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okay so there is this guy that i like and i don't know himt hat well yet but i would like to get to know him how should i approach him or introduce myself to him? without feeling stupid? (link)
hey im the same situation as u! hehe.. Maybe you can go up to him with a friend and b like "hey i see u around alot, wats ur name?" or "what grade r u in" or accidently bump into him and start a convo. Or you culd ask a friend of his to introduce you both, casually.


well honestly i just feel like giving up on guys and its not like they dont like me they do but all the ones i want to like me either we "talk" and something happens and we dont work out or we date but only for a short period of time or they just like me as a really good friend or they like me but i dont like them like that. like all the guys lately that ive liked they dont like me as more than a friend .. tell me that im really pretty and dont act so like most girls and i have an awesome personality and im really sweet but they just dont think of me like that or they just dont want a gf right now. my friends tell me i shouldnt give up on them that i should keep looking but i jsut dont know bc i hate it when guys break my heart. im sorry this is sooo long! please help me! (link)
ah i know exactly how u feel~i think a lot of girls feel this way at one point or another in tere life. But don't worry u will findn a guy and they will like u back and u gus will have a great relationship i know it doesnt seem very promising rite now but it will happen just broaden ur range of guys that u hang wit so u have a lot of options and just remember no matter wat ur a great person and they're prolly missing out on someone totally awesome!


Hey, I just started high school and I don't talk to any of my old friends anymore and I've met a lot of new people but i really haven't met anyone realy "like me".. that i share common intrests with. can anyone share with me any of their high school experiences and how they met their best friend or group of friends? thanks (link)
that happened to me sorta i the beginning of frehsman year too but highschool is def. where you find your real true friends. Join a sports team or a club with a friend and hten you can meet other great friends there but also have a friend to sign up with so u have some one u alread knoe wit u that ur comfortable with. Hope everything works out :)


My sister and I used to go to the same middle school. She's only a year older then me. She's a 9th grader and she was planning on going to the same HS (high school) as everyone else that went to my middle school. All of a sudden she changed her mind and went somewhere else. I really wanna go where she's going cuz its a better school but i have THE BEST friends ever right now and im not prepared to leave them and i dont want them to be mad, but i think this school would really help me do what i always wanted HELP ME!! WHT SHULD I DO? (link)
go to the school u want to and on the weekends you can see ur friends and spend time with them. But u shold go to the school u wabnt and u can make great friends there but aslo see ur bst friends.


how long does it take to get your braces off? thanx (link)
depends on how screwed up ur teeth are and how muych work u need done on them


Okay, well me and my boyfriend are pretty close. His friends are my friends and my friends are his. So we all go places and hang out together all the time. Well, it kind of seems like whenever we are together, me and him cant get away from each other! I mean dont get me wrong thats not a bad thing, but I'm starting to think that my friends are thinking that I need to stop being around him so much, and I dont have time for them. I love my friends, and i love my bf, but how can I balance all of those relationships? When me n him are together sometimes we get all kissy and we are hugging and everything and sometimes it feels weird becuase my friends tell me its so cute, but I think they are annoyed. What can i do?

I Will Rate HigH! ThAnKs!
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Maybe find out if they are annoyed first. It seems like it doesn't annoy them much. Ifthey say that it bothers them a bit then you can split your weekends between ur bf and ur friends like maybe on friday nite u can do somehing wit ur bf and then sat spend a day wit ur friens or vice versa. And then somedays you can all hang out as a group as u have been doing, if they wanted to..If it bothered them a lot i donn'tt hink they they would agree to hanging out with you wen ur wit ur bf, but since they say that they wanna i'm sure it doesn'tbother them. I hope this helped :)


Hey. I have a question, well more like I need some advice. Okay. There's this guy Brandon who I met about 2 months ago. Before we met, we talked on the phone and he always said he loved me and would do anything for me. Once we met, I didn't talk to him for about a month. About 2 weeks ago, he IMed me online and said he liked me and all this other crap. Then he got mad because I wouldn't cyber with him. A couple nights ago, he told my friend that he was really sorry and that he wanted to go out with me.

