HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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hey my crush an i e-mail a lot, and he never sent me an email on my birthday yesterday..
so i dont wanna seem like a dominant chick, but i still wanna remind him that he forgot it!
so is there a kinda funny way to let him know..that will make it less like im yelling at him or what not.. like anyway of saying in a humorous way that "duude you forgot my birthday!!"
thank you for your replies. (link)
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When youre hanging out give him a cute mean attitude and say "um,thanks for saying happy birthday" and then hell probably be like oh im so sorry i forgot then just laugh it off and say its ok OR you can have a freind walk up to you when youre hanging with him and let her say happy birthday to you.
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is it bad to suck in your stomach like all day? can it cause damage to your lungs or anything? (link)
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No way.Its actually good if you can keep it up if you have a big stomache and you keep sucking it in,your stomaches muscles will tighten up and get used to this and make your stomach somewhat flater.
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Well, I recently got a boyfriend, and my mom doesnt know. She is kindof uneasy about that kind of stuff, and I dont know how to tell her, in a nice manner. any ideas?? (link)
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Tell her that you really like this guy at first and how much he means to you and when he asked you to be his girlfreind you couldnt help but say yes.Tell her your mature enough to be in a relationship.But dont expect to not get a lecture if youre 13.
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16/f. please help im addicted to ice cream! whenever i see it, i have to have it. and im always eating it. i could eat a whole carton at once and its really bad because i dont think i would be the weight i am now if i wasnt so obsessed. how can i stop my craving/obsession with it? please dont say take it out of the home because i have 6 other family member who still want it. (link)
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You need to swear to yourself youre not going to eat it again for a week THEN you can eat again.Do you know that you can get diabetes?Thats a really dangerous disease you can get from eating to much sugar,and diabetes makes your teeth fall out and other scary things.And when you get that disease you cant eat ANYYY sugar or you might get a comma.Stop before its too late.Your health is at risk.And your love life too.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months now. Are relationship is normally awesome. But lately he has been accusing me of cheating on him with my best friend who is a guy (who is really hott) His looks has nothin to do with our friendship. But I am completely dedicated to my boyfriend and only him. I tell him that time and time again. But the only way our relationship is going to last is if he accepts the fact that my best friend is going to always be a big part of my life. So if anyone had any suggestions on how to get my boyfriend to understand it would be really appreciated. (link)
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I think you should tell your boyfreind how much he means to you and that his jealousy is going to ruin your relationsip and that you can never see the other guy as more than a freind.He probably talks to freinds that are girls too and your not jealous because you KNOW he loves you.Tell him it wouldnt be fair if he ruined your freindship with your guy freind and that he wouldnt like it if you did that to him and his freinds.
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I met this Guy at work, he was doing work on the renovation. We started talking and hit it off, and I started to really like him. Well the day came when he had to leave, so we said our goodbyes and told each other we'd really miss each other, He told me 'its never goodbye, i'll see you later' It made me realize how much I like him.. I left without getting contact information.. and he lives three hours away..and hes unlisted..I don't know how to get a hold of him, other then finding the company he works for.. so the question is Should I, or should I just let fate take care of it?.. (link)
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And why not try to get his info and talk to him.Romance and love are like a train and you should catch it before it leaves you.This guy could be meant for you,you never know!Get the name of his company and get his phone number and talk to him online too.Even if he lives far away you can find a way to get to meet him,even if its twice a week you going there and twice a week he comes and visits you.
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i cut i do it because i am stressed life is really hard right now for me and i just have the desire to cut and i think it is time and find a better emotional outlet.i am not doing this for mysellf i am doing it for my friend she cuts and i cant stand to see her hurting and stuff.but i i am a hipocrite if i just tell her to stop since i do it.so i know i nee to get help before i can help her.
serios answers only please its not funny so dont make it seem like it is
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OK let you know that cutting yourself is NOT ging to make you feel better.Its only going to get you skin disease and scar your skin,not only your skin but your life because when you look at the scars on your skin when your older youll remember the past and itll be worse.Open up to someone about your problems or take it out by puncing something.You didnt really say what was annoying you but id be glad to help you more,i have myspace,msn and yahoo.
