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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can













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i have been trying to do crunches for about 3 weeks and my stomach didnt really get any smaller. does any one know how many crunches to do in a day or does any one know what other techniques that will work to get a flatter stomach

its going to take awhile..also you might not notice that it gets smaller..or crunches flattens your stomach..but i would do about 100 a day ever single day and eat healthy

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Ok, for anyone who had a dog, or other pet with a heart murmur, or anyone who studied vetrinarian medicine, i have a question. My dog was diagnosed with a heart murmur, a two on a scale of 1-6, but now, he's just over 1 yr old, it's gone up to a 4, and the vets say he probaly wont live long. Does anyone know anything about heart murmurs, or what could've cause his murmur to become worse, or how to make it go back down? i appreciate any help, and will rate. Thanks.

go to the veterinary cardiologist to get some test done tests.

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So I got offered this easy babysitting job from a rich family down the street, and they are going to pay me 50 dollars an hour, BUT at the same time my BFFs birthday party is going on. She said it was OK if i went to go babysit.i don't want her to think i don't care but I really need the money!!!!!!!!!!!

*Im 14 by the way and female*

babysit and then another day do something for her like take her out to a fun place or something like that

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Hey. Umm well I just started cutting and I don't want to cut my wrists because people will see the marks but where else would you suggest??

you have to stop now!!you will get addict...see a doctor..but truthfully you cant do it anywhere else because there are important veins and stuff

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there was this website that asked you how much you weigh and how tall you were, it told you how much calories ur body burns naturally each day. lol i forgot what site it was, does anyone know? I'll rate 5's

Thanks

http://www.stevenscreek.com/goodies/calories.shtml

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Okay....me and my x have been broken up and not talking for about 7 months now....i called him on his b-day and pranked him a few times recently...should i call him and start chatting with him and then be like remember me....I'm your ex and try to get a friendship back up or should i just leave him alone??

try to get your friendship back..whats the harm

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Well, at the end of the school year, we are having a little "formal" to send off the 8th graders into highschool. My problem is what am I going to wear? Im pretty sure the dress style is formal, but I need help picking my dress/gown/skirt/whatever. Any ideas? Thanks

well certain people look good in diff. colors..so find what color you look good in..then find what kind you want like off the shoulders..there are some magazines if you want to look in those

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ya my friend all of a sudden ignores me and barely talks to me anymore..and she ditched me and ditches me in the halls..and forgets bout me..and we use to be bffs till xmas break..and then she talked behind my back..what should i do..

talk to her and tell her how yopu feel

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how do become more happy and try to make my life less boring.. i feel like i do the same thing every single day .??

do something with your friends

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Is there anyway to make your metabolism faster?
How about slower...like what makes it slower? I've heard eating too little actually does that? Some information here, please.

i dont think you can slower your metaabolism..but i heard if you eat and then run right after it,it will make it faster

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I'm pregnant but I don't know if the guy I'm with is the father. I cheated on him with my ex, along the sametime as I got pregnant. What do I do? Do I tell him that he might not be the father?... he's gunna freak!!!! and how do I tell my mother I'm pregnant.. and I don't know who my baby's daddy is?

get a DNA test done so you know who the babys dad is..you have to tell him that it might not be his..yeah its bad but you have to tell him..for your mom sit down with her like say mom i think im pregnant..she will understand

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ok so i'm 14 and haven't been on a real date...or been kissed. i'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. what should I do?

nothings wrong with you..i know someone that is in 10th grade and hasnt even had a boyfriend either

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Ok heres the deal, i like this guy. i liked him ever since i saw his face. he has the cutest face ever!!! i dont know how to tell him. my frend and i lyk always talk about him and while hes in the same class. Im kinda like not popular but he is.. i dont know what to do!!

just tell him,write a note or something he could like you back... and if he doesnt then its his loss

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I have really bad grades and until there up i have no life! i have a boyfriend who now thinks im asking him for a break when i said i need to focus more on school, my friends are getting mad at me because now i cant hang out with them and i can only have 30 min on the phone and an hour of t.v! how can i get my life back with doing better in school i get home a 4 every day and i need a schedule so i can get my life back!!

do extra credit..it always works..and do homework and stuff before your friends...in school pay attention to the teacher not your other classmates

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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?

shaiina

tell her how you feel if she takes it the wrong way you shouldnt be with a friend that calls you fat

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Lately my hair has been extremely dry. I don't know wether its that I straighten it everyday or that I wash my hair everyday. Are there any products that your suggest to make my hair not dry?

truthfully all you can do is dont wash your hair all the time and your only suppose to straighten your hair about 3 times a week

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OKay my crush has been in a bad mood so far this week! i am trying to tlak to him but he doesn't talk to me as much as he use to! he is depressed all the time and not as engeric as he use to be! can someone tell me what i can do to cheer him up?! any ideas?!

talk to him and ask him why hes not himself..then maybe take him out to get his mind off of it

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ok well i have had a huge crush on this guy, let's call him bob, for awhile now. i have told him this-anonymously- but i can't get myself to talk to him. i tend to be shy around guys, but i'm definitely not hideous looking either. i don't know what to do. any advice??

just be yourself...

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i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx

if someone doesnt like you for going out with someone then their not a true friend

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OK, I have been on Weight Watchers and I got down to 125 pounds. Well, on Sunday I splurged a bit because I went to the city and I had chinese food and today I went over my points a bit and had a grilled cheese sandwich..alright, well...now I'm 130 pounds. What's up with THIS?! how can i magically gain 5 pounds in 3 days. Is this just a trick of the scale?

did you weigh youself on a different scale?if you did then some scales arent the same.if it is the same scale then i think your body isnt use to your new weight if you lost it in a not a lot of days

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