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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

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Okay.. so me and my boy friend have been dating for 8 months ! Well just last week we were looking at his digital camera and a picture poped up and he was like oh look heres when they had a stripper come to my dads birthday ! Im Like WHAT ? so i didn't say anything until we got home well when i did hes like its just a joke come on i mean she was ugly and she only danced in front of everyone else ! I was like ok and i let it go away well then today i was looking thru the pictures and i seen one of her dancing all over him !! i didn't tell him i saw it but now its all i can think about i really love him what should i do !

He is a typical guy, if you pop the subject up he will be like y were you looking throu my stuff? Anyway, let it go, he loves you, otherwise he wouldnt be lieing so you wont get hurt, if you understand what im saying (sorry i cant explain it).
♥ Michelle

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Okay...I'm 18, and I have these two certain good friends that I've been friends with for a couple of years. I've been feeling left out lately, because they're going to the same college, and I'm not, and they always talk about it in front of me. We also have this thing where we wait for each other after soccer practice, and lately they've just left without me, talking and laughing all the way. I take this as a sign that they just forget me, and it makes me mad. One of the girls I was good friends with until the other one came along, and now they're best friends. And I'm left out. I keep giving them HUGE hints that they're leaving me out, but they're either too clueless to know, or just don't care. What should I say to them/do??

It looks to me like you need new friends. Talk to them about it, be BLUNT!! Obviously, they dont want to listen or care!
♥ Michelle
ps FunkyFresh is 18 and might be able to help you out!

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I crack my back.. not a lot.. but at least a few times a day... i know its bad... but now it's a habbit... how can i stop this and what can i do if i get the urge to crack my back?

When you want to crack your back just consistant and dont do it like catch yourself!
♥ Michelle

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ok well me and my boyfriend are 13..and i heard from like a bunch of people that hes getting me a necklace and flowers but i have no clue what to get him..like i was at the mall yesterday and i went into like every store and i couldn't find anything..i dont want to get him something to expensive cause i really dont have that much money..but like can anyone give me any ideas and like the price they might be? thanks

Get him flowers, boxers with hearts, and chocolate!!
♥ Michelle

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ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time!!! but after awhile we get bored! but when he comes over or if i go over there we usually just watch tv! and i want to do something different! cuz we both can't drive yet! ideas would be great of wat to do!!!

and his birthday is in a couple of days and i want to do something for him soo Help me please so i can get ideas thanks a bunch

Ask you parents to drive you somewhere, movies, mall.
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For his bday, get a few of his close friends and 1,2 of your friends or whatever, and go to a resturant!
♥ Michelle
ps i sure he'll like the resturant idea!

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For v - day... if i got my boyfriend two little teddy bears... (ones a girl and ones a boy)... that have magnetic noses so its like they are kissing... would that be too girly like giving him teddy bears and stuff?

Aww, no it is totally cute and fine! Also if you dont think these teddy bears are a good idea get him boxers with hearts on them!
♥ Michelle

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Well as yall know valentines day is coming up.. I have no clue as to what to get my boyfriend. Hes really into his truck, but all that stuff is really expensive. Please give me some ideas!
Emily

Boxers with hearts on them! Flowers, candy, somthing homemade!
♥ Michelle

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I'm trying to promote my site, and have submitted my URL to Google, and a few other popular search engines. But I dont think it's enough. If anyone can give me a site where I can send my URL to a lot of search engines, that would be great! Thank you and I rate:)

Well, i kno advicenators has a support page thing, you can support advicenators and then theyll put your site on advicentors!!
♥ Michelle

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Ok, this guy didn't kno what I looked like and my friend pointed me out to him and he still talked to me on AIM, and then I asked him if he saw what I looked like and he said "No I forgot" and then later on another day I asked him "so do u remember what I look like know?" and he said "Yeah I remember now" and then he started talking to me less and less. He never said I was ugly or anything, and he's the type of person to say if ur ugly or not. He didn't say anything. I'm confused! Why is he being this way?!