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I am a 20 year old female college student. I have been dating this guy for almost three years. His parents adore me, his brother likes me and im practically best friends with his sister. Usually, it's the mother or father that don't like the girlfriend, but in my case, it's his grandma! She'll say rude and mean things like "your nose is big too" or "well, as long as he likes your body, thats all that matters" (after telling my boyfriend's sister how skinny she is.) I respect her and have never had a problem with her until now. We are in a serious and committed relationship, but im afraid his grandma will say something to him or ruin our future. What should I do? (link)
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I think you should tell your boyfreind that your grandma says a lot of mean things and tell him all about her so hell know afterwards how shes like if she evers says something "wrong"I think your grandmas mean because belive it or not she can be jealous seing you pretty and she remembers that back in her days she was pretty and now that shes getting older,shes jealous.Just dont pay attention to what she says.
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I'm in High school and I should be in collage soon. I have good grades and me parents think I should go to collage but I want to get married and have kids after highschool. I don't see the point in spending all that money if I am not going to work. Should I go anyway to please my parents? (link)
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Ill tell you why you should go.SAY one day your married and you have a fight with your husband and you end up divorced and you have TWO kids and he decides to be an ass and not pay ANY money for you 3.What are you going to do?How are you going to get a REAL job thatll support you three?You never know WHAT will happen tomorow so you should always have a college diploma in case.Even if youre not going to work now.And if you decide to work,its better because youll depend on yourself.
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ok well...im not breaking up wti him because i AM ready for a relationship just i dont know if i want it with him...bcuz he always tries to hug me and kiss me and everything but there are sometimes i just need my space...and yeah...i already told him and i know hes only doing it because he loves me and all but ... like i said - sometimes i need space... and theres another thing...his breath smells BAD but i dont know how to tell him without embarassing him or getting him mad or anything...what should i say to him about the whole cuddling thing and the whole breath thing??? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help!!
Love ,
K y r a (link)
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Look,stay with him IF you like him.But dont be with him if you just think your ready for a relationship.Because you can be ready for a relationship alright,but you might not LIKE him.If you like him,then be with him but as for his breath(ew)ha ha.I have an idea,theres this game me and my freinds play called skeleton in the closet.You ask the other person ANY question (you can change the rules to this game a lil and make Both players have to answer the same question,say he asks a question,you both will have to answer )and they have to swear to only tell the truth.You first ask him what is the only thing you dont like about my appearance(looks)....let him answer first so he dont get suspicous THEN you answer him and say i think you look great,i just think you have kinda bad breath,thats it.Its HONEST and itll be part of the game so,its the nicest way to tell him.
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im probably not going to have sex for a VERY long time but im just curious - does it hurt? (link)
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When you have sex,the muscles down there tighten up and if you are nervous before having sex the muscles downt there will tighten before you do anything and when you finally do,itll hurt so you have to relax.If youre a virgin then its going to hurt a little getting your cherry popped.
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Alot of my friends and I really want to know what people think would be too young for oral sex not all the way just oral but yea it's still pretty bad i guess it's just there are so many girls at my highschool even lots of freshmen that have been involved with this kind of activity at almost every party we've been too i hate to say there sluts cause that would mean almost our whole school are sluts. Just guesstimating we would say that at least 75% freshmen girls are sexually involved
Is this normal? (link)
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This is not normal for them because they do this with their boyfreinds,break up ,do it with their other boyfreinds break up till they get STDs.Its like killing yourself slowly.In my opinion i think that you should only do this when youre married because if you do it now,theres nothing going to be so awsome about doing it when your married so its kinda like save the best for last with me.And what drives me CRAZY is ppl that are 16 and younger that do this,especially 13 year olds.Ive seen alot of 13 year old cases here and it drives me CRAZY.They barely know what SEX is and yet they do it without even thinking about the consenquences.
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I'm really ugly, schools about to start and I want a make-over. I've got back-length black hair. Any suggestions? (link)
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All you mentioned was how your hair looks and theres a lot more to looks than hair.For your hair you can layer it and have red highlights.Red highlights on black hair are AMAZING.If you have a big forhead then you should have short bangs,you know the song my humps,the girl fergies bangs??Thats the kinda bangs you should have if you have a big forhead.But if you have a small forhead make your bangs long.Tell me more about how you look if you want more help.
