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will it hurt?
I'm a girl by the way...Ok so im pretty sure that im ready to have sex for the first time. But im really afraid it will hurt, like a lot. I've been fingered once before and that hurt a lot too. So i'm afraid that i wont be able to enjoy it because it will hurt so much. i know it sounds stupid but please help.
thanks.
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if it hurt when you were FINGERED, it will definitly hurt when you have sex. especially if you've only done it once. but i guess if he used three fingers or something the first time, then thats understandable. but yeah, it'll probably hurt you
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every girl the first time is scared.
people make it seem like it is the most horrible pain..
it's not.
it will hurt though..
most of the time it depends on the penis size.
but a girl is so tight at first.. anything will hurt.
trust me it will be enjoyable also though.
but don't be scared.
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its not a stupid question, but the answer is yes sex does hurt your first time. The reason being is because your vagina is expanding. The first time i had sex it was worse than i could imagine, but once it was in it was better. The first few times of having sex it will not feel good, but it will not hurt as bad as your first time. To make it easier, use some lubrication. Dont forget to use a condom. Also make sure you are ready for this, its a big step in a relationship, and puts alot of emotions on the line.
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It probably hurt because you were nervous and tense so your muscles went tight. The fact that you're worrying so much about it will probably make sex hurt as again you'll be worried and scared so you're muscles with contract and tighten. If and when you're ready, whenever that is, you need to relax and not get all worked up, as your muscles with relax and the experience will be more enjoyable for you. I would calm down about the issue more before you decided whether or not you're ready. When it happens it happens, just don't panic and relax, don't live to regret it:)
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k if ur like 14-16 then dont even think about that shit your making a huge mistake you cant think your ready to have sex. ya it hurts. wait till mariage trust me ur going to wish you did!!!
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