What should I do if he asks me? (link)
If you feel like you like him enough to go out with and can disregard that he got mad because u would't cyber then you should go out with him. If you feel like you can't trust him because he is really undecisive about how he feels about you then say no and tell him why. So basically its a personal desicion. Hope i helped a little, :)


My best friend & I have known eachother forever and tell eachother everything. She has always been against smoking - she thinks it's stupid and it smells horrible. The thing is, all her other friends smoke, but me. Recently, she has started to herself! She has actually given into the peer pressure and she never has before. I used to be so proud of her for standing up for what she believed and not smoking. Now, she's changing and smoking all the time just like her friends. How do I talk to her about this? I'm so disappointed in her but I'd do anything to get my old, brave best friend back. (link)
tell her how you feel, she needs to know that this is bad for her. If you really want to put a stop to this talk to a guidacne counsler or a parent or smeone. She could get some guidance somehwere which would lead her to stop. Tell her how u feel and that u usta be so proud of her that she didn't give in the to the pressure, and that u loved her hte way she was and now u feel like u don't know her anymore. Mayeb you can tell her that u don't wanna b friends wit her if she smokes..(if ur willing to do this..)


i hope you can help me, this girl at my school like hates me, and i mean we didn't like eachotehr for a while but then we became best friends again, but then i find out that she's totally been talking about me behind my back and stuff and like telling all my firends about how mean i am and stuff..waht do i do? (link)
Ew she sounds terrible! You need to confront her about this, no matter how hard it might be. Go up to her when she is alone so she doesn't have any distractions, and tell her what you heard. It could have just been some rumors but it might have been true its good to find out the truth straight from the person. She probably won't admit to it but you atleast should tell her what you heard and how you feel. If you find out from a reliable source that she really is doing this stuff,and you told her how you felt and she still doesn't do anything about it she isn't a very good friend. (it doesn't sound like she is anyway) you deserve much better and just be the better person and try not to hang out wit her. Hope this helped and that she stops being so annoying..if u need n e more help jus drop one in the inbox :)


Hey guys! Oh my gosh, mii homecoming is the 16th, and I am probably going. It is mii first homecoming, and you know..it kinda weird or whatever. Have you guys had your homecomings? What is it like? Well, thanks for the answersz! (link)
haha its mad fun! you'll have a great time. I am not sure if ur homecoming at ur school is the type that u dres up for, or just like a reg. dance. If its the fancy kind i cant help you out sorry butu can ask ppl older than you what it was like last year if u awnna know more about it. I assume its jsut like a reg. dance just more expenseive to get in and ppl dress up. Hhave fun though, it;s really fun!


how can i make homecoming extra fun? (link)
Go with a bunch of close friends, and hav them all sleepover after and rent some movies. Idk how formarl ur homecoming is though so maybe you guys could all go shpping together before hand and stuff. Cuz at my school its not formal at all its just lke a reg. dance. maybe you can brig a camera and take some pix of ur friends too.


Well, Sometimes my friends can be really full of themselves. They can be stuck up and annoying. I love them to death but it bugs me so much. Actually sometimes I like to hang out with my my boyfriend and his guy friends more, but i still need my GIRLYS! please help me figure out a way to not be like them (stuck up ect.) and deal with them without breaking our friendship.
thanx! (link)
Hang out with the guys sometimes and mthe girls tometimes too. If they really start to annoyyou find some other friends to so u can still hang wit them and enojy the things that you like about them but wen u think that they are getting too annoying you can hang out with another group of friends. But if they really realy bother you, then just don't hang wit them n e more and just find an all new set of friends who you can relate to more. Hope that helped :-)


helo it keeps tellin me i gotta inbox (1 new) and every time i clikc on it it says "you have no unanswered questions" what is this and what do i do?! (link)
ask the advicenator person who answers questions specifically about advicenatorsher usename is advicenator_admin


hey do you have any tips on making out? how long does it usually last? will the guy usually feel you up? please answer my questions! thanks a bunch (link)
uhm all i can really say about making out is that it depends on the guy and their style of doing it. Depending on how well you know him and how comfortable you feel and how comfortable he feels he may or may not feel you up. Same with the lenght of time you make out for. Somtimes its quick, but most of the time its sorta long. It could last anywhere from a few seconds to a few minutes depending on how long you both wannna go on for. Sorry if that wasn't much help (cuz i know that makig out is sorta a personal thing so i couldnt really give much insight on it..), but if u have n e more questions about n e thing just drop one in the inbox :)


