies,. play video games,. and maybe some icecream,. that always cheers people up.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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I am a female. Me and my boyfriend have been discussing taking the next step in our relationship, and we are both ready. But I was just wondering...what do you ladies do while your man fingers you? I don't really know what I'm supposed to do as the recipient. Laying there doing nothing just seems like it would be awkward. Any pointers? (link)
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You could try kissing him,. cuddling him of sorts,. you could also try giving to him as well.
Just being part of the instant and enjoying it but giving a little to him is a good idea.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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About 2 years ago I was really stupid and put a dark cherry hair dye over my brunette hair. I thought it was cool to have a dark auburn brown hair. basically a dark brown with a tint of red. It kinda looked good. I kept it for 2 years. Then recently I decided to go back to my natural color- which is a very light brown. I went to Aveda and it cost me about 250 dollars. Yeah i know what you're thinking.. why would you ever spend that much on hair?! But it was worth it because I love my natural color now. The only problem is that the hairdresser said my hair will still have some warm tones in it because of the red hair dye (which is very hard to get out of) She did the best she could. It is now a light brown with orangy/warm tones in it. It doesn't look bad.. but its not exactly my natural color either. My question is.. how do I get rid of the warm tones in it? so its just light brown. My hairdresser told me to come in a few times to get it toned down. I got it toned 2 times within the past month and half. Toning it really helps :) but the only problem is that it fades within 2 weeks and I really dont want to go back all the time to get it toned. Does anyone know how to get rid of the warm tones without having to go get it toned all the time??
Please dont say bleach because my hair is damaged enough and it doesn't need to get lighter.. it just needs the warm tones gone. Thank you! (link)
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My way will take some time,. but is worth it. because your not putting chemicals and what not in your hair,. making it more damaged. Try just growing it out. That way it will be your natural color hair.
Hope this helps.
~Jasmine*
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I need to find s relatively painless way to commit suicide. Will an overdose of sleeping pills work? (link)
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First off,.. No one is going to help you with this act. we will only advice you on how you should not be doing this. I'm really sorry you are feeling that you are at this point. But i have been there also. And it will get so much better hon. I know it sucks right now. But it is worth hanging in there. I promise you that. You have a full life to live,. and many experiences left to experience. No matter what age you are,. There are still alot of things you are here to do.
Hope this helps.
~Jasmine*
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So me and my bff Karen did this group in the summer where Irish teens come over and and Karen fell for this Irish guy even though she was talking to this other kid John but she like the Irish kid better and after the summer school started and she eventually started dating John and my one friend Danielle had issues with him throughout the year and so this Irish kid whos friends with the guy Karen fell for in the summer (mike) and his friend started stuff on fb and this recent weekend this whole war kinda thing brought up between the Irish and Karens bf and me and my other friends agree that he's taking her over and controling her. So me and Karen bought tickets in feb to go to ireland and he kept commenting saying she's not going and I was like ses going Johnny no matter what so he blew up on me and posted on my wall that noone likes me and I'm fat trash and I'm medium size like a little above average and I have a low self asteem for that so I keep tearing up and crying and I told Karen and she's just like oh don't believe it and she didn't even stick up for me which made all te irsh mad like and then he said it in a even more mean way to me when I commented she going John you wanna bet and he was so mean all the Irish stood up for me but Karen didn't bc she loves her bf I thought it was girl friends before boys and now he's just omg I can't take it anymore what am I gonna do at school so plz help it's probally confusing but one note me and Karen did not go to Ireland yet and her bf thinks she could stop her that's is all (link)
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First off,. Karen needs a wake up call and realize,. JUSt becuase she is dating this guy does not give him the right to treat you like shit. Maybe try giving her the cold shoulder for a while because she obviously thinks that he boyfriend is a great guy. But it is also very obvious that he is controlling her every thought and movement. I would honestly distance yourself from that situation for a while. till she realizes that your not there to take his crap.
Hope this helps:)
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ok i have a guy friend and he is soo nice to me.his name is austin and he just broke up with his girlfriend lilly. and lilly she is KINDA my friend. so i was on facebook and austin was on too so we started to chat and he asked me if i wanted to go out with him. and i didnt respond because one of my best friends,nicole likes austin alot. and once i told her she said"no no no no no no NO!!" sccreaming at me. so back with lilly. if i go out with austin she might think im a slut because IM the one who was saying when HE broke up with HER that"youre way too good for him" and other things to keep her happy.
so what should i do?
go out with him or not?
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Hmm,., It might not be a good idea,. because He is your friends ex.. There is a hidden girl rule,. That you don't date your friends ex's it just doesn't work. Plus you don't want your friends hating you for it might seem to lilly that you stole him from her.
So i would say just stay clear of that disaster.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine;;
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Im 17/male
I've been seeing this girl for the past few months
and all of a sudden, overnight, she transformed.
Why is this? HELP (link)
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Please include more details,. How did she transform??
In what ways has she changed.
You can inbox me if you like,.
And i will reply with helpful advice..
*Jasmine
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