Question Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 4:15 pm
I've known my best friend for at least half of my life and suddenly, out of nowhere, she's stopped talking to me. I saw her at school recently right before the break but she completely ignored me. I haven't done anything wrong. I thought she loved me but she obviously doesn't care. I keep thinking that maybe I did something terribly wrong without realizing it, but I can't come up with anything. She was going through some issues with a guy that she really liked who disappeared from her life, but I think that if something happened with regards to him, she would tell me. We never got into a fight and always understood each other very well or at least tried to, but I guess that our friendship is over now. I called her to see if maybe something was wrong but when she heard my voice on the phone she didn't say anything back. It's been like 2 weeks since we talked. I just don't get it. I really needed her, she was my everything, and now I guess I have to start over without her. If anyone can help in any way, I'd really appreciate it. Thank you.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? AskShay answered Monday December 29 2008, 10:22 am: i can relate i once had an best friend for 20 years and i did stop talking to her but she was the reason why. but for you try to call her or go to her house and ask her if you two can talk ,letting her know that it's hurting you really bad that at time you just want to cry cause you don't know what happen between you two and it will make you both feel better if you can talk about it . if she still don't want to talk then you can( let it go )knowing you tryed to fix whatever happen, and don't worry about it anymore
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BahaiMa22 answered Sunday December 28 2008, 11:50 pm: She could be ignoring you because she just lost a guy in her life and doesn't want too loose you also. (I'm just taking a guess) She could be going through a rough time and just doesn't know how to deal with it. I would try calling her again if she doesn't answer try stopping by her house. You don't have to start over, Honestly I wouldn't start over not until you know the truth of what is going on. Keep trying I'm sure it will be alright
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Sunday December 28 2008, 11:20 pm: I would try and call her again. Ask her what is going on and how come she is ignoring you. If she doesn't answer you than tell her you guess you will give her, her space. When she is ready to talk to you or needs someone to speak to. that you will be ready to listen or help. and tell her you hope she is alright. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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