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My name is Kate! I'm 19 years old and I'm a freshman at Penn State Univeristy! I play tennis and love to listen to music. I love to write and I'm planning on majoring in Advertising/Public Relations.

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E-mail: kys5102@psu.edu
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Location: Brodheadsville, PA
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I am a 15 year old guy.. And im wondering how to "eat a girl out" and what it feels like to have sex.. If you could answer it.. it would be great

Hmm don't you have any friends you could ask?Chances are if you have no friends you dont have a girlfriend and you are gonna die a virgin anyway, so I won't waste your time or mine.

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ok i go to carroll middle school and i am 13 well anywas during the christmas break i forgot what the guy that i like looked like but wen i got back i notest that he got even hotter than he was before. if i forgot what he looks like during the christmas break but i think he is still hott and as cute as a baby do i really like him please help i am so comfused.

XxfluffyxX

It sounds like you still like him. You were probably just so preoccupied with christmas and stuff that you forgot.
*Kate*

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I have problems with my nose. I always pick it and people make fun of me ! BUT SOMEHOW I ALWAYS HAVE AN URGE TO PICK IT! kinda like my wedgies ;-) any ways can you PLEASE tell me how to get over this urge!
thanks
nosepicker.

Hahaha I think you should just cut off your fingers.

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Hey I was wondering if anybody knew of any good quote sites besides firehotquotes.com and wittyprofiles.com Thanks!

www.goodquotes.com is a good site!
*Kate*

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Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time??

I think it is normal. I only met my best friend this year, and I feel like I have known her forever.

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theres a guyat school name mitch. A lot of people hate him. But when you get to know him he is really nice. He asked me out. what should i say? I need help!!!!!!!

I think you should go for it. Does it really matter what other people think anyway?
*Kate*

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I'm a dancer and in one of my dances I have to do a high kick and mine isnt that high and I want to improve it. Is there anything I can do to make it go higher?

Strech before and you could do pilates. You can take class at a gym or get a video or book. Pilates will improve your flexiblity.
*Kate*

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Okay..well theres a guy im going out with and its been a month and a half and well, i need to know a way i can break up with him, and well ive seen many questions like this asked before, plz dont tell me to tell him the truth..becuz everyone is saying that, all i need is to know what i should say to him but in a way where he wont hate me because we go back..we are good friends and im afraid if i break up with him it wont be the same :( but ill rate high!
Plzz just gie me some ideas.

Signed, confused4life
xoxo

Just tell him that you really liked being single, and that you guys were closer before you went out and that you would just like to be friends again.
*Kate*

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I'm the one who asked about how to put the icon on ur page....
When I did that it woldn't work...what's the matter?

Hmm Did you get like an error message? or did it say that the file size is too big?
*Kate*

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I'm the person who asked about how to put the icon in your page? And well, this might be a blonde question...but how do you save it I don't understand

Ok If your picture is from a digital camera or scanner it should save the picture in a folser when you upload it, If that is the case you just go to the folder that it is saved( like in My Documents or My Pictures)
If you are using an advatar or a buddy icon from a website, all you have to do is go to that site, and right click the icon and then click "save picture as". Then the save box will open up and you click save. Then when you put it in your proflie settings when you click browse find the folder where you saved it at and click it and then click open!
I hope that answered your question and don't worry I'm a blonde too so don't worry about that!
*Kate*

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i wrote this question befor but i left out somethings. I'm like a tomboy and boys think of me as one of the guys. One of my best friends is the guy i like. People say he likes me. My friends that are girls say he likes. they say they can tell. i cant they say im not girly anough to like a boy. People pick on me about it and some are my crushes good friends. im cunfused can anyone help me.

Who cares it is awesome to be one of the guys, and I used to like one of my best guy friends but he didn't like me as more than a friend. Also don't worry about what other people think, and if they are your chrushes good friends and they are guys chances are they are just messing with ya because they think of you as one of the guys.

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well is it wrong to like someone elses boyfriend? Well, i have this friend who is one of my best friends and she has a boyfriend who i think is wicked hott..and i sometimes have dreams about him but not always. I mean this best friend is wicked nice and i love her to death& i would take a bullet for her..but she has boyfriends all the time & i never had one boyfriend..and i wanna be happy& shes always happy.and im never happy. i mean its not like im gonna go steal him away from her cause im not that kind of friend or girl. but i dont know what to do or think.. should i just forget about this and just keep liken the boy ive been liken for a long time now or what? need some help..

