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hey,i'm Nicole. I'm 23 years young. I'm from New York...i do the best i can on giving advice on this site.drop one in my inbox n i'll get to it as soon as i can.i like spending time with friends, shopping,and playing soccer. my interests are music, singing and dancing.

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*15, Female*
my parents want let me ride around w/ my friends that are like 16 17 18...and it makes me mad...i mean when i go to my friends house i ride around w/ them...and my mom doesn't know...and then i feel like a dork when my friends call and ask if i can go and i have to be like *my mom want let me ride w/ ppl* and it jst pisses me off! ahh!

idk...wat can i do to get my mom to let me ride w/ my friends??

i think that you should try to convince your parents that you're a responsible teenager. when you explain to them,keep your temper,don't be sarcastic, and dont get to into an attitude.
hope i helped,

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my friend Jay invited me to this party saturday night then a few mins later he said that I might not be able to go bc this girl that I don't along with will be there. But if i did wanna go I will have to ask this other kid. But me and this other kid aren't really friends. he's just planning it and the party is at jay's. So should I go?? Jay is afraid the girl will start stuff with me and there will be a huge fight. sry if this is confusing but thanx for the help

who cares about if u and her dont get along?! it dont matter. dont let her keep u frum having a good time! i think you should go and have a good time. hope i helped,

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its so wierd...whenever i like a guy, i sooner or later get the feeling he likes me too. i've been right a couple of times, but i just think its wierd. does anyone else feel this way? i mean...if i do make this assumption, and i am wrong, i feel so hurt. this may sound stupid, but is there anything i can do about it?

please answer....i always rate well :)

-britski-

heyy,it's not that wierd. i can tell when a guy iz gonna break up w/ me. i'm alwayz right. i've never been wrong. to see if he truly lyks u as a friend or more than a friend, hang out with him and first become his friend and if you like eachother more than friends,ynot take a chance and go for it?!
hope i helped,

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Ok, My names Mike and I was wondering, I'm a very random person and will do anything to get a laugh from anyone. So. I do alot of random stupid things just to get a luagh, but sometimes the things I do make people think I'm just a retard. So, I'm wondering if anyone thinks that people like me are funny and great to have aound? And what I mean by people like me is, people with no care of what people think and will is unhibited and will act wild and crazy just for kicks.

being random is kool. my ex bf,his name wuz mike, and he was totally random! that's y i loved him soo much!just be yourself and don't ever change for anyone!!!hope i helped...

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would it be bad to be a pimp for halloween???

it's not badd,it's kool and u just gotta get sum gurlz ta dress up az hookers,it would be awesome. i say go for it!

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Well theres this guy who i was friends with then we started dating. Me and him were the best of friends and when him and my friend were dating i was always there for him to talk to him and all that, now that we had broken up we really dont talk anymore, i love him alot but only as a friend and he loved me too as a friend until we broke up, when we were friends i cpuld talk to him about anything and he was always there for me but the whole dating each other didnt work and i am afraid i have lost a really really good friend, i have asked him if we could go back to how things were just being friends and helping each other but he just tells me no and he dont wanna talk about it. what should i do i want him back as my friend if nothing more?

you should tell him that you wanna be friends. it is probably good 4 u to have a guy friend around that you can talk to. just talk to him and see if he will.hope i helped

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How do I clean my kids' bathroom, when the thought of going in there sickens me?

tell them to do it,after all it is their bathroom, hope i helped!!(plz rate me!)

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hey i was wondering, does hem on pants look rele bad? i'll rate!

u cant see the hemming on pants, the extra fabric goes on the inside!!!

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I think i am very fat. I am 5'1 and i weight 110 pounds..all my friends are tall and they weigh more than me but are skinnier than me. They are all 13 and i am still 12. Sometimes I feel like I am the fattest 12 yr old in the world. Do you think there is a way I could slim up my body? If so could you tell me how? I would really appreciate it.

you can work out, like running and situps and possibly aerobics. if u like music n dancing, when you're alone,you can dance.also dont eat so much bread cereal and pasta. try salad and meat. they have protein and protein helps you grow(as you get taller you get skinnier if u didnt have a growth spurt yet).also,if you like dressing,try to get low fat dressings.
hope i helped,

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I'm 15, and I'm a 32D/DD. I wear a pant size 3 tho. I'm not FAT. I need to know if anyone knows any good stores for swim suits! I have a problem where I can never find a good suit because either the top is too small or the bottoms are too big. I like it when they sell them seperately. A lot of stores dont sell Xlarge tops too. I NEED HELP

heyy,its ok if ur curvy n stuff,check out online stores like billabong,they sell them seperately mostly. online is the best way you can go. hope i could help.