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So I've been dating this amazing guy for about five weeks. We click better than I have with any other guy. We have such an amazing relationship and no we haven't said the "love" thing because it's stupid and too early. But there's a dilema...
He got grounded for getting caught throwing a party with his brother at his father's house when they were gone....now he's grounded for three months and we haven't seen each other for three weeks now. We were supposed to yesterday but then things fell apart and he doesn't blame me at all and he tells me how much he misses me but I do think that this not seeing each other will affect the relationship...
DO you think so?
I don't know we text and talk on the phone all the time but is that enough?
Help...advice on what to do. (link)
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If you really DO love him then i suggest you wait for him.These 3 months could help to get to know eachother a lil better.
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ok. i have brown hair, it's almost a chestnut color, and it's a little past my shoulders, i also have side swept bangs. i sort of want a new haircut for school, but i'm not sure what kind.
if anyone has any ideas for a cute new haircut, please send a link to a picture.
THANK YOU! (link)
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www.beautifulhairstyles.com go to the bottom of this websites page and youll find what you want
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what is the best program for downloading music? (link)
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Limewire,i have it and its great,warez is crapped up and takes up a lot of space on the computer.
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i know this is really weird but are there any bras who can make your boobs look smaller? (link)
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Probably sport bras.
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ok so there is this boy who is two years older than me (im 16) he has a gf who is 20, they pretty much only date for sex.
i like him ALOT and i have liked him for a long time. he is always flirting with me and being nice and all of my friends swear that he likes me. he has told me he thinks im pretty and that if he didnt have his gf he would date me. it almost hurts me inside because of how frusterated i am. i am a very prude girl and wouldnt take advantage of a guy, (his girlfriend treats him like dirt) he told me that he has trouble breaking up with girls because he doesnt like to hurt them.
if i have an opportunity to hook up with him should i go for it?
p.s. his girlfriend cheats on him (link)
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I dont think you should be with him now,until he breaks up with her.Because if he cheats on her with you,he will one day cheat on you with another.Help him break up with this woman.Tell him that shes not worth it and that shes cheating on him then tell him how you feel towards him and that if he dont feel the same youll understand.
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Ok, this might be long so I'm sorry hehe. Im 15 and female and have been with my boyfriend for a year. When we first got toegther he was really romantic and sweet (imporant thing for me) and it was great and we were getting on really well. Now it seems as if he couldn't care less about us. We only see each other twice a week...if that. Everytime he leave to go home I end up in tears because i feel like things are beyond repair. He often makes little comments which make me feel like crap, he also brags a lot which make me feel worse because he has a lot of money and gets a lot of things. He spends a lot of time with his mates and has said in the past that they come before me, which is fair enough. He doesnt very often make the effort to see me so I'm always changing what I'm doing for him. All the romantic stuff is gone, and I guess I just feel like he would rather be with someone else. I havent told him any of this because in the past if I have had a problem with him he acts like he is perfect and thats its my fault and then makes me feel like im some kind of paranoid-weird girlfriend. I want this to all work out because I love him so much and I know deep down he loves me too. But if he doesnt start showing that he cares then I'm going to have to let go..... if i can that is because its failed int he past.... any advice is very much appriciated! thank you! :) (link)
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OK you need to plan out what you are about to say to him.Tell him that your relationship is going down and that you love him very much and that you want this to work.Ask him if he still loves you and all.Tell him about the comments he makes that piss you off and that if he aint got nothing nice to say then dont say nothing.Tell him to stop denying things if he does and if it dont work out,dump him before he dumps you.Hes not the last guy youll meet.There are pleanty of guys that are dying for a girl like you.He needs to know that your not just any girl for him to treat you like that.
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do you have and aol screenname so i can ask you anything i need help with or anything on there? (link)
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No:( not aol,cuz where i live aol dont work because im not in america lol.I have myspace,yahoo and msn though.You can download yahoo easily and myspace....everyone has it.If you go on yahoo.com and download yahoo mesenger you can add me there.
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