I don't think it is wrong to like someone else's boyfriend. I used to like my best friend's boyfriend, and as long as you aren't gonna go steal him away it is fine, but ask your friend how she would feel if someone dated her ex. Then when it ends if she doesn't care go for it !
*Kate*

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me and my friend got into this huge fight!!! over gym class!! it was sooo stupid!.....now she deosnt talk to me!....how do i confront her abuot this....
help me and i will rate you....you can also answer this in my advice coulmn....but pelase help!!

KristinEmma..

I would first just try to talk to her, and tell her that you don't want to lose your friendship over something so stupid. If that won't work and she just refused to speak to you write her a note explaining how you feel.
*Kate*

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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?!

Haha theres nothing wrong with you sweetheart. That perfectly normal.
*Kate*

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theres this friend I have.. she hates being fat.. she gains weight really quickly.. recently shes been purging.. I tell her the stuff that can happen from doing that and i want to help her stop.. shes been doing ok but she made herself throw up again on christmas and boxing day cuz her parents made her eat alot and she didn't wanna screw their xmas up for them.. I want to help her but i really dunno what I can do for her now...she doesn't listen to what I say about what could happen to her health cuz shes sticking pens down her throat and stuff.. her parents force her to eat meat and she hates meat so she wants to throw that up too.. please give me advice on what I can tell her to help her stop or what I can tell her to tell her parents to be more understanding about her being a vegeterian without letting her parents no what my friend is doing.. thank you so much for taking the time to read this. I hope that you reply to this with helpful advice.. it would be greatly appreciated.. thanks - happy holidays!

Your freind has bulimia. Bulimia is a very serious problem. I thnk you should tell her parents exactly what is going on. She may feel betrayed but later she will thank you.
*Kate*

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is it normal to have little alive white worms in your ass?? im not trying to be sick but i have worms like little tiny white worms, that live in my ass. they make it itch and feel irritable. not to gross anyone out
-silvia

Thats really really bad you need to go see a doctor, because your whold famliy might have them too.
*Kate*

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i have this friend i like.. hes like my best guy friend but i want to be more than just a friend to him.. how can i tell him how i feel?

Just tell him, but don't feel bad if he doesn't want to be more than friends.
*Kate*

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ok well see the thing is i dont have a boyfriend and all of my friends do and all of my guy friends have girlfriends so i feel so extremely left out its like this ok so they have their couples nights and everything so they go out to the movies or hang out at someones house and everything and they always neglect to invite me because yeah im the only person that is single. what should i do?

Have a party for just your girlfriends and just hangout without the guys. Then you won't feel all left out and you'll have a chance just to hangout together.
*Kate*

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hi i asked...
im always sad inside , but no body knows cosz i dont show it... how can i get the emptiness in my heart to go away... signed , confused and lonely.

well i no whats bothering me inside.. its that my X boyfriend has gone out with at least 4 of my best friends.. and now hes going out with my closest one .. lets call her shelly - i think hes just using shelly but i really really still like him and i think im crazy for dumping him =\ i dont no how to tell him this .. can you PLEASE give me as much advice as possible..

signed , lonely - again .

Well first tell some of your friends how you feel inside. I used to hold everything inside until one day i finally broke down in tears and I cried into my friend's shoulder for an hour.
And as for your ex, I think that he is either just trying to make you jealous because he still likes you or that he is a just a total scumbag trying to make you feel bad
*Kate*

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Hey i'm reallyy frustrated cuz everytime i get some type of new clothing my friends call me or something and tell me that they have the same clothes or type of shirt or w/e. I really dont care but they start freaking out over nothing! when i try to tell them its just a shirt they get all mad at me and so i eventually take it back to get a new one. its really frustrating and i dont mean to get the same thing. i try to get over it but they keep bringing it up saying i "copy" them on everything i do. their my bestfriends and it just frustrates me. plz help me i dont know wut to do:-(

Who cares what they think. I don't think it matters as long as you guys don't wear them on the same day. Don't let them stop you from wearing what you want to.
*Kate*

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