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I have a best friend named Amanda, and today at lunch at school she didn't say a word to me so I was like hmm o-well. So I just asked her on aol and here was our conversatoin...

me: Are you mad at me?
Amanda: No, why would I be mad at you?
me: you didn't say anything to me at lunch
Amanda: hmmm yea
me: yea?
Amanda: yea?

Then I told her I had to go...I didn't know what to say...is she mad at me ? What do I do?

maybe she havin problems at home or something..you dont want to nag her more by asking her what's the matter with her...it will just make the problem worst..sooner or l8r she'll come to you and tell you whats wrong..that is if there is something wrong - hope I helped

PS. - it it be the "time" of month for her???

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hi. I have orientation tomorrow and i have to wear a uniform. we are aloud to wear make - up i have black looking hair to my sholder. how should i do my hair and makeup ASAP

um..its kind of hard..you would need to see your face for that matter to see what colors go best with your eyes and structure and all..dont worry, you'll find something :-) ..-hope I helped

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how do you tell when contact lenses are expired?

I'm not sure, I still have glass and I'm not allowed to wear contacts till im older..I'm sure its on the box somewhere or go to your eye doctor and ask them - hope I helped

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My Friend Lied to me telling me he got suspended for acting "pimp" and i knew that u cant get suspended for acting like that. But i had found out by a nother friend that he brought a knife to school. It totally shocked me and i started to cry because wat friend could do that. I'm still mad and frusterated. Now he may be suspended 4 good. im still mad for it should he still be my friend?? Should i trust him??? and I*m mad cuz wat was he gunna do wit da knife!
PLEASE ANSWER IMMEDIATLY!!

If I were you, I say ditch the guy...he lied to you..and he also brought a weapon on to school grounds. Plus if my parents ever found out..I would never be allowed to talk to the guy at all. -hope I helped

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Ok me and my 2 friends lyke this guy and i found out that he lykes me should i go with it cuz i really lyke him but i dont want to hurt my friends! Plz help

Well it was his choice ,and no one elses..I dont see why your too friends should even be mad or hurt or w.e..It may show that they might need to act my like your something..-hope I helped

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I need GOOD grades to get into a certain group, and be consistent about it. Does anyone have study tips or ways I can pull off a good grade by the end of the year?

Do your homework as soon as you come home..yeah I know it sucks...but its helps to do it as soon as u come home..so your done early and you dont have to do it @ 7 PM or w.e and be up till 12 or 1 AM...trying to finsh it, when its 5 hours of work..then you only get 5 or 6 hours of sleep or so...My homework always took me like from 45 up to almost 3 or 4 hours..so when I came home..i made something to eat and started on my homework..then after I was done I was allowed to watch TV, use the computer, the phone and etc..not havin to worry about losing track of time and not gettin it done till 11 PM or so..- hope I helped

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Hey I really wanna run for pres. of student counsil. But I'm not the most popular girl in school...im like the second. And the most popular girl is one of my friends. Should I still run? and if so what should I do to secure my spot in teh position? thanks for ur help!

yeah you should run..you never know what will happen...-hope I helped

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Okay, every single time I walk, my hip like pops. My dance teacher was telling us one time how hers began in high school and she recently had to have surgery. I realized mine is like that too now and I have no idea what to do. Any suggestions? Anyone ever have this problem?

I suggest go to the doctor or something.

- Plz dont rate me..that wasnt very helpful advice..

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Well there is this guy in my dance class ( I swear he's not gay) and I like him a lot and all my dance friends say he likes me and I like him too, and I've told my best friend about him and she said make a move but i don't know if it's right for a girl to make a move on a guy( I don't really think I'll be good at it), plus i think he has a girlfriend and another girl likes him in class(she's my friend too) what should i do...

try goin up to him after class and be like "hey, wanna hang out sometime with some friends in the class?" and see where that takes ya...keep me updated, I would really like to hear how things work out! -hope I helped

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I went to visit my aunt and met this guy and i guess he says he lieks me and when we were in the car he asked when i was going to be his gf and i said i didnt no well i havent seen him for awhile and i call him and talk to him on the phone and i really really like him what should i do becuz i really want to go with him

I'm a bit confused...I don't know what you're asking advice about. Maybe for the fact you haven't seen this guy in a while??..or he isn't that close to you (as in location) or whatever..if you really like the guy then..you'll heart will say yes to him.. :-D - hope I helped

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heyyy every time i straigten my hair in the morning it takes like an hour and its like sooo perfectly straight every morning...but then at school its humid andd it gets all curly and looks bad. do you know why it does this? is it cuz my hair kind of has a natural wave to it or cuz my straigtener is not good enough?? if you know anything thatll help this or why this is happeninng lemme know thanks

I have the same problem..my dad's side of the family has curly hair..and my aunt has really really think wavey hair and all..everytime I straighten my bangs they always curly back out..its sucks..Humidity ALWAYSs does that. It really does suck. Try putting your hair back in a pony tail or something or 2 low braids..thats what I do..but I postly put it in a pony tail..im not a girly girl and all..-hope I helped

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I have all different kinds of friends in such, but i hang out with 2 of them more. Im not a girly girl( and im not a lesbian) i hate wearing skirts and dresses and i really dont lyk really preppy people tha wear houchie skirts and a half a shirt, but maybe tha's juss some of the girls that go to my school. I just don't understand why people wear that stuff when you know its unconfortable. Why wear high heels to school them you could be confortable. THey only dress like that to get guys attention. I don't like cheerleaders either they annoy me. I'm kinda skater and like to do things that girls normally don't do or arent that good at. Me n my best friend r crazy at those kinda things and fit in real easily with the guy crowd. Every place that i go i always get mean looks from preppy girls cuz i don't dress lyk a brittany spears wannabe. Why do you think people corner me cuz im skater and not a barbie doll?

