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i have tried to pierce my belly button couple of times and only a few times it has went through but i took it out cause it either hurt or got infected, and it lasted just for a few days. so i read online that you could have pierced your embilical cord when you try to pierce it yourself.. so im scared of that and how do i know if i pierced my embilical cord?

well first off if i was you, if i was gonna get my bellybutton peirced i would do it professionally..my friend tried to peirce hers and it got big and infected and she had to go to the doctor....thats what i think you should do...and as for the emblical cord thing---i have never really heard of that but it could be true..but i still say just go to the doctor!! hope i helped!!
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ok, i have a bf. but he dont talk at all to me. we have lots of things in common, but when i flirt with him, he dont flirt back. than another guy comes along... we were just friends until i started flirting with him instead of my bf. then i guess he fell in love with me, but he has a gf. he said that if i didnt have a bf, then he would have asked me out. i love him more than my pitty bf!! he is like my superman... what the heck should i do here? i feel as if i am on a verry small island... should i break up with my bf and ask if my superman would go out with me instead of his current gf, or do i just sit on this island and wait and never be rescued from this love curse? !!S.O.S!!

well what does your heart say??? its not fair to your bf or you to be flirting with this guy...your superman....but its also not fair to his gf....you need to be absolutely sure they are one hundred percent broken up before you can take on a task like that....if you think its true love then i say go for it...go wonderwoman be with your super man!!! hope i helped!!
xoxo
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Um I have a really personal love life question and id rather not post it on public internet, so I was wondering if a couple of people could volunteer to answer it? (ill send you a question to your inbox)

thanks

i will see if i can help you darling---but if its about like anything of the sex topics youd be better off not to ask me cause to be honest i really dont know...never been there...but if its other than that, then im here!!
xoxo
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Okay, so I like this guy who goes to my school, but I don't know what to do about it. I can't talk to any of my friends about it because they don't approve of him. sometimes he acts like he just wants some(if you know what i mean) when he's around me and/or other girls. He's my friend's brother so I see him quite a bit. I don't really want to like him because people would get mad at me but I can't help it. It's like my heart's decided on him and there's nothing I can do about it. It sucks because now sometimes when I'm alone and I think about him and I'll start crying. I really do love him a lot though and I don't know what to do. I don't even know if he likes me. I don't know if to him I'm just another girl. I love him, and I can't move on. I've tried before, and for awhile it worked because I met this other guy, and i told myself and my friends that i was over him, but i knew in the back of my head that i wasn't. and now I really do like him more than ever. and i don't know if i should talk to him or what. What do i do?

okay do this:::::close your eyes!!! block out everything in the outside world...find your pulse...do you feel it?? keep holding on to it...that is your heart...listen...listen carefully....now that your done reading just take a few seconds to "feel your heart" and block out the world and close your eyes........
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okay what did your heart tell you?? that is all that matters!! just follow your heart---it knows what to do...just sometimes you have to listen to it, and block out your brain...your brain has a way of getting to your heart...it comes with the territory...just follow your heart...it will take you where you need to go....hope i helped!!
xoxo
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i didnt no what cat to put this in but here goes... so theres this guy who i am like in love with our fams are major close.. so u get i like him so hes really shy and doesnt talk about his feelings.. i want to know how i can like get him to feel for me or how i can tell if hes feeling me ya no. like whenever were together he makes fun of me and shit liek that and hes always like oo that girls hott and idk i just need some advice please thanks

well when a guy likes a girl and they are kinda immature then they will pick on them...i know it dont make no sense whatsoever...and maybe he is trying to make you jealous?? just get flirty with him...tease him a lil...say you see this? it can be yours if you pay attenion!...but without saying it, ya know?? hope i helped!!
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does anyone know a site to find new r&b and hiphop songs that just came out like today and the last few days i dont want any old songs
or does anyone know any new songs that just came out in the last week or so?

you could go to the billboard site:

http://www.billboard.com/bbcom/charts/chart_display.jsp?g=Singles&f=The+Billboard+Hot+100

its like the top 100 songs around the country at the current moment...hope i helped!!
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if your irregualar on periods, are you less likley to get pregnant?

no you are just as likely to get pregnant...hope i helped!!
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15/f i'm inexperienced at dating guys or even getting asked out and 2 days ago, this guy professed his love to me online and said that he wants me to go out with him. and he kept on flattering me and i was like whoahh, you know? too much attention.

i don't like him. he's sweet but just not my type.