~ Confused ~

Hey, i think he likes you and might be shy, you can just randomly one day be like HEY, wsp? And as you get into the covo, be like, you never told me if i was ugly or cute. And if he lafs it off be like so am i cute?
♥ Michelle

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I'm 14 years old, and I want my hair dyed. Like I want a drastic change SORTA. My hair right now is Dark Blonde. I don't want like blue pink colors though. I'm white, and my face is sorta red usually. I'm not really tan, I am sometimes. But not always. Whats a good hair color for me =)

You can do dark brown, Blonde with black, Brown with blonde tips.
♥ Michelle

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what re-fur? maybe its reifer ... i dont know but my best friend just told me he does that. I had no idea so i was like just like o.. can we talk about this later so i want to know what it is please

Slang for marauana srry i cant spell
♥ Michelle

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Hey! Okay...really gross problem (and I only want you to answer if u have had the same problem and had it fixed) well i sweat really bad. Even without doing physical activity...it's really gross and I'm sure people notice it cause you can see it through my clothes (under my arms). I've tried lots of deoderant and baby power and it doesn't work...what should I do?

Men's deoderant works well, you can also try this deoderant called smothing like, Dri or somthing Dri lol srry!
♥ Michelle

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I like someone and my crush likes me too. Whenever he tells me to call i make up an excuse not to because i get really nervous. Hes getting sick of it what should i do ?

Call him, dont make up excuse's, he likes you!
♥ Michelle

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how do i get better balance and posture?! are there any exercises?!

Well, DANCE, ballet, gives you the best posture and balance. I PROMISE! To get on to poin you have to have a flat back and be able to have good balance! See if there are any dance classes near you house!
♥ Michelle

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My friend is acting all weird now because she started to be able to shop at abercrombie and fitch. She acts all like preppy and tries to now hang out with the popular kids. I miss the old her what should i do

You have to talk to her. Tell her how you feel, if she doesnt want to listen then, i hate to tell you she wasnt a true friend. And explain to her that now that she shops at abercrombie, nothing is changing exept her attitude and the other kids only care about looks not personality!
♥ Michelle

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Okay I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. Well I have a few questions....

1) I'm not a virgin but I told him I was. The 1st and only guy I had sex with was very small and I was wondering if my (virgin) boyfriend would be able to tell I wasn't.

2) Also...after sex do things change between the two people?

To answer your questions,
1) no
2) no
♥ Michelle

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i am in two classes that has people that make fun of me so should i just ask my mom to talk to the principal so they can put me in a new classes? or should i stay there?

Aww, just because people make fun of you dont change classes, confront them. You are just as good as them. But if you want to change classes that bad, yes talk to the teacher and have your mom talk to the principal and mybe those kids can get a punishment!
♥ Michelle

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okay im bout 4 9 1/2 grl and weigh bout 80-90 lbs. and i want to become thinner idk why but so many ppl cal me fat so then i start beleving them even though i shouldnt does anyone have a safe way to lose bout 5 lbs and is this normal to feel this way? i rate high unless you give ma a stupid answer

Hey, you dont need to loose weight i promise! But if you really want to, in your p.e. classes try your hardest, dance, dont eat to much junk food.
♥ Michelle

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ok, first of all, let me tell you that i just want to know what y'all think about this - please tell me honestly if you think this guy likes me or not. i usually see answers that 'since i don't know you both, i don't know', but please tell me your gut feeling.

i'm a senior and there's this guy who sits behind me in one of my classes (he's also a senior). i really like him and he can probably tell, but everyday when there's a break in the class or something we end up talking. not just like, 'can you help me with this worksheet' but more personal things. also, when i go through the halls i glance over and he's usually looking at me. from your viewpoint, do you think he likes me?

Aww, he defenatly likes you! And you like him!!
♥ Michelle

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This may sound dumb but I really need help.

I was browsing the internet and remembered a site I had visited earlier called TeenOrg or something like that- it had like chat rooms and articles and stuff. I was pretty sure I remembered it, so I typed in teenorg.com. And viola, a teen porn page appears. Of course I closed it out, but I'm freaked now- my uncle fixes my computer quite often and I'm scared he'll see it.

My internet browser is Mozilla Firefox and my computer is Windows XP. How do I get rid of it?

Go to internet options and click clear history!
♥ Michelle

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