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Should we break up?
OK. So I went to a coalfield football game, and one of my old friends asked me to go out with him. I did feel sorry for him and I wanted to say no but I couldnt and said yes. He is always calling me 'strawberry' and calls himself 'lovebunny'. eeeeewwwwww!!!!!! so were bf/gf and I dont want to hurt his feelings but I do not like him at all. I mean for a friend he's ok but not any thing more! so what do I do? should I wait a lil while b-4 breaking up with him or do it tomarrow or today? should I tell him in person/ or on the phone? Im loosing my mind here!! I dont want to hurt him but he's just, not my type..
as long as you even try to tell me how to fix this problem i will rate high!! signed Savannah Reese
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Waiting is the worst thing to do
sit him down "say lunch" and talk to him about it
tell him your feelings are only friend feelings and that you dont want to hurt him
hope I helped
Ashley Marie*
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Okay the best way I would have to say is in person but if you feel you can't do it in person then on the phone. Okay well just tell him you like him as only a friend. And no you shouldn't wait because then you are leading him to believe that you really really like him when you don't you only like him as friends. You should do it as soon as you see him next and do it privatly not when tons of people are standing around watching. So good luck and I hope I helped!
P.S. I hope you learned your lesson with this one! Only say yes when you really mean it and not to be nice because you will be stuck in this situation again! lol Good luck with it all!
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It is better to talk in person because then he will get even more upset of the fact that you couldn't look at him and tell him directly which takes courage to do.Just tell him that you just see him as a friend,nothing else,ask him if he is cool with that,if he doesn't understand than it is best not to talk to him anymore because he will keep getting into illusions with you and will get his heart broken even more.What you could do for him as well is find out if he likes another girl,try to get them to talk to each other so his mind won't be on you for a while and even she may be the one for him.
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Ok what you should do is call him up or when you see him in person sit him down. Which ever is more comfortable for you. So when you call/talk to him in person tell him about how you really dont feel that way for him. And you didnt ever want to hurt him in any sort of way. Tell him hes sucha sweet guy but hes not your type. That you just want to be friends nothing more. And that your truly sorry if you hurt him in any way. Because you shouldn't be trapped in a relationship when you dont like the guy. Just tell him your so sorry if your hurt him. And you don't like him like that & hes not your type that you want to be just friends. Very good friends. hope I helped <3
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