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So its vacation and i have to work on monday , but the problem is i really want to go to the natick mall with my friend to go shoppping. ive never been there and its far away, so its a one time oppurtunity. so heres the thing. i want a really good excuse to not be able to work that day. dont lecture me about responsibilty, i know, and i dont care. I already called in sick twice so i have a feeling they wont believee me. Anything clever and realistic would be awesome. thanks! (link)
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You could always say you were in a car accident, After all anything like that could happen anyday and it is believeable.
Hope that helps
Bahaima22
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17/Female.
I had my wisdom teeth cut out Friday, and I am a little concerned about something. My doctor told me to keep gauze on my teeth and press down firmly for 20 minutes to stop the bleeding. However when I got out of surgery, I was so numb I couldn't have bit down even if I wanted to.
Once I got home, I changed the gauze (which was coated in blood), and put new ones in. Then I went to bed. When I woke up, I was still bleeding with quite a heavy flow, so my mother told me I needed to get up and try holding pressure on it. By that point biting down on it was so painful I actually started crying, and it took three or four 20 minute sessions to slow the bleeding. Then I ate 2 puddings and some chicken noodle soup. When I laid back down, the bleeding started again and did not stop all night. I had to sleep with the gauze in my mouth, and changed it 4 or 5 times through out the night. It's still bleeding today and I am getting kind of nervous. I was supposed to be able to brush my teeth today to keep away bacteria/germs, but since my mouth is still bleeding, I can't.
Normally I would call the doctor right away with my concern, but due to the fact it's Saturday, no one would be in. Does anyone have any tips for me? Because I am starving and would really love to brush my teeth. (link)
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I had the same problem when I had my wisdom teeth out, Don't panic the chances are your gums just haven't healed yet. It took a couple of days for the bleeding to stop for me also and I didn't always put the gauze in my mouth either because the pain was so bad. Make sure you drink plenty of fluids, Don't drink anything too hot or too cold. Eat soft things like Pudding, Jello, Soup, Noodles, etc. If you are swollen make sure you place a semi cold cloth against your cheeks and do that regulary. About brushing your teeth I don't think you will be able to until your gums are healed, However when I had all four of my wisdom teeth taken out I couldn't brush my entire mouth but I brushed my front teeth very gently and as the days went on and my mouth started to heal I brushed a few more teeth at a time. I wouldn't panic right away, Give it another day or two if you continue to bleed alot then call the oral surgeon.
Good luck!
BahaiMa22
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I've known my best friend for at least half of my life and suddenly, out of nowhere, she's stopped talking to me. I saw her at school recently right before the break but she completely ignored me. I haven't done anything wrong. I thought she loved me but she obviously doesn't care. I keep thinking that maybe I did something terribly wrong without realizing it, but I can't come up with anything. She was going through some issues with a guy that she really liked who disappeared from her life, but I think that if something happened with regards to him, she would tell me. We never got into a fight and always understood each other very well or at least tried to, but I guess that our friendship is over now. I called her to see if maybe something was wrong but when she heard my voice on the phone she didn't say anything back. It's been like 2 weeks since we talked. I just don't get it. I really needed her, she was my everything, and now I guess I have to start over without her. If anyone can help in any way, I'd really appreciate it. Thank you. (link)
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She could be ignoring you because she just lost a guy in her life and doesn't want too loose you also. (I'm just taking a guess) She could be going through a rough time and just doesn't know how to deal with it. I would try calling her again if she doesn't answer try stopping by her house. You don't have to start over, Honestly I wouldn't start over not until you know the truth of what is going on. Keep trying I'm sure it will be alright
BahaiMa22
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what's the best way of going about giving a guy a hand job while making out?? Also any tips? (link)
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There are different things you can do, Every guy likes different things here are a few ideas.
Lubricant always helps
Some guys like it when you focus on the bottom of their penis the top of the penis is sensitive, You can still focus on that area but try not to over do it.
Try not to be too rough it can be painful
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18/m
Ever since right before my girlfriend broke up with me, I've been soooo horny, I don't get it! (Fyi,That's not why we broke up)
I'm a virgin, and I can't get the thought of eating a girl out, or getting head out of my mind! It just sounds so good! Lol
I don't even know if advice will help, but thanks in advance! (link)
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lol,
The feeling is normal, Try masterbation on a regular basis?
Sorry I couldn't be more of a help...
