im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.
Thanks so much to you all. (link)
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dont do it and ill show you why!!!
THIS CLIP MAY MAKE YOU SICK WATCH AT YOUR OWN RISK!!!!
if geting an abortion isnt harming anything then why are they showing us that it is!
if you are going to have sex your giving a risk of getting pregnate. if you do not want a baby then dont do it
shame on the people who kill...
God is our creator he does not allow killing.
it is still a human being who still can feel why take a life away!!!
if its not killing then what do they call this?
if your against this then repost it as fast as you can... you have a heart dont you? dont comit a murder...save lives♥
it will haunt you for the rest of your life if you dont repost this!!!!
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Whenever I'm with my friends or when I kiss my boyfriend once.. I get nasty comments. I don't understand it. One girl kept saying that leads to.. this! -points to her baby-
It's making me angry because I'm not stupid. She's the one who slept around and didn't use protection.
My friends went through my camera and saw a picture of me in a bra. They screamed in an over reacting way. Yelling /keep your clothes on/ and stuff. "Don't do anything stupid".. when she has done drugs and had sex numerous times. she made herself seem all superior and well, it pissed me off :)
What can I do to make them shut up? I'm older than them and they are not joking, believe me. I'm not stupid enough to make the same mistakes. I've done a lot of sexual things but they insist that I shouldn't do anything and that I'm innocent. I'm on birth control and I already talked to my boyfriend about this. I'll have sex with him when I'm ready and when BC has taken full effect. And he MUST bring condoms or he gets nothing. We have done everything but actual sex. About drugs, we aren't doing any of it.. but we will drink a little together around a group of friends [sober]
Maybe my friends are trying to protect me.. I don't know. but I hate when they tell me that and everything. I'm a year or two older and I've been reading a lot about birth control, sex, etc. They act like it's a deadly sin when I kiss my boyfriend :(
And i hate when they scream in public. They practically said i was naked [when i was not] at a middle school graduation. oh yea, that really makes me look good in front of middle schoolers and parents! it makes me look like a slut and i haven't done anything. people always ask me if i'm a virgin. (link)
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yes they are just trying to protect you so you dont make the same mistakes. just tell them not in a mean way that you appretiate them of thinking of you but you promice not do anything that would change your life drastically!
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I was just wandering if there is anyway i could make my period go by faster? cause i might be goin to the beach next week and i wear tampons but i would rather just be done with my period when i get there. i started today by the way, and i usually last bout 6 or even 7 days. thanks a bunch!! (link)
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actually you can make your period last only 3 days with yaz a birth control talk to your parents or a garduian about it!
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how do you give yourself an orgasm?!
thankss (link)
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site to help you out on that. solotouch.com!
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what is masturbation and how is it done??
14/f
thankss (link)
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materbation is one a women feels she needs to pleasure herself by herself basically what guys do you know jacking off but girls dont jack off cuz well we dont have a penis. but if you would like to do some there is a site to go to called solotouch.com!
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Does anyone know a site where to make your own layouts..? a good one?
thanks,
much love XoXoXo (link)
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whateverlife.com!
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Ok, I'm sure that people have heard this one before, but this is serious and we need help:
When my girlfriend and I have sex, I can't keep my erection long enough to orgasm. This results in hurt feelings and disappointment. I don't know what's wrong with me... I know I can orgasm, but I just can't keep the erection long enough to be able to. My girlfriend is very upset by this as well... It's frustrating to me and I feel like I'm failing her, or as if I'm broken or something. If it helps to know and it's not TMI, I've masturbated frequently for years.
If there's anyone out there who has some information on what can be done we would very much appreciate that. Oh... And anyone who says something like "You're probably gay" or "You don't really love your girlfriend" is getting a 1 for a rating because that's complete crap.
Thanks for your time! (link)
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if i were you i would use viagra that way there are no dissapointments at all I know that doesnt help your situation on it with out using the med. but hey ignore the problem and get a shortcut!!
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Me and my boyfriend had sex twice. On June 17th , we had sex with a condom on and he cummed inside a little, but we onyl had sex for like 10 mintes. The second time we had sex was, on June 30th it was only 5 minutes and he didn't cum at all and we used a condom. But now , lately I haven't been feeling well at all and im stressed because I don't know if I'm pregnant or not.. So, in your opinion do you think im pregnant? What are some signs of pregnancy? (link)
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the signs of being pregnate is
1. vomiting
thts all i really know but i also know if you have a missed period and it hasnt come in like 2 weeks you should deff. take a pregnancy test!!! like rite away!! there could be a slite chance that your pregnate if the condom broke.
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me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month now, and things are great between us. but we tend to have awkward silences whenever we talk on the phone, and it's really annoying. it also makes me feel bad because it seems like he's bored when we're not talking. what are things i can talk to him about? we talk about basically everything, but i need specific things i can talk to him about.
thanks. (link)
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well what i do when awkward moments come up i just talk about movies or w.e you mite be watching be like do you watch this and talk about it for a while ya its more interesting then sitting there talking about nothing!!
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About 2 weeks ago my xboyfriend said he wanted to be friends and I was fine with that. We broke up about 4 weeks ago but ever since we had been friends he been wanting to have sex (link)
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he wants to be friends with benifits with you. just so you know some guys are just pigs. tell him u want to be FREINDS not friends with benifits unless thats wat you want.
