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Ok so I want to change my make-up. I have very very pale skin, grey/blue eyes and quite dark brown hair. I look almost celtic. I really want to start using more dramatic make-up like black eye liner and stuff but I'm not sure how to start, any tips?

well, since I dont know just exactly what you are wishing to hear, why dont you go to this website? http://www.tipsofallsorts.com/makeup.html

it gives great tips on makeup I skimmed through it. Im sure you'll find something that freshens you up. So sorry to just send you a website i know some people feel that its the persons way of being lazy but I thought that would be more helpful. good luck xoxo

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so i recently joined drama club in my school, but when i had to audition, i freaked!!! any tips on how to improve my acting skills? also, for those of u who know what the FCAT is, any good ideas for a scary skit about it? thanx!!!!!!

well, im not into theater but i figured i could still help you out on tips. Here's a website with some really good tips that are good, i can tell b/c my sister does acting and i've seen acting ALOT i just have never taken part in it. Here's the website:

http://www.rehearsalroom.com/tips.htm

sry, i dont know what the FCAT is, Im sure there are plenty of things on the web though that could help you try and make a scarey skit.

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okay i have a problem.... i cut myself... and i dont know how to stop.. its just that i get all jittery and the room spins but as soon as i cut myself i feel normal again and i get a major high off of it.... i want to stop because i know that someone is going to find out and than my life wil be over... so i guess my question is how do i stop without my friends or family ever finding out???

well you said if anyone ever finds out that your life would be over. That's not literally. But if you keep doing it, your life WILL literally be over if anything terrible ever happens. And i know thats scarey and all and that this is how you hide from your pain but there needs to be other ways in your life to solve this. if you wanna little help or maybe some solutions i know somebody who goes through the same stuf as you. Maybe you could IM her some time and vent. Im sure it would help you, by the way shes from advicenators too so just tell her where your from her im is : Xxi3arbieGurlxX
. try IMing her she's really sweet. Things I could help you to kinda get rid of all that stress, put a rubberband on your rist and everytime you wanna cut snap rele hard. It may not be easy but you've gotta. GL

xoxo

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Alright, I highlighted my hair about August 17. Do you think it would be a good or bad for me to highlight it again? It's growing out so I think I should. Altho, I don't want to burn up my hair.

i think it would be fine to again. You dont want it growing out and looking gross, i doubt it will burn up your hair. Your fine. If you really need the insurance, ask a hair stylist.

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ok i really like kid and he really likes me his bro n my bff told me n so did he. but i wanna ask him otu n i need a good lil bit of a romantic way of askin him plz help me ! liek asap!

say " i really have feelings for you. do you wanna go out "

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i play basketball really good but i need to improve in getting faster. Does anyone have a clue of what i can do to maybe improve in getting faster?

Practice all the time and work out. Do crunches, eat healthy, excercise 2/3 times a week for a half an hour period. Practice a ton, practicing anything helps you improve.

good luck xoxo

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me and my boyfriend...well ex-boyfriend...broke up sunday. he broke up with me, i didn't break up with him. well the first two days after that were really awkward because we were always real good friends. well now he's starting to flirt again and do the same stuff he did right before i found out that he liked me. do you think it's him still having at least a little bit of feelings for me...or flirting to like make me feel bad or something...

i definetly think he likes you again. Keep flirting back. See what happens. Time will tell, if he wants you back he'd sooo let you know.

gl xoxo

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Ok so I am 13 years old and I want to start babysitting. I'm not sure if there are laws on how old you have to be (I live in England.) Is 13 old enough? How would I go about it?

nOO laws.

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Does pro activ really work? any body ever tryed it, how long did it take for you to have clear skin.? any dis-advantages?

oh my gosh, i guarentee it! It works so well! If it doesnt work for you you can personally inbox me and curse me out for all eternity, it works like a charm!My best friend tried it, her face broke out bad and nothing was working for her. It cleared up her face perfect. I know noo disadvantages, only disadvantage you might consider is that you have to call up and order it. Im not sure the exact time but most people who have acne looking skin i mean like bad take a week to be rele clear. That's rele good......... im telling you i sware by it, there's nothing else id use if my face broke out bad. gl

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Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided?

cutlery. It's a little more proper if you ask me. Lol... but then again if your jsut w/ buddies and not a date hey go for it and pick it up.

