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Torn between him and her..
Hello, I am a 14 year old female. There's this guy that I've been very close with for about three years. He's my bestfriend and we've actually dated last year. I tell him everything, including how I feel about him. He stopped liking me, but I never did. But a few days ago he said that he actually does like me, but he also likes my bestfriend. The day after he told me that he likes me, he said that he didn't anymore. He likes my bestfriend ALOT and she likes him too. They want to date, but they won't because they don't want to hurt me, seeing how I'm in love with him. He said he's kinda mad at me because I'm like ''in the way'' of them dating. Yet he says he won't date her until I'm 100% okay with it, but as of now it seems like that will be never.. I love him sooo much, and I really want to be with him. But him and my girl bestfriend like eachother and want to date alot, and I just have to sit back and be depressed and be in the way of them being together. I just do not know what to do :( thankyou for taking the time to read my problem.
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Honestly,. You may never be fully 100% Okay with him being with someone else,. Just for the fact that your feelings for him will be dimly there. It is one thing to want them to be happy but not in a way that hurts you. If your best friend really was your best friend she would look at the big picture. She may like him,. But she should take a look at how it is effecting you. Maybe she should wait a while before jumping on your ex if you still have feelings for him.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~
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Hey you will probably never be ok with it but don't you want him and your friend to be happy? I look at it if you care enough to let him go and have a chance of happiness with this girl. Also try to get a new guy.
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