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I know these aren;t the best questions to ask, but im not gunna ask anyone else!! There's a guy and his name is Gil. I always thought he liked me, but was never sure! Here are some signs he shows:
-He laughs at me
-Today he poked me purposely and I said "What?" and he said sorry
-He popped my bra strap once
-He smiles at me
Thats it...Does he like me? It's starting to annoy me!!! (link)
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I mean seriously I can't believe you don't notice he likes you.But anyways this guy is totally into you,he seems like a bad person,he should learn how to respect others,and also he needs some good manners he needs like a attitude makeover if you know what I mean!
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ok well first im 13 and a girl and theres this kid on my bus lets call him john so john sits next to me on the bus in the pm and all and we talk about stuff like we were talking about his family once and his bros and sis and he gives me gum all the time and charges every one for it except me...i cant tell if he likes me or if hes just really nice cuz everyone says he is and if he did like me he might not ask me out right away cause hes kinda shy when it comes to that stuff...so wat do you think? (link)
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Yeah of course he likes you ask anybody I bet they'll tell you the same thing.Some guys ask out the girl they like,but others don't so don't think he doesn't like you.If you like him get closer to him,get to see the real him,you should probably ask him why he charges everybody for gum but not you if you dare.
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Now I'm a columnist and I would usually look down on a question like this but I really need help!
Ok, for English class we have to write a 5 paragraph essay on a famous quote. My quote is "Insist on yourself never imitate.. Every great man is unique"
I'm having a very hard time thinking of 3 reasons why I would support this quote. Like I have ideas it's just that they are hard to explain.
So if possible can a few people please leave there interpretation of this quote. Or at least give me some sense of direction on how to have a strong argument about this essay topic. (link)
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What you could say is that you agree with the quote that is said,support your answers with details,good reasons why like imitating someone will just make a person less smarter than the person they imitate,and imitation brings out bad image of someone's reputation.Also that uniqueness in a real man is rare to find in which others seek for to obtain.Also you could include strong words,and even facts which is better but you don't have to but it will make it a very great essay though it's your choice.
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i'm confused. ive liked a lot of guys i like dream about them and try and get there attention and flirt with them a lot, but when they start to like me, i like stop likin them to the point where im afarid too see them, but then they stop paying attention to me and statt flirting with other girls i start to like them and then if they start to flirt with me i stop liking them. i dont understand this, it confueses me i really want a byfriend, and i really like this guy right now and he likes me, somdays i really like him but somedays i dont. this always happens when a guy starts to like me. ive ruined a lot of my relentionships becaue of it and i dont want to ruin this one. why do i feel like this? (link)
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when you said that when the guy you like flirts at another you start to like them which shows that you like him a lot,probably don't know that,when the guy flirts at you then you start not to like him it could be that it may just bothers you that the guy starts to be very obuvious but you may also not notice that you may think it's crazy but even when someone may start to get intersted in that person they fall in love with a person without knowing it but sooner or later they find out believe it becuase it's the truth.Confusion happens to people,but it's like geting unstrangled from a chain,which it takes work,time to get out of it just like getting out of confusion.Good that you are now wanting to change now for you,which will bring you happiness,it's almost like starting something over,believe me it's not to late to fix the mistakes so do what ever is in your heart.
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So I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend is a wee bit older. He's 25.
We've been going out for about a month and he's a great guy to me - he buys everything (not just dinner, like he asks if there's anything I want in stores etc.), he opens doors, he always says the kindest things to me, and yes he's great in the bedroom.
But I've just been wondering lately if this is the best time for me to date someone his age. He's so perfect but it's kind of difficult when I get the weird looks from friends and classmates about dating an older guy. He hasn't met my friends yet and I don't even know if his friends know about me. The whole age thing is just kind of throwing me for a loop.
So, do you think I should keep pursuing this relationship with the chance of getting hurt or just let it go for now with such big differences?
P.S. Remember that I'm only a senior in high school, still dealing with stuff like homecoming and prom. He's already out in the working world...it's a tough choice... (link)
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If you really love this guy it shouldn't matter to you,don't let go of him I mean it's really hard to find a guy like him,age shouldn't matter either.From what you said he is in love opening doors for you,treating you like a queen.Every girl would love to have that form their guy but that's not the most important thing what is the most important thing is that he cares for you,that you too give one another respect,love one another as well.Give the guy a chance,if this guy is just someone you like,things are to tough for you to handle then you should probably not be in this relationship anymore,find someone who is like your age which is better.So think about this you don't have to make a decision right away take your time but don't take too long to make a decision.