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im 13 yrs old and school just started....over the summer all my friends were goin shoppin but i had no money....whats a good job for me? please help im flat broke lol... :)

Babysitting, maybe doing some chores, when it snows in the winter (if it snows where you live) make money off of that, or raking leaves, or mowing lawns. Hope i've helped you a little. I would give you more ideas but at 13 your options are too open unfortunately. gl xoxo

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my g/f tld me 2day tht she felt different abt wen we made out n tht she didnt luv me as much as she used to..n thn i tld her how i felt n she said((no joke))o well i luv u but not as much as i used to...wat shuld i do?

break up w/ her. its already coming so u may as well cut the pain short

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KK, I am running for treasurer of my school and I havta make stickers. I can't think of any good lines to put on it (for example Vote Alexis for treasurer it makes cents). Please Help!! I'll rate!! thanx... xoxo

"Alexis" the trusted treasurer

Alexis is running are you voting?

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my sister gets all the attention and if we fight i always get told off not her 1m 12 and shes 16


HELP

try and make a pact with her to get along. it may seem rele lame but it works with tons of people. Plus, for attention, why dont you make something worthwile for getting attention? Like if you rele try hard for a test coming up or somethin like that..... try rele hard and bring it up in front of your parents. Do something accomplished worth giving attention too. I could help you if i knew more of the situation, send to the inbox if you need me. xoxoo

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ok a bunch of guys have liked me but i get really nervous so i tend to be mean or bitchey but i have stopped but now thats how all the guys think of me. How can i show them that i am gf material and not like that?

be realllly sweet. when something thats just a little bad like someone calls them stupid or something be really syrupy and sweet, just say "aww that's so mean" or "Aww i feel so bad" melt their little hearts. lol.............be ultra nice!!

gl xoxo

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i started my period in 4th grade (in 8th now) and its still irregular and this last 2months its worse like it wont come for 2 - 3 months then when it does it only goes for 2 days...whats wrong with me its been more then 2yr's?!?!

consult a doctor.... this is a very strange pattern and there's probably something funky going on in your system. Nothing to be worried about, but im sure the doctor will get you back on track. gl xoxo

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this morning i burnt my leg with my hair crimper. and it left a scar on my leg. there is like 2 dark lines on my legg, and im not sure how to get rid of it?!...is there any way i can?!...please help!

usually burns heal best over time. Something you can do to make the process faster and less painful is keeping ice on it any spare time you have during the day. It may hurt a little what with the rele cold temperature but it will definetly help. gl

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i am an engineering student in kerala(india).i am a 19 years old male.how can i attract my classmate.please give advice

Well first become friends with her. Then start flirting and dropping the hints.

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Ok my situation might be retarded but see me and my bf have been going out for 11 months and he wants to "do the dirty" but he doesnt want to use a condom he says it takes the fun out of it for him but i dont want to get pregnet would birth control pills be just as good protection as a condom?

noooooo way. Don't even think of doing it without a condom birth control controls birth not STD'z. Please, its the difference between having a kid/ getting aids....or havin nothin happen to you. And for that its definetly worth "taking the fun out of it" for him.


gl xoxo

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What Are Sex Bracelets? lol
-->Thanks I RATE :-)

they are those rubbery bracelets that can easily be broken off... they look really junky and when someone pulls one off of you it means they screwed you lol. Some people do it as a joke, like me and my friends buy them and pull them off eachother but all for fun not like we did anything. gl xoxo heres a perfect example of what they look like but they may come in diff. colors besides black.

http://www.torrid.com/Assets/product_images/lg/574061_lg.jpg

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