i didn't know what to answer him when he asked me out, so I said i'll think about it. and now he's assuming that i meant that its a maybe. that he has every right to hug me or do stuff.
its not a maybe. its a no.
i just dont want to break his heart. he told me the last girl who rejected him broke his heart. and he gave me all this bs about how im the right one, and how he can't live without me.

and i'm like : you're kidding right?
he wasn't.
i'm really confused. how do i go about getting 'rid' of him in a nice way? i'm so new to this..

and i'm beginning to think maybe i led him on :/

sugar, let me tell you...this is what you say.. you tell him your sorry but you dont like him like that, its nothing personal hes just not your type, and if you were to be "the one" you would like him too, but you dont and your sorry....sound convincing...tell him your flattered that he is so nuts about you and your sorry if you led him on, but you just want to stay friends first,,,hope it all works out!!
xoxo
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it seems long but it's really not, it's just becuase i had to break it up.

Alright, so me and "Billy" have had this thing? I guess you could call it a thing, but it's been about a month and a half now, and nothing has happened.

My friend told him i liked him, but that was a long time ago, and he said he needs to get to know me.

and at homecomming people were telling me to dance with him, but no one would tell me that he said anything, so i didn't.

i regret that i didn't take my chance when i could have.

and i don't know what to do.

i think he likes me because like he doesn't talk to me unless we are alone and wouldn't that mean that he's nervous he would mess up infront of others?

and, when we are with other people he like totaly ignores me, but like he's saying stuff to me, but he's like hey "sally" guess what, but then he like looks at me?

and when he's on myspace i want to just message hime and be like dude, i like you. and see what he says, but every time he's on i'm just getting on and then like he's signed off and it's that stupid time when you log off but myspace still has your online now icon up.
so he's not really on.

so i don't know.
it seemed like he liked me, but i'm afraid that he stopped because he thought i didn't like him after i didn't dance with him.

but whe recently when some where and we were driving home and i was like taht was lame and he said at least i got to spend time with you.

what does this mean?

blah.
should i wait it out?
if i do that, i feel like he might stop liking me, but i don't want to tell him because what if he seriously doesn't like.

i guess it would be better to find out now, wouldn't it?

well anywho, 15/f if it matters.
he's 15 too

aww...go for it honey...you got to take good with the bad...and dont regret- you learn from those mistakes...dont wait it out, cause you will never know if you dont try... its not the olden days anymore...guys dont wait around forever...it sounds to me like he likes you,,,but love is like a football game...if your home team just sat on the sidelines because they were too chicken to play the game, would they win?? no!! you will never know which way the game can turn...you just got to try....and even if it dont work out, at least you know....hope i helped!! good luck!!
xoxo
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Well there is this guy at my school who I think is cute and seems to be nice. His locker is right across from mine and I am not in any of is classes. I see him at lunch also. I want him to notice me. When I say notice I don't mean going out with him then and there. But becoming friends if the friendship seems good, then possibly consitering going higher into our friendship(taking it slow). If it doesn't seem possible then we could remain friends. What my question is,is what's the first step into introducing myself(please don't give me any advice letting him know I like him.

honey talk to him,,, like see something he is doing then give your opinion on it..like if he is looking at a flyer for something like a musical..say eww musicals they must suck, or eww i love musicals...or there is always the old fashioned way....introduce yourself by saying Hi im {insert name here} that could always work...or just casually strike up a conversation with him...that always works...dont be afraid to thrust yourself out there..trust me, if you dont, it will eat you alive...hope i helped!
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about 1 to 2 weeks ago i took two pregnancy tests and they were both negative, but then i didn't have my period last month. Does this mean i'm pregnant or just all mest up? i want to get another test but i dont want my parents to find out until i know for sure and last time was hard enough. plzz help me!!

well honey...my friend had to take 14 pregnancy tests and two came out negative...she is pregnant...it just takes more than one or two. but if you missed your period you need to keep checking---like one every week----hope i helped!!
xoxo
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how does someone act when they are hungover?

they are really sensitive to ilke light and sound..and sometimes you can talk at a normal voice and they can act like your screaming in their ear. here is some more:
Fatigue, weakness, and thirst; Headache and muscle aches; Nausea, vomiting, and stomach pain; Decreased attention and concentration; Depression, anxiety, and irritability;

but mostly its the sensitivity to light and sound!! hope i helped!!
xoxo
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I'm probably going to my boyfriends house soon and it's gonna be just me and him.


