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ok so i'm 14 and haven't been on a real date...or been kissed. i'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. what should I do?
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Your only 14 give it time no need to rush honestly and going on dates? Dont worry over that i didnt start till i was like 14 but that wasnt official dating because it was parents givng us rides then us going alone. thats not a date. A date isnt really a date until the guy picks u up. Otherwords.. i havent been on one yet just be greatful you dont have to go thru the pain of loving!-trix
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nothings wrong with you..i know someone that is in 10th grade and hasnt even had a boyfriend either
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Don't worry about it, honestly! I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend either, and I know 18 year olds who haven't!! You're not alone and you will find someone soon :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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don't worry about it. your time will come in four years after thats all happened you'll look back and wonder why it was such a big deal it'll happen when it happens. just relax
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there is nothing wrong with you. not every one gets kissed at the same age. just as some people get their periods before others. dont try to force it. you want your first kiss to be something special. dont waste it on someone you dont reely like just cause you want to be able to say you have been kissed. it happens totally unplanned and when you least expect it. dont rush. wait for it to feel right
xO- sara
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poor baby. get over the fact that no2 likes you.
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uh oh! your 14!! oh god half your life is already gone! id try online dating, and putting adds in the paper. your wasting time!!
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Hey hun I am 13 and I have never been on a real date and never been kissed. Just take it slow and study and it will come to you. I know waiting it hard but sometimes u gotta do it. You will know when it is coming. Well hoped I helped. Good Luck!
oxoxoxox,
Cheyenne
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ok dont worry.... there is nothing wrong with you .... the girls who have already been kissed will start to get really bored with it when you are just starting and it's all new.... just sit down and watch never been kissed.... good movie (by the way i'm 15 and never been kissed and i'm single but i'm loving it because single life is the way to go)
hope this will help raise your spirits and your hopes!!!
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Relax. Don't be in a hurry. Why do you have to go on a date at 14. Be a kid for a while. Your just barely starting to be attracted to the opposite sex. Hang out have fun play with barbies or gi joes or video games and forget about dates. There boring anyways
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There is nothing wrong with you. A lot of my friends and me haven't been on a real date. It just means that you haven't found the right guy yet. Don't act deperate. Although having a boyfriend seems really important right now, later your boyfriend will probably be to you,just some guy you dated in highschool. Try to interact more with guys and learn about their personalities. Maybe you will find the guy of your dreams.
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ok i havent either give it time something will happen
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ENJOY YOUR YOUTH!! You should think "those boys are going to have to wait for me to WANT to go out with them!
Honey nothing is wring with you AT ALL. 14 is young. I promise you will start dating when you are truly ready for it. Most girls start dating @ 15 and some @ 16. Don't rush it. Enjoy your friends.
I can tell from your question alone that you are articulate and intelligent. You will be fighting the boys off soon enough. I promise!
Allie
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no no no don't ever think that there is something wrong w/ you. it's not bad really. your just the type of person that is into old fashion relationships... you like to take it slow. but seriously nothing is ever wrong w/ you. your just not ready. and thats cool! but if you wanta come out of your nutshell then get yourself out there and flaunt what you got! lol well i hope i helped!
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there's nothing wrong with you, many girls are in your same situation. you shouldnt force yourself into having a boyfriend, just wait until the right one comes along. you're not REQUIRED to have a boyfriend, and it's better to wait for 1 special guy than go through hundreds of bfs. dont change yourself. your prince will come to you one day
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Nothing is wrong with you, you probably just haven't found the right guy yet. Some peopel aren't even allowed to date at 14, so don't worry about that. And as for being kissed... don't you want it to be special? Wait until you've got a guy you really like, and then get close to him. He will want to kiss you Trust Me!!! Guys always want to kiss... but Don't become slutty and just give it up to anyone, they won't respect you. Just have some more confidence and flirt with guys, get their sn's or numbers and chat them up. When you see them at school, be really friendly but not all in their faces. Be yourself and have fun. If you need any tips on makeup or boys or anything that you think would help, drop one in the inbox! ♥
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