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Lately I've just been feeling down. Im 17/f. The more and more I'm around people I realize how idiotic and useless they are. I realize more and more how insensitive and selfish and full of hate they are. And things piss me off really bad. Sometimes even just a small noise will send me raging and I just get bitchy and in a bad mood. All I have to do in the mornings to get bitchy is simply talk to my dad. I feel bad about it, but I'm just so tired of him, everything he does is annoying(I live with only him). I'm just tired of everything. I don't know what to do. I'm just normally in a bad mood or down and even when I am in a good mood, people just, bring me down. I'm not ugly or fat or anything so it's not like I get made fun of, cause I don't at all. I actually don't even know whats wrong with me. Does anyone else feel this way, or know whats wrong with me, or how to fix it? I think I really do need some help cause you know theres always more to the story.. My email is shmookie058@yahoo.com Thanks (link)
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A long time ago I used to be very upset because I got really stressed of a lot of work I was given,annoying people in the class,troublemakers out there,haters,when someone used to give me an order it really got me angry but I had to deal with it.Then time went by,I changed,I went to a diiferent school,things seem great but some of the work is hard I mean when you get into highschool there is a lot of hw's,projects,classwork,quizzes.But you must speak with someone like a firend so you could let out what's bothering you or even writing it helps or drawing.What you are going through for sure is depression but it's normal but you have to calm down you have to try,not get mad at others even though you're in a bad mood so you have to be able to control that anger which when you do,when someone makes you happy you'll see things differently like for example, someone you're intersted in who you talk to,understands you,and never judges you.
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well...saturday noght I was Iceskating and my friend Brittany was there(I am a girl by the way) and so was the guy I really liked well, brittany said 2 me, want to see how h0rny we can make these guys? and I said yeh so me and her ended up makin out and I kinda enjoyed it (i was drunk, BUT STILL) and it was all 4 show but I think about it now and i am worried and now all of my friends at school are callin me a lezbo but I still make out w/ guys and i like guys more than girls.. But, does all this mean I'm Bi? (link)
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Well if you like a girl,a guy you are Bi then.But since you say you got drunk,kiss a girl well that explains that you didn't know what you did,try not to worry about that it happens to some people,explain to your friends what happened to you,if it really offends you tell them to stop calling you that because friends should respect each other,understand each other,if they can't do that it's most likely that the friendship won't last.If they decide to keep telling you that name in which you don't like then don't hang out with them anymore,make other friends who are nice people,won't be disrespecting you.
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I realllllly like this guy named Ryan.. I've liked him since last year.. but anyway I cant stop thinking about him i keep dreaming about him and i always shake when im around him and it hurts to the point where i don't wanna live without him and I know he doesnt like me but I can't help it... what should i do? (link)
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You definitely should forget the guy I mean what is the point about being interested in a guy who isn't interested in you,when you happen to see him just don't look at him no more just keep walking like if he wasn't there,time will determine when the pain goes away like it takes time for the mental to heal.Dreams are just illusions but you have to get him out of your mind otherwise you will be upset all the time,spent time with friends or family or doing activities or other stuff,try not to think of him.You could ask other people who went through that before to see that you are not alone on this.There was this one guy I liked a lot,took like three months that I stopped thinking about him,the pain was gone,I went on with my life like others do.If I can so can you.Don't feel sad,don't lose hope either there is some guy out there for you and have faith.