BahaiMa22
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What is the minimum wage in the United States right now? My mom said it was like $6.55 but when I was working a job last year it was $5.85. My best friend says she doesn't know what minimum wage is right now, but heard it was going to be $7.25 soon but doesn't know exactly when that will happen.
I'm curious any way it is. What is the minimum wage right now and when is minimum wage going to go up in the United States? When the minimum wage does go up what will it be then?
THANKS! (link)
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It differs in every state however it usually ranges between 7.00 - 7.68 an hr. :)
BahaiMa22
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I want a small pet. I was thinking of, geril, hamster, ferret, sugar glider, chinchilla... Ferrets I heard can be aggressive, shed too much. Hamsters may not be personable enough for me. Chinchillas and SUgar Gliders Are adorable but I do not know much about them as pets. I want a pet that will sleep and poop in there own cage. A pet I can take out daily and spend some time with him/her. A pet that will be friendly and is legal to have as a pet in canada. Any ideas of which small pet I should get and what store in toronto would sell it? Thanks (link)
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Whew!
Okay if you are deciding on a ferret I highly don't think you should go for it. As a friend to you I tell you, They STINK! I had two ferrets at one time and I cleaned their cages 3 times a day and on top of that I got air freshener for the room and no matter what I seemed to do the smell was always there. I had them for about a month and then I decided I couldn't handle them and gave them away. On top of that they sleep during the day and they are up all night long and require a ton of attention. Ferrets alone cost about $130.00 just for the ferret then the food, shaving, cage, toys, water, bedding, vet checks. etc.
I've never had a Chinchilla however I looked into getting one at one time and the pet store employee told me that they are extremely messy and again they sleep during the day and they are up all night long. Chinchilla's are hard to hold and cuddle with only because they are jumpy and hyper again they cost alot of money.
If you are looking for a small pet here are some I would suggest.
Bunny, Gerbil, Hamster, Fish, Rat, Small bird. (Bunny's are also a bit messy I had 5 at one time but they are do-able) Something that doesn't require too much care, Attention, and that doesn't cost to much I would suggest.
BahaiMa22
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What are some really good New Year's Resolutions? I know that a lot of people want to lose weight (and weight loss is good) but I want something different. I want some sort of New Year's resolution that can better my life or my body.
I want to find something I haven't done or thought of before for a good New Year's resolution. I know that on New Year's it's common to make New Year's Resolutions--I even saw this thing on associatedcontent.com about Miley Cyrus and New Years Resolutions. I want to start a tradition for myself of making New Year's resolutions on each new year.
Anyway, I'm going to have a big New Year's party and I had this thought of gathering everyone around and announcing our New Year's Resolutions. I want mine to be good but something I can REALLY stick with.
Any ideas? (link)
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There are many resolutions you can do. Here are some ideas :)
Eatting Healthier
Becoming a better person by helping others
Getting a job
Getting good grades in school
Saving money
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So, my mom is pregnant with another baby and she has asked my sister and I to supply a few good baby names. Well, my sister is pretty young so she can only give names from her classroom and it isn't much help.
My mom likes all sorts of baby names. She likes unique baby names. She likes the popular baby names. She likes traditional baby names. She is looking for girl baby names AND boy baby names though since we don't know what the baby is yet.
I looked up popular baby names of 2008 and the most unique baby names of 2008, but none of them seemed to really pop out at me as GOOD baby names for my brother-to-be or sister-to-be. I know there are books you can get that are full of neat baby names but what are they called? I haven't seen any baby name books in the stores so...do they not make baby name books anymore?
Anyway, if anyone has good idea for baby names, please let me know! Any suggestions at all? I am looking for good baby first names and good baby middle names so if there is anything that goes together that you like it's more than appreciated! (link)
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Here are some baby names from my baby book!
Girls:
Amelia (Portuguese) A form of Amelia
Ambrosia (Greek) Immortal
Chavon (Hebrew) A form of Chavon
Chasity (Latin)
Dawnyelle (American) A combination of Dawn + Danielle
Genevieve (German, French) A form of Guinevere
Zhana (Slavic) A form of Jane
Boys:
Kelby (German) Farm by the spring
Mace )French) club
Nethaniel (Hebrew) A form of Nathaniel
Ramsey (English) Ram's Island
Rhett (Welsh) A form of Rys.