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M/15- I'm in the middle of nowhere and i can't find any girls to meet. Only the ppl in my neiborhood and it is small and it seems like no1 here is my age. I want to meet some1 but i feel like there is nobody here 2 meet. What do i do? (link)
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hmm walk around the neighbor hood look around youll bound to run into some old person and theyll start talking to u and theyll give you all the info you need!
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i dont feel like i am pretty or anything bcuz no guys like tell me i am to my face and like no one does besides like my friends and i think they dont mean it.
www.myspace.com/i_like_to_rawr_00
is my myspace,please tell me the truth like i dont feel pretty what so ever,and is there anyway how i can change my feeling on that?
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i can not see your picture it says you deleted ur profile!
go to my pro and talk to me
http://www.myspace.com/siahtysml92muffinpatch07
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okay im a 13 yr old girl theres this boy i really like and im pretty sure he dosen't like me. i mean im not exsatly popular or girly im more emo...no boys really like me. but how do i get him to notice me without useing looks. I have his msn and phone number cause he gave them to me. but i never know what to say i seem like such a boring person. sometimes hes soo cold to me but then sometimes he makes me laugh...my friends say he flirts with me but i don't notice and i don't wanna start beliving them because if he dosen't like me I will be crushed. I just suck with the whole flirting thing so can anyone help in sort of getting closer an stuff
thanks so much x
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being emo is hott i love it when guys are too. but ne way to get closer to this guy dont change at all. be yourself. when he starts talking to you just talk to him like hes your best friend. some times guys flirt with a lot of girls at that age its just there thing like me and my boyfriend 2years ago when i was ur age we would flirt all the time and i didnt even like him. and i did it this year too. it mite take a while for him to like you but talking is the one thing that can help you now!
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Okay well i am 13/f and i have kissed and stuff but i have not like made out with my boyfriend when we kiss its like a kiss hello or a kiss goodbye nothing much more. And so last night he asked me if i wanted to make out and i just made up an accuse not to. Because i dont know what guys like thats why i want guys to answer so, guys what do you look for when you make out with a girl? And give me some detail's please like past expereance's or somthing like that .
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ok the first time make out is nerve recking i know but dont let him shove his tounge down your throat it gives u a diff visual of making out just look at him and kiss him like you would when you say good bye but make it longer start moving your lips you have seen it in movies and shows apparently i was good my first time i just went with the flow. dont be thinking about to much like am i bad dont think at all thats way important cuz if your thinking alot then you mite suck.
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I'm a girl by the way...Ok so im pretty sure that im ready to have sex for the first time. But im really afraid it will hurt, like a lot. I've been fingered once before and that hurt a lot too. So i'm afraid that i wont be able to enjoy it because it will hurt so much. i know it sounds stupid but please help.
thanks. (link)
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k if ur like 14-16 then dont even think about that shit your making a huge mistake you cant think your ready to have sex. ya it hurts. wait till mariage trust me ur going to wish you did!!!
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my friends grandfather died this morning. hes really hurt. but i dont know what to say to him. im scared ill say something wrong. what should i tell him? (link)
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if i were you i would just say im sorry for your loss i heard about it if you need anything im here to help you out. simple and everyone uses it!!!
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heyy im nikki and im 13
well i have a really cute and hot boyfriend and he tells me to come meet him which fine ... but i get very bord like all my boyfriends i have put there arms around me and kiss my neck and all that and hook up with me and stuff but this one hugs and kisses me but how do i tell him to put his hands arnd me ?? is he fridget to hook up with me coz hez like to me "don't be fridget, lol" and im not ..should i be making the first move or should he ??
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hes probally shy so its totally ok to make the first move actually guys find that more attractive. just put ur arm around him being funny and maybe hell do the same!
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Where can you buy spotting belts from trampolines (round ones) that hook onto the pools of the net
http://www.1800trampoline.com/ProductImages/trampolineaccessories/PortableRig400.jpg
it kind of looks like this here but instead of it hanging over the trampoline i want to find one that connects right too it.
does anyone know where I can find one? (link)
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WALMART!!!!!! or try Bjs if u have one
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im over weight and have been since i was 8 years old but some of it is from meds that i have to take for a lung disease i have. the meds. help me breath but make me gain weight this disease also makes it hard for me to work out. im not a junk food eater cuss im allergic to most junk foods so it cant be blamed on that but im at the point now that i dont no what to do to loss the weight is there anyone that nos what i could do?? (link)
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your only 8 year old really dont worry about that trust me when i did at that age by the time i was 11 i was bolemic and then when i was 12 and 13 i was starving myslef its not healthy to worry about your body all the time. dont worry about it ur still young! your body needs to devolp normally when you get your period ask your doctor if there is any way i can drop the pounds when taking what ever med. thats making you gain. but if you loose wieght now it just makes your body unhealthy and hard to devolp the way it should.
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im 16 years old and am having a major problem..my hair is falling out like crazy and idk why!!..like i just run my fingers through my hair,look,then have a hand full of hair..im really bothered by this. what could be the problem?! (link)
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if your either
1. starving yourself
2.throwing up onpurpose
than thats why! but if your not then to tell you its normal to loose to about 100 or more strands of hair a day!
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