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how long should someone wait to have have sex(are b.f. and g.f.)

When they feel ready. You should never have sex with someone if they ask and you say no and they keep asking and asking. You should wait until you know you are ready and know you shouldn't have to ask when someone should have sex.

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i am totally in love. i cant stop thinking about this boy, lets call him Jimmy. whenever i see him, i have nothing to say to him though. what do boys who are 12 like to talk about. im afraid if i dont ask him, i will regret it. all of my friends say he is ugly and make fun of him, but i really really love him. im not sure if he knows though. so my questions are:
what do 12 year old boys like to talk about with girls?
how can i find out if he likes me without saying "do you like me"
and...
how can i stop my friends from says he is ugly and stuff.
thanks so much
12/f

Twelve year old boys may like to talk about sports, cars, school, girls. You can pretty much talk to them about anything.

You can ask him who he likes or hint that you like him by flirting with him. If he flirts back, he probably does like you.

Tell your friends you wouldn't do that to them and it hurts your feelings because you really like this boy. If they don't stop, what kind of friends are they?

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is alcohal that is used in perfumes the same as used in liqour

No, it's like rubbing alcohol.

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Okay, so I'm 14 (female). my friend (15 and female) and I are throwing a christmas/new years party (on new years) and there'll be boys and girls there. We're all 13-15 years old, so no college party stuff. but we dont know what to do. people are bringing b/f's and crushes, all though we dont want to do anything to extreme. does anyone have any good ideas of what to do for the partay???

Playing Twister is always fun. Make sure you get good music, good food, and make sure that the people you are inviting all get along. I'm sure you guys will have fun no matter what you do, but food, music, and Twister is always a must.

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what are some ways i can flirt with guys???
12/f

- smile at them alot
- compliment them
- joke around with them
- tease them
- laugh at their jokes

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ok well i did somthing really mean to one of my former friends and she found out i did it and i want to be friends with her still but how can i be nice to her???

Tell her that you're sorry and you were being mean and rude. Admit what you did was wrong. Hopefully she'll forgive you. It could take some time. Just apologize to her.

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Ok well i have liked this boy since first grade when we were friends((you know how first graders are lol)) and now i still like him. I am in 7th grade and im not going to go to the same high school as him. I want to be more than just friends with him, but i dont want to ask him out if he will just say no to me and make me feel embarrassed. what should i do.

Ask him who he likes. If you really like him, ask him out. Even if he does say no, it's better to let him know how you feel. If you never tell him how you feel, one day you'll regret it. Maybe he does feel the same about you and is just to shy to tell you.

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so i have been friends with this girl(emily) since 1st grade. all of a sudden she has been hanging out with the "popular girls" in our grade. i dont want to brag, but i am prettier and nicer than her, so why dont they wanna be friends with me also. if i cant be friends with them, how can i stay friends with my friend emily?
12/f

Maybe she acts different around them to fit in, so that's why they hang out with her. You should start hanging out with Emily while she's hanging out with them and maybe they'll become friends with you too. If that doesn't work, just keep hanging out with Emily as much as possible. If she starts to change, talk to her about it.

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so i am really fat. any ideas how i can loose weight quickly??i am 12 if that helps

Well, there isn't a way to lose weight quickly. You can walk or jog 15 minutes a day, 4 times a week. You should change your eating habits and stop eating junk food. Drink only water (8 glasses a day). You can do sit ups, leg lifts, or lift weights.


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what are some ways i can flirt with guys???
12/f

- smile at them alot
- compliment them
- joke around with them
- tease them
- laugh at their jokes

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okay, well i think i kinda like this guy. i mean sometimes he can be really mean and everything.. but i just feel like hes the kind of guy that when your alone with him he would be so sweet and kind.. i want to be with him so bad! i dont know what to do or say when im around him, i mean how should i flirt with him what should i do?

Well if he's mean to you why would you try to be nice to him. If that's how he is, he's probably going to be a jerk to you if you two are around your friends.

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i have to read isaac's storm by next week and im only half way through the book.. anyone that has read it.. can they tell me what are some main points?

www.bookrags.com

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Ok... here is the problem ok... Well I love this boy and like, Him and I got into a fight because I kicked him and now he is all mad at me and like he really likes me and cares about me SOO much, more than anything in the world.. him and I have been friends since 4th grade... but like he wants to be my friend so bad again but he swears at me he ditches me he kicks me and he also pulled my hair out and slapped me.. I don't know if I should be his friend again if he cares about me that much and if I should, Should I be his friend again?


~*+*Dri*+*~

Wait, are you serious? He is mad at you for kicking him, but he can kick you, slap you, curse at you, and pull your hair out. I'm sorry, am I missing something? Do I think you should be his friend again? NO. He isn't a good friend and he's the biggest hypocrite in the world.

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my boyfriend and i have been together for a year nnow, i love him so much. but my problem is i have had dreams that ive been making out[and more] with guys (that i know like me) and in my dreams i feel happy when i cheat, but when i wake up i feel horribl. anyone know what is going on?
15/f

To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is a reaffirmation of your commitment.


I also read that if you have a dream with another person in it that's not your spouse, not to worry, they don't mean anything in the dream.

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K so I hung out with this kid today.. and we amidiatly hit it off (that I know of) and we hung out all day. and he held me and we kissed and everything.. But he always teases me by looking at me but not kissing me and just looking away in a teasing way. Well Im not sure if he likes me if he is playing me or what. I have really bad trust isues because I have been hurt by so many guys. I would really like to think he really likes me, because If so id like to go out with him maybe! What should I do? Im going to be seeing him tomorrow also!

It does seem like he likes you. When you hang out with him again tell him you like him or ask him if he likes you. I guess that's the only way to find out for certain if he does like you.

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please dont judge me for this iam looking 4 help not to be yelled at. i am 15 and a smoke. i want to knoe how can i quit?

http://www.thetruth.com/index.cfm?seek=facts

Maybe that will help you quit. Just think of all the negative things smoking does to you. Try to keep your mind off of it and get rid of any signs you had of it. If your friends smoke, ask them not to smoke around you. Chew gum when you feel like having a cigarette.

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Ok, this is a total random question and is basically for anyone who has seen a ballet. Im in my ballet studio's The Nutcracker and Im the sugar plum fairy, I was wondering should I smile? would it make it less graceful or better?

I don't think so.

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what is Cellulite ??

A fatty deposit causing a dimpled or uneven appearance, as around the thighs and buttocks.

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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had.

Maybe he broke up with you because he didn't think you loved him since you never told him. Talk to him and tell him everything you told us on here. If that still doesn't work, atleast try to be friends with him. He isn't worth it if he just dumped you for no reason then dated another girl. Good luck and don't kill yourself, that's very selfish. You aren't thinking about how it's going to affect your family and friends. You are only thinking about yourself.

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i have these like marks on my boobs, i thin their stretch marks..when do the go away?

15/f

They will go away in time. You can put Cocoa Butter or Vitamin E lotion on them to make them go away faster.

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