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i havn't had a boyfriend or even a boy liking me in a long time....each time i try to get a guy to like me more he doesn't ever seem interesed......and then either they end up liking my friends or just thinking i'm really weird.....how can i modivate myself when i feel like i'm not good enough for any guy that i ever liked and why is it that uhhh i don't know just help me plz
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There is nothing wrong with you, but just like a great wine, some things need time to reach their full potential. When you're ready to take a mate, the men will be there for you.
Focus on the things that make you happy now and forget about all the things that upset you. Mental baggage is heavy and not worth carrying.
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what you can do is get into something you're very interested in like a sport or something that is your dream,follow it,achieve your goals instead of being upset when guys that you like are never meant to be but that doesn't mean every guy that crosses your path.Have some patience there are times when someone will or give up.The next time you see some other guy you like make sure he likes you back like if he flirts at you or there are other signs he will show if he does.Don't think because you're not good enough people just think differently with differnt opinions,likes,dislikes,view things differently so remember that not every guy or girl thinks the same and also that nobody can take someone else's place even if you look just like the person.
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you are not alone. i am the same way. i have a huge crush on this boy in my class and i had a friend ask him what he thought of me. it turns out he thinks i am cute, funny, and nice, but he liked my best friend. you just need to realize that if they don't see how special and great you are, then they aren't worth having anyway. i hope this helps you out!
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Don't worry, you aren't alone in feeling this way. There are all of these other girls that you might even know that feels the exact same way about guys and boyfriends. When you find out that a guy doesn't like you back, I know its hard to stay strong and take it, but you just have to think og it as, "Hey, so he doesn't like me back, it doesn't change the way I look and how pretty I am though, I am still a really nice girl, and my friends think so too, so I guess thats his loss" When someone turns you down, it doesn't make you not good enough suddenly. It depends on the person whose turning you down. Is he a jerk? Does he only dive into girls for her appearance? Does he have a big reputation with girls? Even if you answered no to these questions, I think that you'd be good enough for anyone. Sometimes you just have to wait for them, they'll come to you sometime. I know its really great to hear, but its actually true because usually when you go chasing something, it will just keep running away. But if you stand there, doing your own thing, living your own life, is will chase after you sooner later.
-TheTeenGirl
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