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Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
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i have this friend who i met last year, and when we first met we liked each other.. now we're just friends and we are supposed to hang out soon cuz i havent seen him all summer. well, yesterday one of his friends asked me if i was still going out with my ex and i said no and then he was like "so, you're hanging out with matt soon?" and i was like yah and he asked if i thought we might start to like each other again and i told him i still like my ex....could that mean matt still likes me?

well yea he probably still likes you

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I am sick of guys treating me badly or not being right for me. I'm going back to school soon and I want to meet someone new who makes me laugh etc, what qualities do guys look for in a girl and how should I go about meeting people?

attitude will get u along way. not the bitchy kind tho.

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Ok HeReS HoW It StArTeD:

I WaS OvEr At My FrIeNdS HoUsE(aka person) AnD ThIs iS OuR CoNvO.

Person: Ummm I need To Tell you Sumin Serious But you Cant Tell AnYbOdY!!!
Me: Ok You Can TrUsT Me
Person: I think I mite Be bi
Me: Bi as in Bisexual
Person: Duh
Me: Wow
PersOn: I kno
Me: So r you atrracted to any of our friends?
Person: yea
ME: Are you attracted to me?
Person: Maybe

So Thats It. So Im confused cuz it kinda grosses me out cuz what if she invites me to sleepover and since i cant tell anybody about it she'll get invited to sleepoers nd stuff so she could try to make a move on me nd my friends i need help
ill rate!!

there is nothing wrong wid being bi. just talk to her about how you feel. and be honest about it. that's all that you can do. but don't be bitchy about it just talk to her like your best friend.

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Ok I was having a convo online with a person i adore and I had my BEST friend EVER over.. I asked him if he liked me as a friend."Hell no" If he was my friends "HELL ya"She asked him Who would he rather go out with (My friend Only likes him as a friend..)He said Tori My friend..
She asked him who was prettyer ME ! But he HATES me Not just a little hate i mean HATE..I dont know what i should say to him ! :(

just talk to him or better yet have your friend talk to him. well have her just see why he's being like that.

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i have a terrible fear of drowning each time my body goes into the pool and the water reaches my neck. i was wondering, how can i overcome this fear that ive been having for such a long time already?

you just have to face it. tell yourself that you can't be overcome by it and just don't think about the water. then when you get by water say a pool. just jump in. don't even think about it. and you mite need to talk to a swim instructer about it. so just face it and conquere it.

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so i am goin into da 8th grade and my skin is tan and i have dark brown eyes .i dont kno which eyshadow to use, and i don't know what i shud do wit my hair, my hair is dark brown and is straight. please help.
I RATE :)

well for shadow try a light brown if you want it to blend and a darker if you want it to stik out some. wid your hair try curling it and put it half up and half down. if ur kinda dressy. but just leave it strait or in a poney or even half and half if ur not dressy.

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i don't like myself. is that normal? like are there other people out there who don't like themselves either? i dunno, i just am having a really tough time and i'm liking myself less and less and less. please help me. i just feel so out there and wierd.

well no there are alot of people who don't like themselves. and if your a teen it's harder. cause you want to be excepted. but don't be like that be your own self.and then you will like who you are.

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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried?

yea but only if he has it. you can get hiv thru anything that you exchange bodily fluids wid. but if he doesn't have it then don't worry. just talk to him about it.

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lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question

no it's not a stupid question. well first of all you should start out wid dry kissing. lips on lips. then after a little while start sliding tounges in eachothers mouths. then just move your tounge around eachothers. and move your mouth at the same time. that may sound corny but it will work. just let it come naturally. don't rush.

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Can Sex keep you in shape?

well to some extent. it depends on if it's rough and if you move around alot or if it's not. if it's rough then usually yes

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I need 2 no wht else I could use 2 masturbate....I am on 13 and my parents do not no i masturbate so i need something ez 2 use its the only things tht gives me pleasure cuz id have s e x cuz i am 2 young help and plz dont delete this!

well. r u a girl or a guy. if a girl try using a vibrating shower head but only when your in the mood. and if a guy just experiment wid it.

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hi im in 9th grade right and on fri this boy asked me if i got back. which i have no idea what that meanslol. i know pathetic. but i didnt wanna sound like a complete moron so i said yes i have back and uh he got all happy lol. so my question is what does baby got back mean lol?

he was asking you if you got a big ass

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where do u think is a good place 4 a ffirst date?? ( romantic)

try a romantic resturant. or the beach.

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HELP!! A few summers ago I grew a few inches and gained a significant amount of weight, and now I have so many stretch marks, and they're making me SO Self concious!! My boyfriend of 6 months always wants to run his hands up my shirt to tickle me, and I always make him stop and blame it on tickeling.. but it's really I just don't want him to see my stretch marks!! They're on the front of my stomache, my sides, even on the sides of my breasts.. and I don't know what to do to get rid of them. I've read about them and they're caused from the lack of cologen or something like that, when your skin stretches, so it makes the marks. Does anyone have any home remedies or products that work efficiantly and aren't that expensive??? PLEASE HELP ME!

i have them all over me too. but it's from losing and gaining weight and my breasts increased and w/e. just get out in the sun more and try lotion all the time and stuff like that.
it wont make them go away but it will make them less noticeable. but don't be self conscious. it's apart of your body and your bf will understand. or should

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Mods, please don't delete this, this is really important to me...
Okay, this question is kind of personal but i need to know if anyone else experiences this. I'm a 16/f and I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for going on 6 months now, and everytime we're together, no matter what we're doing, if it's sitting at the dinner table talking, or making out under the covers (most of the time it's more intense under the covers) I get really wet.. "down there" and it's to the point where it's kind of embarrassing.. because whenever we get sexual (not nessicarly sex..) he laughs about it, and it makes me feel really self concious.. Does this happen to anyone else?? Is it normal??? Thanks for the help..

it happens to me alot. it just means that you get hornier than most or w/e. so just don't worry about it. and you should make him think that he's lucky to have you. and it should stop the self consciousness.

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My 12 year old cousin is going through puberty. She has always been a tomboy and she's disgusted with the whole process. To make matters worse she is developing rapidly (she's already a C-cup), and she started her period. She is normally a very happy person, but has become very depressed. She wears layered clothes and big sweatshirts, in the summer, to hide the changes of her body. Is there anything I can say or do to make her transition any easier?

(I've already tried telling her that it's normal and all girls go through it, but that didn't help.)

try telling her about ur experiences. and just tell her that ya it changes alot but she doesn't have to worry since every girl gets tru it. and tell her the good things that will come from it in the future like babies.

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ok I think I'm fat but no1 else does..are they lying to make me feel better or am I just not fat? I'm 4'8 and I weigh 76 pounds

no ur not fat. ur under weight even.

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everytime i close my hand into a fist, something pops in every finger. it never hurts but im scared its something that'll lead to something ill need surgery with later...is this normal?

well u mite have something out of place or u could have arthritis. just go and have the doc check it out

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i have a question. what is oral sex? i hear about it but am confused on wut it is

well oral sex is where a guy eats a girl out or like just licks ur vaginal area. and it's wben a girl gives a guy a bj. or justs sucks and plays around wid theyre penis in her mouth.

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Hey! I was just wondering if there is anything that I can do on my trampoline (Jump King 14') to maybe loose weight, lol or like to increase my verticle jump maybe? or anything that has to do with fitness on it? thanks!

just jump around and have fun. it's the best way to do it

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