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I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for over a year. Its a pretty special relationship to me. But, theres always these never ending problems that I can't fix anymore. There are times when he'll know that I need him, and he'll leave, not like I'll be crying and say, "I need you" I mean like, we'll have plans to meet online or something, and he'll go to his friends house. I'm usually always ok with him leaving to go to a friends house. But, we hardly got to talk last weekend and now this weekend we never talked, and now next weekend he'll be gone and he knew that he would be. We always have problems where he'll be gone, or just a silly issue will happen. I'd hate to sound like one of those desperate girls, but hes different. He isn't the type to just leave me like that, he feels really bad when he forgets something or did something wrong, yet it keeps happening, and I'm the only one to always think of a solution to fix us, well, this time I decided to make him think, and hes saying we should break up for now. We have recently taken a lot of breaks to help us, we started with taking the whole weekend away, and then we moved on to a week and a half, and here we are stuck again. I have never been so terrified in my life about this relationship failing. I guess I need to know if breaking up for now was the right thing, or if we should be doing something we havn't already done. I think there is something inside of him wanting to work this out, but something else forgets. I'm really open to any answers, I just need help, I'm really depressed. What would be the best solution to you?
I'll be sure to rate, but I hope I get true answers. (link)
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To me the best solution would be that you too give each other some time to see if you too really want to continue with the relationship,get your ideas straight,clear to avoid confusion on how you too feel about each other.If you too see that you too can't live apart of each other then one of you might as well tell the other that you care,want to keep the relationship.A year of boyfriend,girlfriend is a long time,I like that you are always doing what you can to save your relationship,you have nothing to regret,and if he is the one for you go after him, and tell him everything that you feel about him.Teens go through depression but most of us know how to deal with it on our own or find someone close for support,comfort,and help so you might as well do the same.
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i havn't had a boyfriend or even a boy liking me in a long time....each time i try to get a guy to like me more he doesn't ever seem interesed......and then either they end up liking my friends or just thinking i'm really weird.....how can i modivate myself when i feel like i'm not good enough for any guy that i ever liked and why is it that uhhh i don't know just help me plz
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what you can do is get into something you're very interested in like a sport or something that is your dream,follow it,achieve your goals instead of being upset when guys that you like are never meant to be but that doesn't mean every guy that crosses your path.Have some patience there are times when someone will or give up.The next time you see some other guy you like make sure he likes you back like if he flirts at you or there are other signs he will show if he does.Don't think because you're not good enough people just think differently with differnt opinions,likes,dislikes,view things differently so remember that not every guy or girl thinks the same and also that nobody can take someone else's place even if you look just like the person.
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my hair is straight and thin and its hard to do anything with it, but i really want to make it wavy, i want it to look like i just let my hair air dry and it went really cute wavy, but since my hair doesnt naturally do that, how do i make it look that way (link)
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First shampoo your hair but if you decide not to then just spritz your hair with a water bottle.Then massage a golf-ball sized dollop of mousses directly into your hair, and concentrating on the roots.After that flip your hair,blow dry,and set hair into hot rollers which help add shine,concentrating the big rollers on the center of your head,smaller ones around your hairline.After your hair dries,gently remove rollers,let hair fall naturally into an "s " shape.Finally,twirl a few sections of hair around the barrel of curling iron,but not inside the the iron but midway through the lenght of the hair to it's ends.Afterwards,spray with a new hair spray that doesn't harden but gives you a flexible hold,and you're done!To get rid of any fuzzies add a drop of anti-frizz serum such as John Freida Frizz Ease Hair serum.
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OK i asked a question like this b4 but no one answered so i am answering again and I PROMISE TO RATE YOU A 5 IF YOU ACTUALLY GIVE ME A REASONABLE ANSWER-
My face turns red. A lot. I can't feel it turnign red but I know it turns red b/c my bffs all say it does. And I can definitelly trust the and all...
It turns red when a guy flirts with me, when I am up in front of class and presenting, and more times. WHAT DO I DO FROM KEEPING IT TURNIGN RED! (link)
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That used to happen to me believe me I asked the same question in my mind.But you know what I did to stop from my face turning red is just to go up there,just look at what I'm presenting,the teacher because if I stare at everybody my face will turn red.But even now I could just stare at people,I don't turn red but I only get a little nervous.It's just a matter of getting used to it and facing it as well like they say in order to overcome your fears you must face them.So don't worry about that.
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I'm 14 and a Freshman in high school.