Reuben (Hebrew) Behold a son
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Hey im 17/f I cant figure out what to get my boyfriend for christmas i know im a slacker but i just cant decide! Hes 18 btw. He is super picky and i want to get him something from the heart and something creative you know! We've only been dating for about 3 months. I just want to get him something he is going to like. Please help! (link)
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Oh wow!
Well, here is a list of ideas, I hope I helped!\
Gift card- Donkin Donuts, Game Stop, Walmart, Best Buy, etc.
You can really never go wrong buy gift cards to one of his favorite stores.
You could also create an album if you two have lots of pictures together. ;) Although he is super picky I'm sure he will love whatever you get him only because you are his girlfriend.
BahaiMa22
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17/f
Sometimes thinking about certain guys I get a horrible, skin crawling feeling. It makes me want to cover up all exposed skin and never talk to the guys again. Is it a problem with them or is it me trying to prevent myself from becoming close with them? I do not follow instincts or intuition, it does not play a significant role in my life so I am not going to use that as an explanation for this. Has anyone else felt this way? Did you ever figure out why? Thanks. (link)
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You could be feeling insecure, Which can causes you to want to hide under layers of clothing and crawl into a closet and avoid the males. Maybe, It's time to take a break and relax. You can still talk to guys maybe you just need to keep things casual for awhile until you feel confident enough that you don't need to hide anymore. Try telling yourself to relax, breath and everything is going to be just fine.
BahaiMa22
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well sometimes i go to 'dirty' websites.
and i delete the history after.
i have my own computer though.
and nobody else ever uses it but me.
but is there a way my parents can see the websites i visited say through the bill or something?
i reallllly hope not. (link)
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Your parents have no way of knowing that you visit dirty websites unless you order or subscribe to something as well as downloading. Downloading may be the problem, Once you open a dirty website whether it has been deleted from the browser it automatically stores files into the hard drive as well as viruses. The only way someone could know that you've been into those types of websites is if they go through the computer and search for the files and clean out the hard drive. I would recommend NOT visiting porn sites only because it is the top thing that will ruin your computer. Trust me, I've had that problem before I got one so bad it crashed my computer and I had to go out and spend tons of money to get a new one. Argh! I should of known better seeing I work on computers for a living!
BahaiMa22
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16/m
hi guys.
so.... i'm very attracted to women. i date a lot of girls and with what i've heard i'm a pretty likable guy (i.e. girls like me). but lately i've found myself to be attracted to guys too... and the thought of getting sexual with a man seems to arouse me just as much as getting sexual with a woman...
so, am i bi/metro/whatever.... or do you think it's just a phase? to be honest, i feel like i'd be ok with being bi. i'm no homophobe; in fact i have quite a few gay friends. but i don't know if i for sure am bi though.... but if i am i don't know how i would tell anyone. i'd feel really scared to tell anyone i think (i go to an all-male catholic school)... and god knows what my girlfriend would think...
thanks guys. i really appreciate all you do on this site. (link)
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Only you know your true feelings, Nobody can tell you what you are. At 16 I would say you might just be exsploring your sexuality or you might just be into both male and female. There is nothing wrong that.
BahaiMa22
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so i'm pregnant and i'm keeping my baby but im just wondering.. how long are you usually like noticeably pregnant? Like how many months of your pregnancy are there where you have to wear maternity clothes and you look pregnant? and also how long does it usually take to lose the weight after you give birth? and what are some things i can do to prevent stretch marks? (link)
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Hi there!
I would say everyone is different when it comes to pregnancy. For the average female it should usually take about 5 months before you start to notice a baby bump because that is when the fetus starts to fully develope. Pregnancy woman can normally choose when to wear maternity clothing whenever. Some woman choose to wear it early on and others perfer to wear materniity clothing towards the end of pregnancy and others choose not wear it at all. To avoid stretch marks I would suggest cocoa butter, However keep in mind that strech marks are only baby battle marks! ;) As far as baby weight goes it depends. Try to walk everyday and get in as much excercise as possible.
Good luck and congrats on motherhood!
Bahaima22
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I finally have a dream dictionary and I am just really frustrated on what words to look up since my dreams are really complicated.
Okay last night I had a dream that this lady kept trying to get into our house and kill us. She always tries going through the front door and each time the dream will last so long and if she's unsuccessful, she'll try again in different ways but always through the front door (like movie out-takes). And all my family members and I would try to shut the door or try to cover up the knife marks she's stabbing through the door with something to try to prevent her from getting in.
