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Q: Hey everyone I get the gist of the idea of what all the "bases" are...but Im still confused, could you tell me what they are??? or what they mean, im so0o0o confuseddd! Thanks in advance! byeee
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Although those two ansewrs are correct and absolutely right, people have their different opinions. Just thought I'd let you know lol.* hope i helped * love alwaiiz, aLi * feedback is greatly appreciated! *
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Q: My mom seems to think that only black people wear brands such as Roccawear, Baby Phat and Ecko. I like the clothes and she wont let me wear them because on the websites the people who are modeling them happen to be black. So tell me really, do these brands are truly only worn by Africans?
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Of course not! It doesn't matter what race you are. Just take her to the mall and point out other people wearing those brands. * hope i helped * love alwaiiz, aLi * feedback is greatly appreciated! *
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Q: On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..
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If you are not totally ready then no. You should have no doubt in your mind if you are. I know its probably not what you wanted to hear but truth isnt always going to be candy-coated. You're still young. Just stick to making out. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: My best friend Nicole has been my friend since 5th grade and were in 9th grade now. We're so close and we talk about everything together. One of our good friends who was 17 yrs old just passed away on december 5th from cancerous tumers on his brain. It was so sudden. We all got so scared after that becasue in our town, theres been alot of deaths from cancer. We didn't think it would actually effect someone so young, an ready to go off to college. The worst part about it is that his mother had already lost 2 other sons before him. So she basically just lost her 3rd son.
Sadly to say, just last week, about 2 days before Xmas, my best friend Nicole was diagnosed with cancer. The doctors said that the lumps on her neck were the beginning of Mono, but they were wrong. Her tests came back, and she now has cancer. Shes gonna be at Westchester hospital for about 4-5 weeks going through kemo and stuff. Me, and a bunch of our other friends are worried sick about her becasue its so sudden, and we dont want to lose her like we lost our other friend. I'm so sad, and I desperately need someone to make me think of positive things about her right now, becasue really all i can think of is our other friend who just died and if shes gonna end up like that. This is a very hard time for me, can anyone give me any advice on this? I just dont know how to think about something good. Thank You!
_Janine_*
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oh my God im so sorry! You need to help her now more than ever. She needs your support. Bring her flowers and stay with her a lot. Have a lot of people visit her and send her cards. "Live everyday like its your last one" a quote from a song that i think pertains to this situation. you need to help her make the best of this. i really hope i helped you! and good luck! love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: I decided to get a hair cut today but I don't what kind i want! I have dirty blonde hair and it's very long! I'm 17 and a female! Any suggestions?
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hm... maybe angled.. first cut it to like the middle of your arm lenght and then angle it *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: MI go to Texas like, every summer. And two years ago my older cousin met a boy (let's call him ****). He hung out with us, and I didn't think much about him. This year they became A LOT closer. They love each other. And now that I think about it, **** is really hot and funny and nice. I LIKE him. And my cousin has him, what do I do??
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you should move on because if i go there once a year, its not that big of a deal.
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Q: i like this guy.. and he likes me too.. well see he says that he likes me but he doesnt want to get together.. whats wrong with him!?!?
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nothing's wrong with him.. hes jus not ready. if he likes you that much.. hell be ready eventually.. sorry if its not what you wanted to hear. good luck tho!!! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: Im still hooked up on my ex, and he has a new gf. I just found out that his new gf doesnt really like him. He asked me if i was mad that he had a new gf but im not. Im just mad that she doesont like him and he likes her. I just dont want him to get hurt. Should i tell him that she doesnt like him or just stay out of it? I think i should stay out of it, but i really dont want him to get hurt. as much as i love him, i couldnt bear to see him so hurt if they broke up. i think it would be good though since she doesnt like him. any advice?
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okay wut u should do.. is catch her flirting with someone else or tell him ur feelings for him and be like "yea i really like you, i like you enough for you not to get hurt.. but i heard that ____ doesnt really like you as much as you like her.. i really dont want you to be mad at me i just had to tell you" *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: Ok, I was just wondering what kind of Abercrombie fragrance for women is the kind that smells like the store- if there is a kind that smells like that. There's three different types: NOW Fragrance, Signature Fragrance, and 8 Fragrance. I would think it would be Signature Fragrance, but I'm not sure. Does anybody know?? Thanks!
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Q: What do i do when your talking to your friend online and shes kool then shes tells you this."okay, well jason is 16, and i dont like him. and he always forces me to fuck with him, when i dont want to. so im basically being raped everyday beacause we have sex everyday but sometimes i do want to, but if i dont he will get mad and start to hit me to force me i dont know wat to do, he is in the kitchen right now so i wanted to hurry up and tell u befor he came back because he is stayig over here for a few days." Then i say the best thing is the cops.Then she says "Jason told me if i called the police on him hed kill me" She asked me for help now im asking you .... Please help me
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call the cops. wudnt you want her to? you should save up that conversation and use it if necessary. tell ur parents and hers too *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!
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Q: im 12 and i hava friend who is 10- and she smells really bad. i dont kno what 2 do like my friends and i try to tell her she needs to take a bath bcuz her hair is greasy looking and she smells and jus doesnt take care of herself but she overreacts like she gets real mad over stuff and everytime we saay someones feet smells or something she runs in the bathroom and puts water in her hair like it will help What do me and my friednds do???