Hello!! they're jealous of you girl!..I dont like to act "preppy" either...but my mom has a stupid thing over "gothic" ppl..and wont even let me bc a sk8r...grr its annoys me so much..then again my oldest sister is like a prep or whatever..she wears dresses to school almost everyday..the only time she doesnt wear then is in the winter..then again..I HATE CHEERLEADING as well..they act a bit gay sometimes..with the stupid "RAH! RAH!! GO GO!! RAH!!! YIPPY!!" shit..lol...they only do it to get guys attention..well pooh on them! lol..I have a descent amount of cool guy friends..and that stuff... then again..this one girl in my class always asks me why I dress like a guy sometimes..and I was about to slap her..and she was one of those so called *cheerleaders*..blah!!..lol..-hope I helped

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i have a gigantic crush (not love) on this guy. but i know nothing will come out of it. i don't want to like him, but my heart is leading my head right now. how do i stop liking him?

I went threw the same problem last year..and for some reason..I still like the guy, but I just don't have feelings for him..its very strange..life is fulled with a lot of complicated stuff..I tryed getting him off my mind by hanging out with other friends, family and doing stuff around the house and joining activites..summer of 2003 I finally got him off my mind...and when it came to the school year..I had changed my lunch period to an earlier lunch period in November..and I found out he was in the lunch period..so for some reason all the stuff I waste my time on over the summer forgettin all about him..came back to me..so you just have to try and keep him off your mind..(trust me this summer I didnt even bother forgetting about him bc I knew I was gonna have the same lunch w/ him again..and ha! here it is 1 week before school starts..and I find out I might be switchin to an earlier lunch..and the one im switchin to is the one he is in..so yeah eekk..(5th year with him..and its a bit of hell! lol)...just try and keep your mind off of him...and focus on studies and all! - hope I helped

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hey ummm.. what does feel him up mean?? everybody says it or like feel her up or w/e! please help i'm a confused girl!

its when the guys slide their hands up your shirt and they feel you..guys like it better with their hands and your body (as in just skin) then..their hands and your shirt..-hope I helped

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u answered my q and i am 14 and i went to the mall with him but was supposed to stay inside n went outside n i gave him head

well..that may explain why she lost your trust...you did that..specially outside in the open..you may have to wait a few days/weeks maybe even months for her to trust you again..for now, maybe asking her nicely..if you can have him over or whatever and your in the living room..so if she's in the kitchen she can easly peek in to see your not doing anything wrong..then maybe after a few vists of him coming over like maybe twice a week..for like 4 weeks she may let you go out again...if she says no..dont give her an attuide or that would just make things worst..-hope I hepled

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ok so my mom found out something i did with my bf long story but i got in trouble and got this whole thing about how i broke my trust with her. so tommroow i am going to my friends n my bf will be there i really wana go and idk how to ask cuz she said i wouldnt be doen anything for a while cuz of what i did. please help i want her to trust me i wish i could just talk to her more all i want is to have fun and to be pushed aside a little. im just a teenager...i make mistakes. please help me soon

well ..it depends..what did you with him..and how old are you? (drop one in my inbox about that)...that mayb the problems..you have to gain the trust back..we all do...."trust" me...If my mom found out I did something with a guy and I got in trouble for it..I would be grounded for the rest of my life!...You sometimes have to pay the price..like the saying "If you the crime..you gotta do the time!"...we all make mistakes..in life special at our age...in the teenage area..we like to experiment with new things..and we tend to get in trouble for them..I know it..sucks..but it is so true- hope i helped

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ok, ive had the samw bf for a year and things are kinda gettin old. We make out alot and i blow him and such...he does return the favor, luckly. But i wanna know how to spice things up..u no so its not so borring...i rate well so plz answer!

um...idk feel him up..uh...experiment with different things..give him a hand job if he wants one..if your ready have sex and stuff like that..im not saying have sex i mean im saying if ur ready for it..do it i guess..i dk -hope i helped

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Ok does anyone think this is wierd..my dad goes in the kitchen cabinet and its like 4 boxes of cereal n he looks at my favorite box and he tellls my mom not to buy them cuz HE DOESNT LIKE THEM..wtf is that?I like the freakin cereal y cat i keep it?...plz tell me if u think thats realli retarded

I dont have that problem..since my dad doesnt eat cereal..but yeah..that kinda is a bit..like WOW :x

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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(

1- always use a condom..never know if he has STDs or some shit like that..
2- he may know when its coming out..but he may not wipe it all off...just a little bit of cum can have a sperm in it..
-hope i helped

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hello. i'm 13 and my parents are divorced. they have been ever sice i was 6 years old. and my dad just remarried a really AWFUL woman! they just had there 1st anniversary. her son is CONSTNTLY making fun of me and my dad just says "deal with it" its taunting a bull at school would do. well to cut to the chase, my mom still had my dads last name and just changed it today. i feel so different now it really makes me sad. i feel like i'm closer to my stepmom than i am her. please help. all answers will be rated a 5 for effort! :`(

well
1- im sorry this happened 2 you :(
2- sit and talk 2 your mom about whats happenin with your step brother...ur dad doesnt seem to notice whats happening..
3- ask ur mom if u can change ur last name to her
-hope i helped

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