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boy touble
okay im a 13 yr old girl theres this boy i really like and im pretty sure he dosen't like me. i mean im not exsatly popular or girly im more emo...no boys really like me. but how do i get him to notice me without useing looks. I have his msn and phone number cause he gave them to me. but i never know what to say i seem like such a boring person. sometimes hes soo cold to me but then sometimes he makes me laugh...my friends say he flirts with me but i don't notice and i don't wanna start beliving them because if he dosen't like me I will be crushed. I just suck with the whole flirting thing so can anyone help in sort of getting closer an stuff
thanks so much x
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being emo is hott i love it when guys are too. but ne way to get closer to this guy dont change at all. be yourself. when he starts talking to you just talk to him like hes your best friend. some times guys flirt with a lot of girls at that age its just there thing like me and my boyfriend 2years ago when i was ur age we would flirt all the time and i didnt even like him. and i did it this year too. it mite take a while for him to like you but talking is the one thing that can help you now!
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Ellu emo girl , we have things in common , we want to be noticed , first thing when you see him say hi and ask how his day went or was ?
who knows mabey it might lead from there in to a date , then boom your going out
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ok well if he gave you his msn and phone number, then why don't you use them?!?!
Go on msn and just talk to him about normal things. Say something like "i really want to see this movie. It sounds cool"
ASK QUESTIONS!!! that way, he HAS to answer. Get to know him more. Ask him what his favorite food is, or band.
When you see him, make sure you make eye-to-eye contact with him for about 3 seconds. Then quickly look away. Laugh at ALL of his jokes, even if they are stupid ones. Lol. Twirl you hair when you talk to him, bite your lip, fix your hair. Oh and this is hilarious.... when you are talking to him, be so into the conversation and when there's an interruption, be all like "aghh what do you want?"
guys think it's so cute when girls are just themselves. No guy ever wants a girl who causes drama. they want girls that are exciting and risky.
more importantly... BE YOURSELF!!!!!!! don't do anything stupid just to get a guy to like you. If you change yourself, he might fall in love with the fake you... and you won't be happy.
I hope I helped!
-volleyball2150
PS: be a social butterfly! It helps to get more attention
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