Sincerely,
*smelly friend*
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for her bday or a holiday.. get her a gift basket filled with lotions and good smelling sprays.. or confront her parents about it
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Q: This is so embarrassing but i feel like my breath smells really bad all the time... i brush and use listerine twice a day and still cant get rid of it. Is there any good products out there or any suggestions on what to do? I don't think gum would help that much.
Thanks
*Erica*
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halitosist? i think that what its called. i don think thea is a "cure" for it but jus buy those lil mini listerine pack things. or mint gum *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: ok i really like this boy but he cheated on me and he is always doing drugs and stuff and i dont know what to do. i really like him, but i dont know wether to dump him or work on him! help!
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how bout you IM me:lxl ali lxl x3 and ill help you out there
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Q: I know there is a site for those icons that are like twice the size of the little ones. Could someone please tell me site for them? thanks :)
p.s if you don't know wut I am talking about here is an example of one : http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v351/lilbrunette227886/9930-1100487991-41981d3746739.gif
thanks again xo0x
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a journal icon? lol a ton of sites have them.. look up journal icons on google and ull get a million hits. jus don forget to link back to them! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: what are signs that you are pregnant?
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gettin a headache, mood swings, morning sickness, missing periods, you should go to a local pharmacy and get a pregnancy test if you suspect anything! good luck *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: erm hey... i guess i really need help..i cant stop cutting myself i can not see the real colour of my skin on my arms now they are totaly coverd in purple and blue scars everything depresses me and i cant handle the smallest things i get so caught up with things that i just go for the knife and cut..i've lost many friends for this and been called so many things half the time its what people say to me ''why dont you just fuck off and kill yourself slit your wrist like you do you know like a good goth'' and 99% of the time i do ..im so weak i'm not good for anything..but i really need help too stop if someone could plz help me?? thanks ^.^chok^.^
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jus sit back and think of all the good things.. sounds corny i no but heyy itll work. jus give a best friend the knife(s) try talkin to your parents or a phyciotrist (sry idk how to spell it lol) good luck!!!! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: so. my best friend introduced me to a guy she dated about a year ago.He ended up falling for me, and then he got me to fall for him. and..we were in love. Seriously. The feeling is just to hard to explain. We basically did everying except sex, and oral sex. I look back on it, and it makes my skin crawl. So, he ended it with me about a month ago, and he let me down pretty hard. It hurt so bad, but then I found out what an ass hole he was. (He cheated on my best friend) I'm finally over him, but the problem is, sometimes, when I'm alone I can't stop thinking about him, and it makes my cry so hard. I just can't forget how he made me feel. I hate it because I'm dating someone else now, who is so great, and treats me so much better. I feel unfaithful almost. What can I do to forget him!? I'm 15, and a girl...obviously. Rarr! I can't handle this!
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dont worry about it.. that means you were in love with him. love isnt the easiest thing to over come trust me on this lol. you're not being unfaithful. you're being reminded of your past. but you need to focus on the future now that you have a good boyfriend. you're gonna need to try to forget him... i no its not gonna work all the way.. but like but all the things he gave you in a box, block his screen name.. things like that. and pay attention to your current boyfriend. its great that you're in a great relashionship now! focus on this!. and when ever you start remembering him. have a good cry, because youll be reminded of all that he made you cry and that hes not worth it. if u need any further help.. my sn is lxl ali lxl x3 *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feed back is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: F/13 me and my sister was talking today and I told her I started my period to day. She told me she never started. (she is 16) Is that normal?
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yea she'll get it pretty soon *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: well me and my parents got in the BIGGEST fight ever and i walked off and went to my boyfriends house...adn im 5months pregnat adn he said he would suport me and all that shit..well when i went there i didnt tell him and when i got there he was with a nother girl...i felt really bad...and i had no where to go so i went to my friends Marissas shes trying to help me out alot but i tinhk im putting alot of presure on her tho..and i fell bad adn i dont no what to do i dont want to tel lher that i feel liek tell her that...cause she might be liek yea you are and kick me out and i dont think i want to have this baby from that dude...so im tihnking about an abortion but if so then my firnd would get mad saying you made me go all throw that shit!!! i really dont no what to do and i havent heard from my parents for liek a month and i dont wnat to stay with her..what shall i do?
hel me!!
p.s im 17
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you have to confront your boyfriend. tell him that you saw that he was with another girl and now you're pregnant with his kid. if he doesnt support you... dont ever talk to him again and warn other girls. and you should get marissa a lil sumthin like a gift basket for helping you threw all this... what i wud do is to go back home and spill out everything to your parents... if you dont ike that idea... jus stay with marissa and maybe have her talk to ur boyfriend *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: Hello. Um, I have a problem with this guy who lives in my neighborhood. Everyday he harasses me sexually. I've tried telling the police, but they said without hard evidence they couldn't do anything. I'm sort of a feminist, so something like this shouldn't be a problem for me. But, I'm too afraid to tell my friends or family. I'm 16 and he's like, 25. So, I know it's illegal.
What should I do?
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well.. you deffinitaly need to tell someone.. like your parents.. and one day.. set up a video camera in ur house and when he comes over youll have proof. or.. have a close friend around the corner or sumthin n he/she'll be a witness *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Member Since: November 27, 2004 Answers: 667 Last Update: October 1, 2012 Visitors: 44515
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