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Hey i'm reallyy frustrated cuz everytime i get some type of new clothing my friends call me or something and tell me that they have the same clothes or type of shirt or w/e. I really dont care but they start freaking out over nothing! when i try to tell them its just a shirt they get all mad at me and so i eventually take it back to get a new one. its really frustrating and i dont mean to get the same thing. i try to get over it but they keep bringing it up saying i "copy" them on everything i do. their my bestfriends and it just frustrates me. plz help me i dont know wut to do:-(
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Who cares what they think. I don't think it matters as long as you guys don't wear them on the same day. Don't let them stop you from wearing what you want to.
*Kate*
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Wow.. that stuff happaned in 4-6 grade... are you in between those grades? If not.. your friends need some growing up to do. It doesnt matter what you wear honestly. Just wear what you want just tell them you can wear what you want and your tired of them picking what you can and cant wear-trix
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Don't get fustrated- this shows how close you are to your friends, how you have similar interests and how much you influence each other. Of course you don't copy them, you are simply influenced greatly by them and when you see an item of clothing they have, even if you don't know that they have it, as they were taken by the item, you have such similar tastes in clothing that you are also taken by it. Try shopping with them so that they can tell you if you are about to buy something they have.
Hope I helped,
Zoinatrobe.
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Dont let your friends bring you down and make you return a really great outfit just because they accuse you of "copying" them. just tell them you didnt even know they had that shirt or jeans. They could be lying and saying they have the shirt just because they like it and then they could go and buy it.
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It sounds like your friends are pretty insecure about their clothes. If you all live in the same town and have the same stores to go to, of course there'll be some times when you accidentally get the same thing.
Maybe you could try to look around and see if there are any more shops or clothes that you like. You could look online and find deals there, or make your own clothes if that floats your boat. (I did that for a while, actually.) That way, you'll always be the one with your own sense of style, and your friends can bugger off for a change. You seem to know that it's not a big deal - your friends will just have to catch up to your maturity on this.
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