I think that for each of her tries, that dream took one hour in my sleep because that was just my whole dream for the entire night and it seemed forever and she just would NOT stop trying and I have no idea why us. On her last attempt, she finally managed to get in somehow even though most of my family members WERE right at the front door. She managed to slip through us without cutting any of us, went to the living room where my mother was watching TV, and stabbed her! I was just gawking and then ran to the staircase near the front door. And then the lady just started to run away after stabbing my mother to death and headed out of the house through SURPRISE the front door! I don't know where the knife came from but it was right beside me from where I was sitting on the staircase and some family members were chasing after her when she was running down the hallway. And just when she almost ran past me and out the door, I stood up from where I was standing at the bottom of the staircase with the knife in my right hand, quickly turned to the right where she would pass me (and there was a wall so she would have never saw me coming) and I stabbed he right in the face!
And then that's where my dream ended and it's been bugging me all day; I finally have a dream dictionary but I have no idea what words to look up for that dream to find out what it was supposed to mean! Could anyone please help me please? The help would greatly be appreciated, thank you so much! (link)
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One of the first steps to figuring out what your dream means is to sit back and ask yourself a few questions. How did the dream make you feel? What do you think the dream is telling you? What was your reaction?
Searching for keywords for dream meanings from what you've described I would use knife, stabbing, chase or chasing, breaking in, theif, etc.
If the keysearch doesn't seem to help, I think the best way to know what it might mean is to ask yourself the questions. Also, Is there something going on in your life that is holding you back? Do you fear something failure, fear, sadness, worried, upset?
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heyy so my best friend wants a few things for the holidays, one of them being a phone for the holidays and her provider is tmobile. can i get her like... a tmobile giftcard ... like what should i do? i don't want to just get her money; i want her to spend it on like getting a cell but i don't know the details and i also don't want to constrict her if her desires change for the type of phone, etc. can someone help? (i also can't BUY her a cell since i don't know what she would want and that's mad expensive..) thank you! (link)
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Well,
You can still get your friend a phone and still not pay a ton of money. It's not on the top of the list but you could try buying her a pre-paid phone for $20 at Walmart, Gas station etc. Depends on how much you have you could also give her minutes with the phone for depending on what kind of prepaid phone you get the prices range from abut 60 minutes for $20 160 minutes for $40 etc.
Hope I helped some!
BahaiMa22
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i have a really oily face especially on my nose and forehead, so whenever i have my bangs down they get all oily and wet from my forehead
is there any type of lotion or sunblock or soap that keeps my face from being oily? (link)
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I used to have a simular problem, I've tried face wash but honestly it only caused the problem to become worse on top of getting acne. If you have bangs I would suggest if you are a female then I would try pulling your hair back out of your face. A guy then try a different hair style spikes, gell back etc. make sure you clean your face daily with just water. Drink plenty of fluids sometimes dehydration can cause sweating yet alone body oil. Stay away from greasy, spicey foods also might be a suggestion.
-BahaiMa22
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What do you think is the oldest a 16 year old could/should date?
No details, other than it would be legal. I just want to gain opinions on this. (link)
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I don't think a 16 year old should go over 18 seeing it is the legal limit for under 18.
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What can I remove finger nail polish with besides remover?
I dont have none at the moment. And I dont like to bite the polish off. And its heavy coated. So Any ideas? (link)
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Alcohol helps, If you just painted them then baby lotion helps also. Sounds weird but trust me it works. You can also try proxide
Hope I helped
BahaiMa22
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so this is embarissing but oh well. so today for some reason i got really bored and started to masterbate. and like ive never been fingered and rarely use a tampon so i guess my "area" feels really tight. iwas wondering if theres anyway i can stretch it non painfully? and i starting masterbating and didn't really "get off". and after i did it i would feel light headed and really tired. when i tried to do it again i wasnt "wet enough" to do it and i cant seem to get "wet" again. now my "area" hurts and is really dry. did i do something wrong? help!!!!!!!! (link)
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No, You did nothing wrong! Infact I would suggest buying some lubricant. Sometimes masterbation can hurt if you aren't lubricated enough. Make sure you clip your nails also, If they are long you might cut yourself. Don't panic though it's normal and it will heal if that's the case. Also, to stretch it out you could perhaps try buying some toys at a local sex store.
Bahaima22
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