what all do you think we could do? i want to play 'games' with him, not like cardboard, or anything like that, like maybe games you just make up. i'm planning on saying 'okay i'm gonna count to 3, and you hafe to try to catch me (I'm running to his bed;)

like those games, and maybe wrestling : )))
is this ok or do you know any other fun ones


thanks alot!=]]

well wrestling definately!!! that way when you wrestle in the floor, when you get on top of him you can kiss him or something...o and try to bring back the child in him like how a boy with a crush is pigtails worst nightmare, just mess around with him like that and it should bring out his inner 6 year old...or maybe you could like make a lil sexy game out of it like hiding behind a door or something with the lights off and keep on saying his name, wait till he walks in then shut the door and like push him on the bed or something....just be a tease! its really fun!! hope i helped!!
xoxo
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is it wrong to refer to an animal as "it" when you dont know its gender?

no its not really wrong...
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can someone tell me about themselves and give me their e-mail?

can i ask why?? and let me tell you there are not alot of people out there that will be stupid enough to give a complete stranger their info and email..just a heads up--so once again can i ask why??

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How come everyone says breast enhancement pills dont work?
It seems like they would, especially since you can take all sorts of hormones to grow for people that are like smaller (my neighbor did for years when he was younger and now he's like average height)
And most of them come with a money back guarantee...

what type of enhancement pills?? im gonna tell you straight up 9 times out of 10 they dont work. like estrogen--it can stop your natural hormone production and give you like facial hair and what not...you just have to be careful...i dont recommend using them--i just dont think they are safe---thats just a personal opinion though...hope i helped!
xoxo
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Hi. You probably read these questions a million times...
I might be joining swim team. I have never used a tampon, ever. I've tried, but it never works! I have a small, slim body and my mom bought Playtex Slimfits for me to try. However, I'm doing something totally wrong! When I do get my period, I have horrible cramps and then I don't want to try using a tampon. What is the correct way and easy way for a someone like me who is slim amd small.
15/F

well where the gripper thing is, keep on pushing it in until your fingers are restin against it, then push it in..thats how its supposed to go,,and dont use supers--your only supposed to use those if you had a baby..and as for cramps take midol or ibuprofen..they work WONDERS!! and dont pull out the tampon until after like 3 hours cause if you do pull it out too early it will hurt like heck! hope i helped!!
xoxo
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PS it really is easy once you do it a couple times, just dont use them all the time or you have a higher risk for TSS-toxic shock syndrome--but you only get that like if you were em like every day over 8 hours....=] best of luck--

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well you know how if someone you know/you're having suicidal thoughts you should tell someone or call that hotline or whatever? well is it really that necessary? i myself on occasion have suicidal thoughts/feelings and if somebody did that to me i would honestly feel betrayed and i think it would be completely unnecessary. i'm not a doctor, so i guess i would not know for sure. but if i'm having or sometimes have thoughts about suicide is it really that big of a deal that needs immediate attention? like i don't think about it all the time only occasionally..

yeah--duh its necessary! i mean lets put you in a scenario---okay your best friend is going suicidal-you see it but he/she dont metion any hanging or cutting, etc.- she calls you and says "dont try to stop me- im finally ending my misery" (maybe not in those exact words but what ever) and you think it is no big deal-it will pass eventually--the next day you get a call saying his/her parents found them dead -wrapped around their neck a phone cord..would it be a big deal then..im not trying to sound mean im just saying it is a big deal because it is pretty much murder. ending your life is one of the worst things you could do--thats why there are help lines. you call them and they try to help you out...hope i helped! =]
xoxo
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Ok so my clothes have this faint smell of b.o. Eurgh i know. I really dont know how to get rid of it. I put my clothes in the wash but its still there. I have 2 showers daily and I use Sure deoderant. I really dont know what to do because it's starting to affect my school uniform and I dont want people at school to know about this. I really need this GONE!
thanks

okay well between me and you, my friend had to go to the doctor because of something like this..her sweat glands produced to much sweat in the littlest perdicaments-like picking up a pencil or standing up. so maybe your glands are messed up or something and your sweating when you dont know it..or need it... maybe you should use like a type of strong deodrant--like secret clinical strength.. maybe you should try a new fabric softener for your clothes--something stronger..hope i helped!
xoxo
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ok..so... theres this boy at my school and i really like him...but theres a problem...were really good friends and its cool like this and all but i want more....last year i liked him to and he thought i only liked him cause he gave me attention..so i was mad at him for a long time and were now really good freinds again and the other day he found out i liked him again some how i have no idea how he found out!! and so im afraid hes going to think something like that again. im so confused i really like him but i dont know what to do can you please help me?

people change!! maybe he wouldnt think the same thing again! just talk to him and tell him you like him and that you like him for him..and that last year he got the wrong idea...you will never know if you dont take action so just go for it!! hope i helped!!
xoxo
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