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Does black really match with anything?

jeez...i cant believe u dont kno thiz!black matches w/ pretty much evrything except fer deep prple,deep green, n deep blu! hope i helped,

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my best friend is really kewl and everything but she's stubborn and she wants to have sex but she just turned 14 and she doesn't even have a boy frined but how do i talk to her about the dangers and stuff?
signed,
confused

tell her about STD's and how if ppl find out they'll call her a slut and a whore...also about how she might get pregnant and her other friends might get mad at her. and if she sayz lemme do wut i want..say "i hope your parents dont find out", so your kinda scarin her outta it...
hope i helped,

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i dont know why, but my boyfriend dumped me. its been lyk 2 weeks. my friend asked him if he would go out w/ me again. he said he didnt know. i called him 1 or 2 timez and he said he wanted to hang out soon. o yeah, the reason he dumped me wuz b/c we didnt c eachothr alot...ok, anyways, do you think we still have a chance or not?plz tell me!thanx

idk...hang w/ him n c wut happens.hope i helped

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What is Birth control and what are the side affects?

heyy jessi...idk but tell me the ansers if u get good 1's alryt?

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My 14th birthday is comin up soon and i want to get my belly button pierced for my birthday because i have a nice body and with my belly button pierced, it would look really good. My parents said i couldn't get anymore piercings cuz i already have three piercings on my left and right ears and one more piercing on the top of my left ear. I really want my belly button pierced and i dont know how to convince both of my parents to let me get it done. Can someone please help me out lol? One more thing, if anyone would like to tell me how you get your belly button pierced like how they do it and etc, that would really help so i can show my parents and maybe they would let me get my belly button pierced.

Thanks

alot of ppl want to get their belly buttons pierced. you should talk to your parents. say stuff like "i will clean it 3+ times a day" and "you can come w/ me",stuff like that. ask them if it could be part of your birthday present. show them that you're responsible and keep a good temper and control yourself...they might say yes! hope i could help!

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hey. i have REALLY short legs. &its really annoying. i know this sounds weird, but is there anyway to make them longer? i just hate having such short legs because i can't find pants! if you help me i'll rate you!

ok, you try on pants at the store, make sure they fit at the waist. then, you just have your mom take them to a tailor and hem the bottoms so your legs can fit! hope o could help,

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ok . heres my deal , im going into high school on aug. 23 , and i really want to get a boyfriend for the first time cuz ive never dated b4 . im getting braces to which might turn a guy off . how can i get a boyfriend evn tho braces r a total turn off

braces might be a turn-off...but just because you have braces doesnt mean a guy wont like you. get colors...if your eyes are a light color, get colors that match them. if they are a dark color, get a light color that you look good wearing. hope i could help, Niki Lyn

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Should i let my friend come up my shirt..? hes always like bringing my boobs up.. were not goin out but we flirt a rly lot.. Hes always hinting.. He really wants to.. Shuld i let him!? plz help i have no idea wut to do
(( im 13 ))

i think you shouldn't...b/c you could get into somthing serious. it's your choice but 13 is kinda young for that...
hope i could help

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volleyball tryouts are this week and im really scared i wont make it. I think about it non-stop and it gets me even more nervous and upset.
How do i stop this!?!
HELP

believe in yourself...self confidence! if you believe you can make the team,you can make the team! just be positive! if you dont make it, practice and try again next year...no bigg! hope i could help

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here i go:
okay my best friend...."Nancy"....well we have been friends for about 3 years and well we have a lot of fights about stuff!! we just recently had a fight and she said "we have 2 many fights" and she hasn't been talkin 2 me a lot usually she is the one approachs me and says "hi" but now i'm sayin "hi" only she won't talk 2 me!! i said 2 her okay u wanna b like that fine so i haven't talked 2 her!!! what should i do?? she is gettin on my nerves and she is actin like a child, i am 2 mature for this kind of childish behavior!!! Lemme Kno!! :)

xoxo,
.*.BeSs.*.

talk to her. ask her if she's mad at u...if she sayz yes,ask her what you did. if she says no, ask why she isnt talking 2 u...she may not want to be your friend anymore...dont let that get you down. tell her how u feel...hope i could help

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