Last year at my 8th grade end of the year formal dance, I slow danced a few dances with this guy i knew named John. According to rumor he liked me. in the days after the dance i was very confused as to weather i liked him or not (now i know i didnt really like him, but the fact that he liked me made me think i liked him... werid i know) my friends took charge telling me i liked him and made me invite him to my "8th grade graduation party" There it was a little awkard... cuz he's the shyer type and i was with all my friends and stuff as well... but nothing really happened there. In about three days... he asked me out (my friends arranged it, so when he asked me to meet him at the park i knew what it was for) he brought me a rose and everything and it was really sweet. I said yes. It was summer, so in the days following he left for vacation and later so did i. we talked on the phone alot, but i always felt awkard talking to him... it never seemed like our conversations flowed smoothly or anything. when i finally got home from vacation.. i pretty much avoided him for a couple weeks. Using my broken ankle as an excuse (it really was broken). Then i finally got up the courage to break up with him.he just said "ok" and we didnt talk for the rest of the summer. when school started again (we're going to the same high school) i was friendly and stuff, but no biggie. at the back to school dance he asked me to dance during the last song of the night. ... i retunctantly said ok. then my friends saved me "you're dad is here!" lol
that was a month ago.... now we wave and say hi when we see each other, which isnt often. i've heard he still likes me, and the other day he called me... and i missed his call, but he didnt leave a message so i never called him back. (i had heard that he was going to ask me to go to the dance with him) Homecoming Dance is tonight and i'm afraid that he's going to ask me to dance... and well i want to say no. But how can i do it without hurting his feelings too bad?? and being polite and nice and stuff
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To not hurt his feelings tell him you don't have feelings for him,you just want to be honest with him,then just let him think you are interested in him,inn which you are not,rather have him as a friend than a boyfriend,you could also say to him that there are other girls out there that will correspond to him,because he is a nice person,and that you are not telling him to make him feel better but because you just know.
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13/f Okay..for the girls you may know what I'm feeling here..
Well do any of you other girls ever really want a boyfriend? Well that's the way I'm feeling..I mean lately I just feel..ugly. I mean no guys at school like me and today a few guys asked me out but I know(at least I think) that they were kidding. And in a few weeks I will be going to Cedar Point with my friend for her birthday and she's bringing two of her guy friends. She's saying that me and her guy friends would make such "cute couples" but I don't know..With my luck, they probably won't like me.
I don't know..I guess I'm just really self-concious about this..When I look at other girls, they are so pretty and it makes me feel like I'm as ugly as dirt.
And all of my friends think I'm pretty but I don't. I think I'm fat and that I'm totally unattractive.
If you need to look, I'm about to go upload a picture of myself onto my advice column
Does anyone know why I'm feeling this way? I understand that it's probably hormones but..
Thanks in advance for any helpful advice. (link)
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Just because you don't have a boyfriend does not mean you are ugly.I mean I'm single too,a lot of guys like me but most of them have girlfriends,the other guys are afraid to ask me out because they think they'll get rejected.If you really think you are unattractive well why don't you try changing something about you that you don't like about yourself.You are probably feeling this way because you have like an empty space but you need to start hanging out with guy friends you like,see if they like you by the way they look at you or ask a friend to ask them if they do.Don't feel down by the girls you think are better than you.You have to be strong,go on with your life,find the one guy that likes you and respects you like it should be.
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I'm going to a party tomorrow night and I'm getting quite worried about it.
There's this guy going who I don't talk to that much...but I've been to parties with him there before. Twice. And both times I ended up getting with him under the influence of a substantial amount of alcohol.
And I seriously don't want to do it again, but I don't want it to stop me from having fun...and I just don't know if I want to go any more, but its my best friend's birthday!
I'm pretty damn certain he'll try it on again if he gets the chance, so my question is how can I try and make sure he doesn't try it on? And if worse comes to worse how can I get rid of him without making things awkward for the other people at the party?
I rate! (link)
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If he offers you a drink just say no thanks,if he still insists then just keep saying that you are just not thirsty.Make sure you don't see anything suspicous of what this guy is planning to do,also try avoiding him if you have to. To get rid of him you could have someone like a girl to talk to him so he would leave you alone,also try convincing them to go out somewhere where they could talk comfortably.