I'm not sure but how can you tell the difference of love and like.Because i like or love this one boy but i dunno if i love him and most my friends tells me i do even one of my teachers! so my question is how do you know when u love someone and how do you know if they love you back?thanks in advance for even concidering to read this. (link)
haha aw i don't really know if there is a real difference. only you can decide if u like him ir love him. I guess "liking" wuld mean that u just see him a friend but wen u love someone u get really happy to see them and like to talk to them n think that perseon is just really great. So even if ur friends and a teach think u love him, its only aup to u to decide if u do or not. To tell if a guy likes u back its the same way, every guy shows their liking for a girl in a differnnt way. Some guys are really outgoing about it, otheres are immautre or shy about it. Hope everythin works out between u and this guy. :)


hi im 14, im not old enough for to work in a store or anything, but is there anyway i can make sum quick cash? (link)
uhm you could babysit thats a great way to earn money..or be like a dogwalker or someone who takes care of pets for people who either cant do anything with the pets cuz they are at work or wen they leave on vaca or something. You couuld also do something for ur parents and ask if they will pay you. Another good way is to sell some stuff at a garage sale.
http://www.fool.com/teens/teens02.htm that website has a lot of good idea of how to earn money if ur a teen, hope i helped :)


14/f. I'm really starting to like this one guy, Brett. I don't really know him that well. He's a year older than me. We were in band together for a year in junior high and now were in band again together. He makes funny faces at me and playfully sticks his tongue out at me in band. Is this flirting or is he just being himself. He almost never actually talks to me and he's probably said about 10 words to me in the 3 years that I've known him. Is this flirting or is it just him being himself? He's never showed any particular interest in me but he kind of does this stuff with a couple different girls my age. (link)
maybe hes shyling flirting, or he cold just be being himself its hard to tell since u hardly talk to him. Maybe find out rom a friend who he likes, or if ur brave confrton him urself and ask him if he likes u or who he likes


Everytime i leave my 1 year old puppy alone, like when i take my brother to work in the mornings, and there is nobody up to watch him, he always gets into things. Like this morning, he chewed my clock, and my medicine *was way out of reach* was in the floor chewed on. Thankfully he didnt get any of it though. My question is, 1. how can i stop him from chewing on things that he is not suppost to, and 2. is there other way other than locking him up in his carrier? (link)
I think that there is this spray that you can spray on things that isn't toxic but its for dogs and when they lick it it tastes bad to them so they do't tear up whatever it is. My friend used it on her wall, or a part of it cuz her dog was chewing on the walls. Idk much about it though, maybe petsmart would or a store similar to it. As for ur second question, maybe you can put gates up in a certain section of the house and leave him there. Or if its a nice day you can leave him outside in a fenced area with lots of food and water or with a doggie doore leading into a gated area in ur house.


I LOVE YOU YUR SOOOO AWSOME, WILL U BE MY GIRLFRIEND!!! (link)
haha thanks..sure lemme know who u are lol


im 14/15 and i really like this girl. i was kinda flirtin wit her 2day but shes taken. im really good friends wit her bf and i think im already good friends wit her. what should i do??? (link)
well, there is ntohing much u can do since she has a boy friend. If you are good friends wit her boyfriend that is a plus..i guess you could tell him how you feel and see what he says. don't flirt wit her too much though because he mite get upset and then that coudl affect your friendship with him. So for rite now you can't do too much, but since the girl and you are good friens that is good because that could lead to an eventual relatinshop if/wen those 2 break up. Hope i helped




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