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Okay so I have like a BEST friend we have been really good friends since like 4th grade and now we are in 8th well ever sinve like last year she has been blowing me off for this other girll I'll call ash well whenever I ask like what shes doing shell be like oh Im staying after and Ill be like ohh cool for anything fun and she'll be like no not really but than later it comes out that she was with ash and I just bugs me that she wouldnt tell me where she was going..is it just me and what can I do so it doesnt bug me as much..Thanks (link)
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You should do the same hang out with another friend of yours,don't tell her either so it would be equal.If she finds out tell her that she did the exact same thing to you but first so it's her fault,how could she not tell you your her friend it doesn't seem like she is being a real friend by keeping things from you.Also one last thing you should do first is tell her how she is making you feel by blowing you off,if she still acts the same then find someone else to hang with who is worth it.
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I recenty have been hanging out with my guys friends alot. There is this one guy that just had his birthday, and now he is 18. I really like him and i know he likes me, but he is just too affraid because i am younger than him. He is soo sweet and soo cute, i just cant stop liking him. What should i do? (link)
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Go talk to the guy,tell him that you like him,that you don't care about age difference,that it shouldn't matter when two people like each other,even love.I know it won't be easy but you must tell him because you may regret it so take the risk what is there to lose you like him,and so does he like you back.
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Ok, long story short, I fell in love with one of my best friend over the summer. Yes, I'm 13. Yes, I know you're about to tell me that this is mere infatuation rather than love. I'm just gonna spare you a 1 rating: It's not infatuation. I know love, and I know infatuation. And this is definitely love. I can feel it as right as 2+2 is 4. Anydangways, she knows very well how much I love her, but she still only likes me as a friend. Now that the school year's started again, our attitudes have sort of changed. We used to joke around all the time, but nowadays, we see each other in the halls, and either we just say "hi" or we stay silent or involved in our conversations. Personally, whenever I'm talking to my friends in the halls, and then I see her coming, I'm suddenly turn silent and I say something like "Yeah, I know, I'm weird." or "Yeah. That's it." Or something to end conversation and not embarass myself. Also, I've been hoping to see her: whenever I'm near where she lives and talking to someone about something, I think, "I'd better make this conversation a bit smarter in case she comes near. Just to be safe" or something like that. And I'm always trying to impress her. I don't know why, we're best friends, and she knows how much I love her. What's going on? Why do I just suddenly lose all my intelligence, self-respect, and logical reasoning, not to mention my will to do what I please, whenever I think about her? It's like in that manga D.N.Angel, whenever Daisuke thinks about Risa, he becomes Dark and loses control of his body. Sorry, I babble a lot. I'd better stop now. Please help me! (link)
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What you need to do is relax,when she saids hi then tell her something good that happened or something bad in the news or something funny,see her reaction,she will most likely continue the conversation.It's normal to start losing control when your near someone you like it happens to a lot of people.By the way you should also ask about her life like what is she interested in,her family or how is she doing in her classes so she see's that you are really into her.You could also ask your one of your friends to help you talk to her and even better if you too are alone to have a good talk without interruptions.You could also think of what you are going to say to her before you start a conversation.
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How can you tell if a guy likes you? (link)
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If a guy stares at you a lot,shows he likes you like flirts at you or comes up,talks to you for no reason,acts all sweet to you,plays with you,or puts his arms around you or you could see it in his eyes some girls can tell by staring at their eyes.
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OK. So I went to a coalfield football game, and one of my old friends asked me to go out with him. I did feel sorry for him and I wanted to say no but I couldnt and said yes. He is always calling me 'strawberry' and calls himself 'lovebunny'. eeeeewwwwww!!!!!! so were bf/gf and I dont want to hurt his feelings but I do not like him at all. I mean for a friend he's ok but not any thing more! so what do I do? should I wait a lil while b-4 breaking up with him or do it tomarrow or today? should I tell him in person/ or on the phone? Im loosing my mind here!! I dont want to hurt him but he's just, not my type..
as long as you even try to tell me how to fix this problem i will rate high!! signed Savannah Reese (link)
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It is better to talk in person because then he will get even more upset of the fact that you couldn't look at him and tell him directly which takes courage to do.Just tell him that you just see him as a friend,nothing else,ask him if he is cool with that,if he doesn't understand than it is best not to talk to him anymore because he will keep getting into illusions with you and will get his heart broken even more.What you could do for him as well is find out if he likes another girl,try to get them to talk to each other so his mind won't be on you for a while and even she may be the one for him.
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